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shazrobo wrote: »

having a really bad day, son has assaulted me again, he has also assaulted my friend who was just passing, and decided to see how i was. son has also been damaging cars too. police have arrested him, and he is in cells as i type, the police have taken statements from me and friend, as he has already had his final warning i am unsure wat will happen next

hugs to those that need or want one

shaz xxx

i thought you said he did

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shazrobo wrote: »

hi all,
love hearts, well done for going to the hospital, hope you feel much better soon

miro, how scary for you to be in such pain, hope you dont suffer from it again

tiff, how are you hun, you sounded awfully tired

hi katie, keeping yourself busy and being surrounded by friends is a great idea, well done you.

i'm bit tired and stressed, too much on my mind at mo. daniel was in court yesterday, thought it would be sorted there and then, but it has been ajourned for three weeks, while solicitor gets hold of his medical records. worse case scenario is if he is found guilty,he could be given 2 years detention, or a large fine, for which i would be responsible for.
As i have already said previously, he did assault me, the police were called, both me and an ex friend gave statements, but she lied and said he attacked her and her children too, which he did not, he only attacked me. anyway i withdrew my statement, as i didnt want to press charges against him, but she does, and the cps believe they have a good chance of a conviction for attacking me too, especially as he has admitted hitting me in anger. the anger is part of his adhd, and while i know its wrong for him to hit me, at least i know he wouldnt ever take it out on anyone else.
sorry for long post,. just had to get it down, kind of helps

hugs all


shaz xxx

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shazrobo

sorry vvvvvvvvv, the original should have said he was verbally abusive to my friend, and he fought her off as she tried to restrain him, ie, tried to wave his arms, to get out of her grasp, he did not physically attack her, like he did me.

apologises again, for not being clearer, sometimes the stress gets too much, and i'm not the best with words at any time

shaz xx

Sazbo

Hi lovelies :hello:

Just a quickie sazzy Me and Gilly are off on our hols after work today :j - off to sunny Dorset for a week... or a not so sunny Dorset by the sounds of it lol, but we don't care:)

So just wanted to drop a line to say I'll be thinking of you all, please take good care of yourselves:)

See you in a week :wave:

Much love to all,
Saz xxxxxxxxxxxx

shazrobo

hi sazzy, hope you and gilly, have a fantastic holiday, regardless of the weather.

hugs
shaz xxx

beachbeth

Feel free to offload on here Atomised. There are many people here who are in the same boat or have been there and will understand. Life is hard and sometimes its hard to cope but it helps to talk to people who feel the same.

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Watched Casualty earlier before tonights one as I needed to catch up,Rang Mum to tell her the time of tonights and to update her as she missed it last week really interesting it was tonight too.I am off to bed now as I am so tired so I will chat tomorrow.Welcome Atomised to the thread.

Night! Night!

love and light,

Katie xxx

Tiff_2

Hi guys!
Greetings to all, both old and new - so, how fareth thee?
I'm tiffing as fast as I can folks - trying to reply in date order - but I've got a couple of major projects underway atm. I've got to go and put the scaffolding up inside Tiff Towers as I need to make an extension for the Tiff archives - well not really, but by the time I finish turning the house inside out, I'll be wishing I had put up scaffolding!
And I'm also still playing with the two curtain poles as well. No chance of the Tiffster taking the easy option - somehow I went out yesterday and came back through the catflap with two more curtain poles!
And that's just the tip of the iceberg - I've got to enter DS's room to clean up in case environmental health visit. Never mind, I'll soon have it sorted...



I live in hope. If I'm not out by August, send in the marines!
I'll try and get back later if I can - meanwhile have a relaxing Sunday, guys. I'm going in!!!
Be kind to yourself.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

Hi little surprises!
How are you hunnie? Apologies for taking so long to reply to your lovely post sweetheart. I'm not ignoring anyone, it's just taking me a bit longer to synchronise the brain cells recently. Both of them work really hard!
You're right hun, I am a rare breed - 'Tifficus Catticus' to be precise. However, just between you and I, , the biologists are still trying to identify what I am really!

ls wrote:

I just wanted to say to Tiff - you are amazing - I am continually blown away by your kindness, patience and understanding, not to mention the amount of time you put into helping other people on this thread. You are a very rare breed and you restore my faith in humanity. huge purrs to you x

Huge purrs gratefully accepted, hunnie!
You give me far more credit than I deserve, angel though I do really appreciate your time and kind words. This thread gives so much hope and support to many, including myself. I'm privileged to have been allowed to set my cat-basket down on this thread and be around the resident guardian angels. And you didn't have to take the time to write your post, but you did. Unknowingly, you gave my spirits a lift when I really needed one, so thank you for taking the time to post, angel. A few kind words can make a huge difference to someone.
Hoping all is well with you and yours, hunnie. Be kind to yourself.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

Hi badgie!
How are you angel? It's good to see you posting here once in a while. You may be absent, but you're never forgotten.

gilly wrote:

Hi to all,
I haven't been here for ages but I just thought I'd say hello. I think of you all and hope you are all doing ok.
I have been with Saz for 9 months now and it has been perfection. She is an angel and I worry I'm not worthy (but mostly I allow myself to feel that I am). It is a totally giving relationship - all I want is her happiness and all she wants is mine.
We met on this thread so I am telling you all - miracles can happen. So don't stop believing.
xxxxx

I can't believe you've been together for nine months already! Uh-oh...wait a minute........9 months?! *runs down to Tiff archives to see how long baby badgies take to be born.* Just kidding guys.

Thanks for the encouragement, badgie hun. I know meeting sazzy was the last thing you expected when you first posted - and yes angel, miracles do happen. Because surely it makes common sense that somehow everything balances itself out in the end, including the bad times and the good ones. So there's still hope for us all yet, even for ol' Tiffers! My time is bound to come. Well it's either that or I have accrued some seriously bad karma in a previous life.
You and our sazzy seem purr-fect together and I'm so glad that it's working out for you both. So just for you two on your romantic break together...



Enjoy every moment, gilly-brocky-badgie - you both deserve it!
Safe journeys and be kind to yourself.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx