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Trials and tribulations of a Debt Free Wannabee!
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            Well today I took DD to put another £2 in her savings account - she was desperate lol - and so proud! She then spent another £1.20 or so on sweets!
 OH has confirmed that he didn't buy any petrol this week - so that is £50 saved off this week's budget - good job - as we overspent on food.
 With DD spent £1.25 on chips between the two of us - it was 90p for a cone but the chips came in a foam box - so just tore it in two at the join - so had same amount of chips each but for the equivalent of 63p each rather than 90p! Very MSE
 I was pretty good - I bought 3 books from the charity shop for £2.45 - and donated another charity bag full - reducing more of the clutter in our house! I resisted costa coffee although I am hoping to fit in a nice cappucino one day next week.
 I went to Asda and spent £27 or so of next week's budget. I decided that my current shopping pattern demonstrates the "big" shop method isn't working for me so I thought I would see how things worked if I did a smaller shop and then topped up! Wish me luck! I also took £50 out cash - ideally would have taken out £73 but £50 was the max cashback.
 I also managed to convert my coppers etc into £1 coins so that was good!
 I will have to spend £40 on physio on Tuesday but can't be helped.... If it gets me fit for work quicker it will be money well spent!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
 1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
 2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
 3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
 (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
 4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
 5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250
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            Well just paid £100 to barclaycard and have other payments going out this month that will bring my debt down to approx £13584
 Also - DS has used £4 of my amazon vouchers - so increasing my no-guilt spend money available. Have counted it on book spend earlier...Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
 1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
 2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
 3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
 (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
 4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
 5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250
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            Well done on the chip share - and the payments too. Hope ds isn't too disappointed
 Eaten far too many chocs and had a few vino with tea - so feeling very full and sleeeeeeeppppppyyyyy - think I'll go and have an early night
 Milann
 MilannJanuary spends - £587.580
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 I thought I would compare my soa today with the one I did just after I joined.... Don't worry about the -32. If I manage to reduce my grocery spend or up my income this is taken care of. Also pay most car bills annually - around the time when I have no council tax to pay so again not a big problem. It was encouraging to see how far we've come tho - that we can manage on such a small amount compared to the much better money that we failed to manage on beforesavingholmes wrote: »Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet 170808 vs today
 Monthly Income Details
 Monthly income after tax................ 1914 320 while off sick
 Partners monthly income after tax....... 1617 1617
 Benefits................................ 125 132 plus tax credits £42
 Other income............................ 0
 Total monthly income.................... 3656 2111
 Monthly Expense Details
 Mortgage................................ 753 753
 Secured loan repayments................. 0
 Rent.................................... 0
 Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
 Council tax............................. 138 140 (10 months)
 Electricity............................. 70
 Gas..................................... 40 73 combined
 Oil..................................... 0
 Water rates............................. 23 16
 Telephone (land line)................... 28 27 internet and phone combined
 Mobile phone............................ 25 15 average
 TV Licence.............................. 11 11
 Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
 Internet Services....................... 19 included above
 Groceries etc. ......................... 360 not sure
 Clothing................................ 25 not sure
 Petrol/diesel........................... 400 150
 Road tax................................ 40 20 pay annually in practice
 Car Insurance........................... 60 60 pay annually in practice
 Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 170 40 pay as and when
 Car parking............................. 2 0 found free place to park
 Other travel............................ 0
 Childcare/nursery....................... 110 currently £32
 Other child related expenses............ 25 approx 32
 Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 16 20
 Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
 Buildings insurance..................... 12 8.5
 Contents insurance...................... 12 8.5
 Life assurance ......................... 70 72
 Other insurance......................... 33 33
 Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30 cost neutral
 Haircuts................................ 25 30
 Entertainment........................... 40 0
 Holiday................................. 50 cost neutral
 Emergency fund.......................... 0
 Child sponsorship 2..................... 18 21
 Child sponsorship 1..................... 18 21
 Charitable giving 0H.................... 175 20
 Cleaner 90
 Total monthly expenses.................. 3068 1890 (includes 360 for groceries but target is 200 but 0 for clothes)
 Assets
 Cash.................................... 1300 1400
 House value (Gross)..................... 200000 same hopefully
 Shares and bonds........................ 0
 Car(s).................................. 3300 4000
 Other assets............................ 0 5000 motorbike
 Total Assets............................ 204600 210400
 Secured Debts
 Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
 Mortgage...................... 151000...(753)......5.95 same
 Total secured debts........... 151000....-.........-
 Unsecured Debts
 Description..Debt......Monthly...APR
 C12..........7168......100.......0
 E............ 300.......10........18
 V...........10500.....25........0
 bh............960.......40........0
 C1...........1262......10........0
 BC.......... 500.......10........6.5
 MS............250.......5.........18
 Total unsecured debts...0940.....200.......now £13584
 Monthly Budget Summary
 Total monthly income.................... 3,656 2111
 Expenses (including secured debts)....... 3068 1890
 Available for debt repayments........... 588 221
 Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 200 253
 Surplus(deficit if negative)............ 388 -32
 Personal Balance Sheet Summary
 Total assets (things you own)........... 204,600 210400
 Total Secured debt...................... -151,000-151000
 Total Unsecured debt.................... -20,940 -13584
 Net Assets.............................. 32,660 45816
 Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
 Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission.
