Fresh tax year fresh diary ( i cant locate my other one) :D

Happytogetdebtfree

I've got a 0% cc in my name which means that I can focus all money on secured loan and if I manage it correctly I could be free by June 2014 :-))))

OrangeFairy

Well done Happy- that's great news!

That really isn't very long at all!

Will that change if you fall pregnant?

Fingers crossed xx

OF x

Happytogetdebtfree

It might Change a little but the main focus is getting rid of it all, it's best to take advantage of all 0% credit. The dfd is based on my basic wages and oh's so it doesn't account for unsocial hours or bonus's. if I'm really lucky I might get it cleared for march that would be something xx

Choc-addict

Any news Happy?!! xx

Happytogetdebtfree

No nothing 2 days late hight temp !!! im getting annoyed with it x How are you x

Choc-addict

It's so frustrating when you are late. I was three days late on one cycle and convinced it was my turn only for the wicked witch to show her ugly face! Grrr!

FC for you lovely, I really hope this is it for you.

Me - i've been referred to gyne. I have regular periods 28/29 day cycles but they have recently changed. Won't bore you with details but they are not easy, painful and heavy. Doc said positive is that they are still regular and on time (most months) but she's concerned about the change so i'm being sent to be checked out further. Don't know what they'll do as i've had bloods, ultrasounds etc through gp so i'm not entirely sure what else can be done....guess at least i'm in the right specialist area she also noted on her referral about us trying to conceive and fertility so i'm taking it all as a positive step.

I'm hoping that this month will be our month and I won't have to worry for a while!! Although reality is, it's prob not likely.

Hmmmm

Keep us posted lovely. This ttc stuff along with being MSE and clearing debts is all consuming! xx

Happytogetdebtfree

WELL mother nature has appeared im ok i was upset at first and angry that my body had played this trick ! but its another month of weightloss at least and i will take faith in that it will happen when it happens! Its truly demoralising, i need to loose weight that could be a contributing factor i just really thought it was my turn. I think this mont i wont chart temps and just do it every other day and not look for signs putting to the back of my mind as hard as it sounds xx

Choc-addict

Oh hon, i'm sorry. It's so upsetting when you all you really want is a baby and no matter how you try and focus on the positive sides i.e. weight loss, more debts cleared etc etc the crux of it is we want a baby and when it doesn't happen it's upsetting :(:(

I am trying to focus on other things like finances, starting new hobbies (knitting being one), exercise and planning future events (within reason). I refuse to put my life on hold with what if's. If/when it happens any plans that need to change can be or postponed if I can't do them whilst pregnant. Its all consuming and can take over if it's the only thing I have to think about. If that makes any sense??

I think taking a more relaxed approach is better for us. I don't use anything like ovulation sticks, temping etc just aim for regular you know what and keep fingers crossed. Am working on making healthier choices food and drink wise and exercising 3 times a week. That way if it does happen i'm feeling at my best.

That said, all of the above is brillant but it's soooooooooooo hard not to get your hopes up each month!!!!!

Take care, Choc xxxx

jwil

Sorry to hear about that Happy, fingers crossed it happens soon.

I think not 'trying' too hard sounds like a good idea this month. Just have fun practising without all the temps etc. You hear so often about people relaxing about it and it just happens. Easier said than done I'm sure.

Happytogetdebtfree

Thanks ladies :-) xx