MSE Pregnancy Club VIII

searching_me

originally posted by Sami-bee
i threw a pot of sudacrem at him but I missed on purpose, he threw the tv remote back at me and it almost hit my stomach (I was about 10wks then) and bounced almost hitting Chris, that was the time he cried etc and he made the effort to do his hypno stuff for a bout 2 mths after. I know it is a red mist thing and not that he's a horrible person who thinks its ok to do this tho...

darlin it maybe red mist but whos to say that the next time that red mist happens it may miss you or chris but a newborn cant dodge flying objects x

elle_gee

I'm not advocating it (not a fan of the "rinse him for everything!" method myself) but remember as you are married and you've been staying at home bringing his child(ren) up you'd get a fair bit (half? more than half?) of that if it came to it. Don't need to think of it as "all his"..

Do you have something fun planned for tomorrow? Just you, you and Chris or all three of you?

Sami_Bee

searching that's why I didn't react at all today but I know what you mean, it can't go on as it is

Elle fun tomorrow? nope! I've got my blood test at MW but if I feel ok afterwards I think I'll suggest mum, Chris n I go into town so I can trade in the old xbox and games etc

searching_me

sorry if i sound condsending i dont mean to its just something i feel very strongly about after years of watching my step-dad get red mist anger then being really nice after it just gets to me and i hate to think of anyone coming even remotely close to it x

money_maker_3

sami, don't really know what to say as have never been in that situation, but HUGS to you and you know we are all here for you to talk to

money_maker_3

Sorry to post and run, but I am away to bed, will catch up with you all tomorrow and hope things are better
xx

Sami_Bee

searching_me wrote: »

sorry if i sound condescending i dont mean to its just something i feel very strongly about after years of watching my step-dad get red mist anger then being really nice after it just gets to me and i hate to think of anyone coming even remotely close to it x

Its ok hun I know where you're coming from

I'm gonna go now, hands and feet are swelling as they do every night now
I need to try and be as energetic as poss tomorrow coz blood tests completely wipe me out usually

Thanks for all your support ladies :kisses3:

searching_me

well you know where we are if you ever need to chat and you have friends and were all here for you x

elle_gee

Night night MM and Sami xx Like searching said, we're here if you want us

OH appears to be planning an early night - seems to have escaped him that we haven't had any tea yet!! Ah well, I've been snacking all night so I'm alright!

Had best go find some work clothes for tomorrow to buy myself a few extra minutes in bed in the morning.. Night night searching and all xx

searching_me

night night ladies im gonna be up for alittle longer but see you lot in the morning x