 2 adults, 2 children. 1 car and 1 motorbikeAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
 1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
 2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
 3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
 (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
 4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
 5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250
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            Well done SavingH - you certainly have come a really long way. You don't have to up your income by a whole lot to be able to make good headway on your debt too Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947 Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
 DFD:Nov 22/June 22
 Mortgage: €199,712
 MFD: March 2042/July 20340
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 True but fuel, childcare and food costs go up significantly when I am working.... plus harder to control my spending!clearmydebts wrote: »Well done SavingH - you certainly have come a really long way. You don't have to up your income by a whole lot to be able to make good headway on your debt too 
 I am encouraged that our net worth has improved despite having to take on a £4K car related debt with my MIL.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
 1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
 2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
 3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
 (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
 4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
 5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250
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            Your diary is very motivating!x Keep up the good work. Chip sharing no i want them all ha ha ha !!!!!!!!!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:0
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            SH - just throwing ideas into the pot really - I might be brarking up the wrong tree here - but would you be able to manage working part-time in the area you work?? You seem to be on a good wage in what you do do. So if you either worked longer hours for fewer days eg a job share style of work or shorter days. The take home pay would be less but so would the child care costs. You would still have time with the kiddiwinks and the pressure on you would reduced a lot. Just my two penny worth - not sure if it would be feasible/workable or doable or even if anything like that exists - and I'm certainly not trying to tell you what to do in any way. Just food for thought really as it was the first thing that struck me when I read your SOA.
 You have come a long way - your spending habits must have changed a lot. It's scary when I think back - I certainly don't know where my cash used to go - wheras I can now and if I do overspend - at least I know where it has gone. Well done you!!January spends - £587.580
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            SH - just throwing ideas into the pot really - I might be brarking up the wrong tree here - but would you be able to manage working part-time in the area you work?? You seem to be on a good wage in what you do do. So if you either worked longer hours for fewer days eg a job share style of work or shorter days. The take home pay would be less but so would the child care costs. You would still have time with the kiddiwinks and the pressure on you would reduced a lot. Just my two penny worth - not sure if it would be feasible/workable or doable or even if anything like that exists - and I'm certainly not trying to tell you what to do in any way. Just food for thought really as it was the first thing that struck me when I read your SOA.
 You have come a long way - your spending habits must have changed a lot. It's scary when I think back - I certainly don't know where my cash used to go - wheras I can now and if I do overspend - at least I know where it has gone. Well done you!!
 That is a great suggestion Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947 Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
 DFD:Nov 22/June 22
 Mortgage: €199,712
 MFD: March 2042/July 20340
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            hi milann and cmd
 unfortunately part time jobs doing what I specialise in are rare - but yes I think that could be a way forward - if I could find one...
 Still hoping the physio will help with my knee...
 I've found out the DS's trip in Feb is likely to be £20 and the one in May is likely to be £115. So slightly better than I thoughtAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
 1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
 2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
 3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
 (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
 4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
 5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/250
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