Support for people with Depression

shazrobo

missmontana wrote: »

Its hard eh Shaz? do you not have things you could do in an evening,maybe have a friend round? I'm lucky, after my son has gone to bed I always used to get really lonley and then thats when things play on your mind. Now I have my cats for company and its great, always some to talk to and make a fuss of or play with. And it you get affection back in return, sometimes better than a bf!!

there is no one that i can invite round in an evening, my friend, dosent go out after 4pm, thats when she starts drinking :eek: i sometimes knit of an evening, but if i've knitted all day, sometimes my hands ache and i cant do it any more. wish i could go out somewhere and get a sitter for sons, but nowhere to go, and nobody to go out with. just so lonely every night on my own
shaz xxx

beachbeth

Sorry you are feeling lonely, Shaz. I wish some of us here could pop round and keep you company. Perhaps you could try different websites and join different forums. Not the same as real company, I know, but it means you can chat and interact with people. I used to go on a website where you entered a room and everyone in that room took it in turns to draw whatever came up on the screen. The others had to guess what you were drawing. isketch I think it was called. I can't draw normally and so am really useless with a mouse to draw with and some of the drawings I did bore no relation to what they were supposed to be! Inbetween drawing you can chat.

Its only an idea and might help to fill some evenings a bit for you? Are there any knitters forums or perhaps you could play some free bingo (don't start spending on these sites - not very moneysaving!).

shazrobo

hi beth how are you? thaks for your suggestions, i might try looking for some other forums to join later. my touble is i cant stay on the comp too long before my eyes get tired.
hugs shaz xxx

alison99_2

If I lived closer I'd come and see you, you'll have to move to Wales Shaz
Beachbeth ~ I love iSketch, I'm also no good at drawing, but it's sooo funny, I think I may have a few games this evening. :j

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,


Hope all is well,I am fine,been out most of the day,saw friends at church this morning then went off to get the Thorntons Melts.Had to go to Torquay,Got soaked in rain then came home,so shattered.I still contact my ex too as hes still there for me when I need him saw one of my other exs as well and we were friendly to one another and had a nice chat.

Having a nice evening tonight.


love and light,

Katie xxx

alison99_2

Hi Katie,
I hope you had an enjoyable day, any day that involves receiving chocolates is always going to be a good one.

It's nice you get along with your ex, it is so rare, I still can't stand to see the sight of mine and it's been 29 years!.

Have a good evening ~ Alison

shazrobo

hi alison, i've been on holidays to wales, couldnt imagine moving there tho lol
katie, sounds like you have had a good day, its great that you can get on with ex's, i have never been able to, not even my ex husband from 15 years ago.
shaz xxx

sandy71

Hi hope you are all as ok as possible.
I went to the hospital and it wasn't the best news. Can't go over it again.
Posted it here

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=2338115&page=33

shazrobo

sandy, (((big hugs))), good luck for the hospital tommorrow, you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
shaz xxx

Indie_Kid

Sandy - good luck and I hope it's nothing too serious. I also hope that you get the treatment you need.

Update:
Ran away again this evening. Emailed my friend about something. He explained that part of the reason for him acting the way he is (ie, ignoring me) is because he said I need to learn to deal with things without him. He also wants me to tell my parents (he infromed me on Monday he doesn't really want to talk to them) and that I need to get help.