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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Space_donkey wrote: »
    So what are you going to do about it?
    I don't know, I have thought of ways to deal with it - everything seems sh*te. I wish I was dead right now
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • newlywed
    newlywed Posts: 8,255 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote: »
    I wish I was dead right now

    I bet your family don't wish that though :o

    If you feel you've lost your identity can you do something just for you? Book a course, have a night out with friends?
    working on clearing the clutterDo I want the stuff or the space?
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Sazbo wrote: »

    a) it's fridaaay yay which means iii) it's nearly the weekend 5) the sun's shining! Miro's going to bring a fan to keep you cool :D

    a, iii & 5? :think:

    I have Tiff's fan with me. His name is Harry, he's 38 and from Grimsby. He's bought some infamous Grimsby fish for supper.

    You did mean this sort of fan, right? :think:
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Tiff wrote: »
    I can't help wondering whether miro's pc has given my pc an STD - Sleepy Thread Disease!

    Slow Transmitting Data :o
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    I hope everyone is as well as can be. I'm not able to reply to everything at the moment, with the worry about my medical etc.

    1 month today since my cat died :( The cat I took to vet last Friday seems fine now, but now one of the others isn't too well. I'll have to monitor her. 4 ill cats in 7 months after over 14 years of perfect health. Just one of the 5 has had no issues and i'm sure she's next :o

    Feeling very low with worry over a few things, although in my very own way, trying to joke about small things to get me through.
  • newlywed
    newlywed Posts: 8,255 Forumite
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    Hi just a quick question for non-medial opinions from those who suffer....

    When it is classed as depression?
    When should you see your doctor regarding it?

    I'm not suicidal, not self harming, carrying on with daily life but just fed up, sick of most things (apart from home/family life), snappy, tearful and stressy and really bored of my job. I know it's probably grief (recent family bereavement) and to be honest I don't want to go on tablets anyway as I've been told you can't take anti-hisitimine with it and I suffer really badly from hayfever :o

    But I don't seem to be having many "better" days :o
    working on clearing the clutterDo I want the stuff or the space?
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    newlywed wrote: »
    I bet your family don't wish that though :o

    If you feel you've lost your identity can you do something just for you? Book a course, have a night out with friends?
    I don't have any friends, I drive em away with my depression.
    People only like me when I'm fun and or a good listener

    My family drive me nuts

    I wanna run away
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    newlywed wrote: »
    Hi just a quick question for non-medial opinions from those who suffer....

    When it is classed as depression?
    When should you see your doctor regarding it?

    I'm not suicidal, not self harming, carrying on with daily life but just fed up, sick of most things (apart from home/family life), snappy, tearful and stressy and really bored of my job. I know it's probably grief (recent family bereavement) and to be honest I don't want to go on tablets anyway as I've been told you can't take anti-hisitimine with it and I suffer really badly from hayfever :o

    But I don't seem to be having many "better" days :o
    Does it affect your everyday life?

    Have you had counselling for your grief?

    Can you get help with anything you find boring? Is there anything you can change?
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • newlywed
    newlywed Posts: 8,255 Forumite
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    I wish I could change my job but I'm on a DMP and wouldn't get anything that pays this well, so would probably have to go bankrupt - has crossed my mind though :o
    working on clearing the clutterDo I want the stuff or the space?
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    For the past year we have been trying to run a business and he is at home all day after being used to him working outside the home. I find he hinders me trying to run the house. He is very helpful running me and my mum around, and deals with any idiots we have to deal with, so feel bad saying what I say.

    Thankfully, we have no money worries but we do need to earn.

    What is getting me down is his odd atmosphere after we have done jobs and work. He is distant when we are together, like he doesn't want to do what we are doing or want to be with me, like he is going thro the motions to make me happy but I sense he's not happy, so it makes me unhappy coz I don't feel he wants to be with me. He says he is tired, so I let him rest.

    I feel our own places would make him happy, he has to be asked to do every household job and I find it hard doing my jobs with him around giving off miserable atmospheres .

    TBH he is a drag and it gets me down to the point of not being able to function.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
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