hello help needed

fc123

money_penny_26 wrote: »

how will i get through it.i cant bring myself to talk to him.i will but i will never sleep tonite. i feel like im ramting on an i dont even know you all.how strange complete strangers are listening to me,i am usually a closed book

I just read the thread. Money Penny, stay on this board as there is fantastic advice on what to do next.

There is no shame in bankruptcy at all, none.

People on here can advise you on the whole procedure, step by step.

They can help with your budget, everything.

Wishing you well...

Sunny_Bear

we are here to help, we have all come on on our darkest days and there is always someone around, weve been there, got the t shirt so to speak!!!!

You will get through it, you really will. Its money at the end of the day, you cant go to prison for being in debt, its not your health and bankrupcy is there for us when we get in this situation xxx

money_penny_26

hubby back...very upset never seen him like this,not since we were youngan his mum passed away....he has gone in other room an my friend gonr to talk to him.how awfull to be telling you all my business he may be cross but i need help to talk to someone whilst i calm down

Holes_in_my_pocket

Every journey starts with 1 step and your journey has started joining this forum .

1 question at a time and we will help and are all in the same boat or have been plenty of help on here

money_penny_26

im just going to talk to him please keep there,an i will tell you wat he says..am i been selfish making you stay..oh well

powell16

hello MP

when he comes home you need a long long chat about everything, bankruptcy is a very scary prospect and i was really ashamed of it, i felt like i had a sticker on my forehead saying BANKRUPT, but we only told close family and i dont think anyone else knows and if they do and think any less of us then thats there problem.
you need to take advice form one of the debt charities, and take each day as it comes, you will get through this, it may not feel like it right now, everyone on this forum is fantastic and will help you all they can, they give the best advice, so ask away, someone will have the answer or guide you in the right direction.
take care,
sally x

Sunny_Bear

everything you say here is totally anonymous so dont worry about that. xx

he will be upset, he'll be upset hes upset you, hes worried too about whats going to happen now etc, but please dont be cross with him, unless the debt is from gambling or being reckless or something. He prob thought he was doing his best.

Sunny_Bear

thats fine, not going anywhere xxx

december

I always felt I could say what I wanted to say on this forum without being judged. No-one will make fun of you, everyone is here to help and a number of people will have been in a similar position to you. You're not alone.

December

gettingbetter

hi

just popping back and forth
hope you get everything worked out
you need to be together in this

kas xx