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Trials and tribulations of a Debt Free Wannabee!

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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Well today I took DD to put another £2 in her savings account - she was desperate lol - and so proud! She then spent another £1.20 or so on sweets!

    OH has confirmed that he didn't buy any petrol this week - so that is £50 saved off this week's budget - good job - as we overspent on food.

    With DD spent £1.25 on chips between the two of us - it was 90p for a cone but the chips came in a foam box - so just tore it in two at the join - so had same amount of chips each but for the equivalent of 63p each rather than 90p! Very MSE

    I was pretty good - I bought 3 books from the charity shop for £2.45 - and donated another charity bag full - reducing more of the clutter in our house! I resisted costa coffee although I am hoping to fit in a nice cappucino one day next week.

    I went to Asda and spent £27 or so of next week's budget. I decided that my current shopping pattern demonstrates the "big" shop method isn't working for me so I thought I would see how things worked if I did a smaller shop and then topped up! Wish me luck! I also took £50 out cash - ideally would have taken out £73 but £50 was the max cashback.

    I also managed to convert my coppers etc into £1 coins so that was good!

    I will have to spend £40 on physio on Tuesday but can't be helped.... If it gets me fit for work quicker it will be money well spent!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Well just paid £100 to barclaycard and have other payments going out this month that will bring my debt down to approx £13584

    Also - DS has used £4 of my amazon vouchers - so increasing my no-guilt spend money available. Have counted it on book spend earlier...
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,524 Forumite
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    Well done on the chip share - and the payments too. Hope ds isn't too disappointed

    Eaten far too many chocs and had a few vino with tea - so feeling very full and sleeeeeeeppppppyyyyy - think I'll go and have an early night

    Milann

    Milann
    January spends - £587.58
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet 170808 vs today

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1914 320 while off sick
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 1617 1617
    Benefits................................ 125 132 plus tax credits £42
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 3656 2111

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 753 753
    Secured loan repayments................. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 138 140 (10 months)
    Electricity............................. 70
    Gas..................................... 40 73 combined
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 23 16
    Telephone (land line)................... 28 27 internet and phone combined
    Mobile phone............................ 25 15 average
    TV Licence.............................. 11 11
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
    Internet Services....................... 19 included above
    Groceries etc. ......................... 360 not sure
    Clothing................................ 25 not sure
    Petrol/diesel........................... 400 150
    Road tax................................ 40 20 pay annually in practice
    Car Insurance........................... 60 60 pay annually in practice
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 170 40 pay as and when
    Car parking............................. 2 0 found free place to park
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 110 currently £32
    Other child related expenses............ 25 approx 32
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 16 20
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 12 8.5
    Contents insurance...................... 12 8.5
    Life assurance ......................... 70 72
    Other insurance......................... 33 33
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 30 cost neutral
    Haircuts................................ 25 30
    Entertainment........................... 40 0
    Holiday................................. 50 cost neutral
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Child sponsorship 2..................... 18 21
    Child sponsorship 1..................... 18 21
    Charitable giving 0H.................... 175 20
    Cleaner 90
    Total monthly expenses.................. 3068 1890 (includes 360 for groceries but target is 200 but 0 for clothes)

    Assets
    Cash.................................... 1300 1400
    House value (Gross)..................... 200000 same hopefully
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 3300 4000
    Other assets............................ 0 5000 motorbike
    Total Assets............................ 204600 210400

    Secured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 151000...(753)......5.95 same
    Total secured debts........... 151000....-.........-

    Unsecured Debts
    Description..Debt......Monthly...APR
    C12..........7168......100.......0
    E............ 300.......10........18
    V...........10500.....25........0
    bh............960.......40........0
    C1...........1262......10........0
    BC.......... 500.......10........6.5
    MS............250.......5.........18
    Total unsecured debts...0940.....200.......now £13584

    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 3,656 2111
    Expenses (including secured debts)....... 3068 1890
    Available for debt repayments........... 588 221
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 200 253
    Surplus(deficit if negative)............ 388 -32

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 204,600 210400
    Total Secured debt...................... -151,000-151000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -20,940 -13584
    Net Assets.............................. 32,660 45816

    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission.

    2 adults, 2 children. 1 car and 1 motorbike
    I thought I would compare my soa today with the one I did just after I joined.... Don't worry about the -32. If I manage to reduce my grocery spend or up my income this is taken care of. Also pay most car bills annually - around the time when I have no council tax to pay so again not a big problem. It was encouraging to see how far we've come tho - that we can manage on such a small amount compared to the much better money that we failed to manage on before
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • Well done SavingH - you certainly have come a really long way. You don't have to up your income by a whole lot to be able to make good headway on your debt too :)
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    Well done SavingH - you certainly have come a really long way. You don't have to up your income by a whole lot to be able to make good headway on your debt too :)
    True but fuel, childcare and food costs go up significantly when I am working.... plus harder to control my spending!

    I am encouraged that our net worth has improved despite having to take on a £4K car related debt with my MIL.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • Your diary is very motivating!x Keep up the good work. Chip sharing no i want them all ha ha ha !!!!!!!!!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,524 Forumite
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    SH - just throwing ideas into the pot really - I might be brarking up the wrong tree here - but would you be able to manage working part-time in the area you work?? You seem to be on a good wage in what you do do. So if you either worked longer hours for fewer days eg a job share style of work or shorter days. The take home pay would be less but so would the child care costs. You would still have time with the kiddiwinks and the pressure on you would reduced a lot. Just my two penny worth - not sure if it would be feasible/workable or doable or even if anything like that exists - and I'm certainly not trying to tell you what to do in any way. Just food for thought really as it was the first thing that struck me when I read your SOA.

    You have come a long way - your spending habits must have changed a lot. It's scary when I think back - I certainly don't know where my cash used to go - wheras I can now and if I do overspend - at least I know where it has gone. Well done you!!
    January spends - £587.58
  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    milann wrote: »
    SH - just throwing ideas into the pot really - I might be brarking up the wrong tree here - but would you be able to manage working part-time in the area you work?? You seem to be on a good wage in what you do do. So if you either worked longer hours for fewer days eg a job share style of work or shorter days. The take home pay would be less but so would the child care costs. You would still have time with the kiddiwinks and the pressure on you would reduced a lot. Just my two penny worth - not sure if it would be feasible/workable or doable or even if anything like that exists - and I'm certainly not trying to tell you what to do in any way. Just food for thought really as it was the first thing that struck me when I read your SOA.

    You have come a long way - your spending habits must have changed a lot. It's scary when I think back - I certainly don't know where my cash used to go - wheras I can now and if I do overspend - at least I know where it has gone. Well done you!!

    That is a great suggestion :)
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
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    hi milann and cmd

    unfortunately part time jobs doing what I specialise in are rare - but yes I think that could be a way forward - if I could find one...

    Still hoping the physio will help with my knee...

    I've found out the DS's trip in Feb is likely to be £20 and the one in May is likely to be £115. So slightly better than I thought
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
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