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  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    Keep going......every problem HAS a solution no matter what
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • i feel foolish rambling on, but my friend is making me,
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    Good....keep going it all helps EVERYONE here is behind you
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • Dizzymum_3
    Dizzymum_3 Posts: 81 Forumite
    Hi money penny

    the people here are amazing, they have helped me so much the last few weeks.
    Your not alone

    x
  • been married 30 years an i shouted at him, an he has gone up to his garage to do his weighys.dont laugh.he is fit you see...pity im not
  • Sunny_Bear
    Sunny_Bear Posts: 404 Forumite
    hi lovely, you are in shock, thats completely normal, have a cup of tea (Or even a stiff drink!) and let it all out, no money problem is worth this, it CAN be sorted, just give yourself time to get your head round it xxxxxx
  • i hope he comes back. i was swearing at him.an usually i am a lady
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    i hope he comes back. i was swearing at him.an usually i am a lady

    we all react to bad news in different ways...he'll be back hopefully
    (us blokes can be VERY stubborn when we're tryin to ask for help)
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • sieve
    sieve Posts: 1,095 Forumite
    You've taken the biggest step, starting to talk about the problems you're going through. That takes a lot of guts to start with, even if it is just on a forum like this to start with.

    We are all here to help, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel, and now that your husband has been honest about his debts and there's no hiding anything, you can only go onwards and upwards from here.

    :)
    BR 08/04/09 | ED 02/10/09 :grin: | BSC 255
    I made it through! :grin:
    Don't ignore a problem. Unlike a bad smell, it won't eventually go away.
  • gettingbetter
    gettingbetter Posts: 1,449 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    when you feel up to it
    post up your SOA so we
    can work out how to help you

    someone will post the link for you
    (am at work and cant find it lol)

    kas xx
    br no 188 ;) AD 17th apr 09:D
    :Dmortgage free 22/5/09:D
    :Ddebt free 11/8/09:D
    :j#18 £2 saver = £ :T sealed pot #333
    silent member of mikes mob
    i will lose weight :rolleyes: i will sort my house :o
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