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Single and in Debt Part II
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I had a missed call yeserday which I gooled just now as I did not recognise it and it turns out to be Next. From which I have ordered one thing in the last few years, around Christmas, and paid off straight away.
It says on the website I found that it is Next and they automatically send you their directory which they charge for if you have an account with them. I was very careful to put I did not want the directory and ignored their offer of free postage if you ordered it. I am not paying £3.50 for something I can get free on their website.
Now i am worried that they have sent it (I haven't received anything), I of course have not paid, not knowing that I had anything outstanding with them, and it may show as a default on my credit file. I am going to be hugely annoyed if this is what has happened.
Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j0 -
A treats budget. hmm like the sound of that.
and do not mention Next stupid !!!!!!s.
I have started a new diary, much more laid back, not trying to kill myself to pay off my debts, I don't buy Magazines or make up (am surviving on Avon left overs) I barely go out and all that happens is I spend money in other ways (I am the reason why Amazon isn't suffering from the Credit crunch)
I am doing it a month at a time and not worrying about the date of being debt free. I do want a life, I do want some balance.
I will still do all the debt busting things, I just won't be constantly working out sums and missing out on stuff cos I need to get my debt below a certain level.
And Sarah, ringing Next costs five pence per minute. cheeky expensive nonsense.
I am going to write them a stroppy letter!
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Now i am worried that they have sent it (I haven't received anything), I of course have not paid, not knowing that I had anything outstanding with them, and it may show as a default on my credit file. I am going to be hugely annoyed if this is what has happened.

Sounds a bit odd! I have a Next account and although they sometimes leave the catalogue in some obscure places if you're not in :rolleyes: the bill comes separately through the post so you would've received that
More likely to be some sort of sales cold call. Give them a call tomorrow, I'm sure you'll be able to get it sorted
Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0 -
More likely to be some sort of sales cold call. Give them a call tomorrow, I'm sure you'll be able to get it sorted

Am hoping that is it, I definitely haven't had the directory, am not sure about having a bill though, I never open any post that may be a bill as I have everything on dd and I hate looking at bills. I much prefer the head in the sand approach.
:D Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j0 -
Hi
This is Next Customer Service Freephone 0800 7314567Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0 -
Am hoping that is it, I definitely haven't had the directory, am not sure about having a bill though, I never open any post that may be a bill as I have everything on dd and I hate looking at bills. I much prefer the head in the sand approach.
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:rolleyes::rolleyes: They come in a black envelope with 'Next' on the front!
Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0 -
Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »I am doing it a month at a time and not worrying about the date of being debt free. I do want a life, I do want some balance.
I will still do all the debt busting things, I just won't be constantly working out sums and missing out on stuff cos I need to get my debt below a certain level.
I am doing it just like this too, may take longer but is much less stressful. I do not know my DFD or any of my debt totals except one. If you can only deal with one debt you may as well only think about one debt.Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j0 -
:rolleyes::rolleyes: They come in a black envelope with 'Next' on the front!

:rotfl:Subtle then:D I don't know if I have had anything like that, knowing I didn't owe them anything may mean I got something like that and dismissed it as promotional stuff. Thanks for the number, I will call them tomorrow.Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j0 -
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If you can only deal with one debt you may as well only think about one debt.
Well said Sarah! This is exactly how I am looking at things, hence my signature. I know I have approx £25k in total but seeing it written down everyday doesn't make it decrease any faster! It just makes me feel overwhelmed - and a bit hopeless :mad:Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0
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