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Pregnant and Hubby doesnt love me

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  • fitzilian19
    fitzilian19 Posts: 251 Forumite
    wrote it yesterday and hopefully mum will remember to print it off and bring it with her today... printer not working my end!

    feeling really relaxed and happy... been decorating the nursery this week!
    :male:Alfie Sidney born 29th August 2009:male:
  • MadMac_2
    MadMac_2 Posts: 1,173 Forumite
    Great news, well done! Hope you have a good weekend, x
  • Take it from a man. He is having a crush. Getting your wife pregnant is like approching midlife crisis prematuarly [For some]]] It will pass. Dont push anything, dont fight. Be nice to him, say you love him. Tell him his happines is your happiness. Tell him even if he goes he is welcome to comeback to you anytime he wants. Try to be the lovliest in the world.

    Most women make the mistake of turning in to a total !!!!! when they find out their hubbies are interested in somebody else. It makes the matters worse.

    He will dabate in his in who is the best. All men do. When the child is born and start smiling he will never leave.
  • BallandChain
    BallandChain Posts: 1,922 Forumite
    Are you for real? The guy is having an affair and he is a liar and a cheat. Do you really expect a woman to be all lovey dovey and doe eyed when her husband wants to come home? (Not that there has been any reason to believe the OP's husband wants to come home at all.)I think you need a good shake to get you in the real world.
  • Knightowl May I suggest you actually read the thread? Its utterly stupid advice to tell her to be 'the best woman' and sit and wait for hubby to come home. It's not the 1920's, husbands do not own their wives, and taking him back with open arms would simply encourage his behaviour.

    Fitz has shown how strong and capable she is, she doesn't need to wait around for him to decide he wants to come home.

    Fitz I'm glad you are doing well! I love decorating nurseries...is it themed?
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  • diable
    diable Posts: 5,258 Forumite
    knightowl wrote: »
    Take it from a man. He is having a crush. Getting your wife pregnant is like approching midlife crisis prematuarly [For some]]] It will pass. Dont push anything, dont fight. Be nice to him, say you love him. Tell him his happines is your happiness. Tell him even if he goes he is welcome to comeback to you anytime he wants. Try to be the lovliest in the world.

    Most women make the mistake of turning in to a total !!!!! when they find out their hubbies are interested in somebody else. It makes the matters worse.

    He will dabate in his in who is the best. All men do. When the child is born and start smiling he will never leave.
    Bollox about the mid life crisis and a husband with a pregnant wife should be supportive and not looking at other women.

    Makes my blood boil, hmmmmm maybe the OP's ex posted this so be wary of what is said on here as not to give anyone ideas or ammunition.
  • jha
    jha Posts: 1,095 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Are you ok fitzillian?
  • Yeah, I noticed this thread hasn't been around for a while.

    Hoping you are okay xx
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  • Queen-Bee_2
    Queen-Bee_2 Posts: 828 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hello, I've noticed you've not posted for a while. I do hope that you're OK and just busy with other things. Please let us know how you get on - we're all rooting for you, xx
  • Hope all is well, we've missed you and Alfie!

    Susie x
    Susie
    "A woman is like a tea bag:
    you never know how strong she is
    until she gets in hot water."
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