Trials and tribulations of a Debt Free Wannabee!

Verbatim

Well done on the value trousers and the chinese and way hay the parents for buying the pressies.

Hope the rest of the week is way less stressful.

savingholmes

Thanks verbatim - 2.5 days to go for me until the weekend!

I think I really need to either find my cleaners number or pop a note thro the door as this week I've been a bit of a gibbering wreck as I had no free time at the weekend!

In_my_dreams

I would love my cleaner back I am currently trying to invoke a rota but only me takes any notice of it and so all saturday is spent cleaning. Bet you are well chuffed you can reinstate

Hope you have a lovely day and not quite as stressful - my hormones are settling down a little now much to the relief of EVERYONE around me

savingholmes

hi IMD

I am working and travelling pretty much the longest hours I've ever done and am only just coping. I think that I need to bite the bullet and invite my cleaner back in order to a) stay healthy (I have had previous problems with depression and anxiety) and b) to spend more time with kids as now have very little time to spend with them....

I will therefore try really hard to find her number or drop a note round I think.... I was slurring my words with exhaustion last night. Tonight I had a raging headache and am struggling to think... I think I need to pay attention to my body/mind and respond accordingly

clearmydebts

savingholmes wrote: »

hi IMD

I am working and travelling pretty much the longest hours I've ever done and am only just coping. I think that I need to bite the bullet and invite my cleaner back in order to a) stay healthy (I have had previous problems with depression and anxiety) and b) to spend more time with kids as now have very little time to spend with them....

I will therefore try really hard to find her number or drop a note round I think.... I was slurring my words with exhaustion last night. Tonight I had a raging headache and am struggling to think... I think I need to pay attention to my body/mind and respond accordingly

I think you are dead right SavingH. You need to keep healthy and well for your kiddies and your OH.

coldstreamalways

Stay healthy please! Your health is one thing you should never MS on sweetie.

savingholmes

Thanks CMD - my decision was helped by my parents giving me £30 last night towards the cost... They know me well enough to know what I need.... and I think it was them saying look after yourself! It was very thoughtful of them - and a quite rare event... they never normally give me anything other than xmas and birthday!

clearmydebts

savingholmes wrote: »

Thanks CMD - my decision was helped by my parents giving me £30 last night towards the cost... They know me well enough to know what I need.... and I think it was them saying look after yourself! It was very thoughtful of them - and a quite rare event... they never normally give me anything other than xmas and birthday!

Well the good thing about parents is that often step in at the time we need them the most. They obviously know you very well.

Coldstream is right - you can't MS on your well-being.

savingholmes

Thanks CMD and CSA - I will drop a note round I think - and hope I have the right house....

savingholmes

well it took me 20 minutes to find the right house but my cleaner has agreed to come back from next week. She has said she will ring me one night to agree the day - result!