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  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    Hi mushroomsgal and welcome:) I'm not too bad thanks. How are you today?

    Saz x
    4 May 2010 <3
  • missmontana
    missmontana Posts: 1,994 Forumite
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    Hiya, thanks for the warm welcome.

    Feeling a bit fuzzy at the moment, felt really down last night, luckily for me, I can't turn to alcohol, doesn't agree with my meds or having to do the school run!

    My usual vice is chocolate, not quite as harmful as some things, but still an addiction of sorts.

    A little bit about me, I am a single mum of a little boy who's 7. I am at home and on benefits, I have been suffering from depression since my late teens but never sought any help for it back then, in my 20's I went to the docs after walking out of work, to be told there was nothing we can do for not wanting to get out of bed in the morning, so I just struggled on.

    After the birth of my son things got really bad, so I went back to the docs, this time I was put on AD's so have been on and off them for the last 7 years. Not sure how well its working at the moment, as I feel really !!!!py most of the time. Due to go back next week and have a chat. I am wondering if its linked to having the contraceptive implant put in, has anybody else on here had similar problems, I'd be really interested to know.

    many thanks :)
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  • wow! super quick
    im pretty good today thanks, the sun is almost shining and i have surved half the day at work on my diet and not killed anyone so quite posistive! lol
    xx
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    i have surved half the day at work on my diet and not killed anyone so quite posistive! lol
    xx

    Snap!! lol

    Saz x
    4 May 2010 <3
  • alison99_2
    alison99_2 Posts: 664 Forumite
    Hiya, thanks for the warm welcome.

    Feeling a bit fuzzy at the moment, felt really down last night, luckily for me, I can't turn to alcohol, doesn't agree with my meds or having to do the school run!

    My usual vice is chocolate, not quite as harmful as some things, but still an addiction of sorts.

    A little bit about me, I am a single mum of a little boy who's 7. I am at home and on benefits, I have been suffering from depression since my late teens but never sought any help for it back then, in my 20's I went to the docs after walking out of work, to be told there was nothing we can do for not wanting to get out of bed in the morning, so I just struggled on.

    After the birth of my son things got really bad, so I went back to the docs, this time I was put on AD's so have been on and off them for the last 7 years. Not sure how well its working at the moment, as I feel really !!!!py most of the time. Due to go back next week and have a chat. I am wondering if its linked to having the contraceptive implant put in, has anybody else on here had similar problems, I'd be really interested to know.

    many thanks :)


    Hi missmontana, I have no idea about the implant, maybe it would be worth speaking to your GP about it?

    I would love to have chocolate as a vice, :EasterBun unfortunately my diabetes won't allow me :( although, saying that, I guess I shouldn't be drinking either).

    I have been on so many different AD's over the years, it's taken quite some time to find the one for me, but even now the depression likes to get it's grip on me from time to time, but most of the time, I can hide it well, and that's a coping strategy for me.

    I would just like to thank you all for being on this thread, whenever I feel lonely, I come and read it, then I realise I'm in very good company.
    Alison
    Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before
  • Indie_Kid
    Indie_Kid Posts: 23,097 Forumite
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    I really can't believe some people:

    I was in the kitchen with one of the girls I live with. She asked me if I did really intend (when the police were called) to kill myself. I was then given a lecture by another girl about how easy it is to get help. She basically said "well, you could always go to the uni counsellers". Yeah, I know that; but asking for help and admitting I have a problem isn't that easy. I was actually in denial after I ran away the first time that anything was wrong - even when asked by my friend "do you have anything else wrong with you other than your eyesight? I think you do..."

    If it was that easy, I wouldn't be in this mess in the first place.:(
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  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    hi mushroomsgal, and welcome to the thread
    missmontana, i'm a single mum on benefits too, been that way since my ex hubby and i split up when my twin sons were just 3 months old
    no advice on the implant, i take the contraceptive pill, and after reading reviews about how they caused depression, i came off them for a few months, the pmt was so bad, i felt like i could have killed somebody lol
    hi sazzy good to hear your feeling awake today hun, not long tiil friday
    hugs all
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    :hello: Everyone,

    I am fine,welcome to everyone that has just joined the thread.I have had a very productive day today,went to my parents house and walked up with my sister,had a nice dinner,then I went to a town and got my free Easter Treat Egg from Thorntons,did my food shop at Asda,then went to the pub for a while and helped a friend out.

    I came in to find I have won another box of Thorntons Melts,so I am off to Thorntons again tomorrow afternoon on the bus and it will be a nice journey.

    I am dog walking on Friday as I havent been much this week with my sister being with my parents.I am still being strong and havent cried since Monday.

    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    katie, sounds like you've had a lovely day, and so lucky winning thorntons chocs
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Welcome missmontana &mushroomgal

    Alison,hope your ok?

    SH

    Tough one,people that don't experience mh probs don't understand how hard it is,my oh had always known about my depression but he rarely understands.

    xx
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