Single and in Debt Part II

jakemuk

Lula-Hula wrote: »

Hey Jake, hey Yargo :wave: & hey Buffy who posted while I was still typing & thanks hon :A

I've not been posting as I'm a moany old cow at the moment & I see my role here to bring joy, laughter & support not misery & negative vibes, man :rolleyes: & right now there's a hole in my shoe & it's letting in water

I've always believed that if one cant think of anything nice to say then one shouldnt say anything no big deal, just the usual girlie grumps so I'll get over it.

By the way I've eaten 2 donuts & scoffaliciously close to finishing a bag of fruit & nuts

Hey lula,

Whats a matter ? , Not the ex is it ?, You should come on here maybe we can cheers you up . well try :eek::D:beer:

Lula-Hula

bless you makeup :A

what a fab idea ... although I was actually referrng to the song by miserable hippy Neil from The Young Ones ...

The local chemist is promoting that new weight loss Allii ... I am tempted but, thing is all last week on the radio it was beng slated for causing 'ultra rapid digestion' :eek:

makeup

I figured it had some kind of song meaning although all I could think of was 'there's a hole in my bucket dear liza dear liza' I couldn't place it at all!

I have heard those sorts of things about weight loss pills. I mean it has to go somewhere if not on your hips right???

I suppose you could try it on a weekend when you had no plans?? You wouldn't want to be caught out while on a day trip or night out really :eek:

Is it expensive??

makeup

I forgot to mention that I was involved in an unseemly scrum for a cheap chicken today.....oh the shame!

Lula-Hula

makeup,

you are truly brilliant - I hadnt even considered the price which to be honest is completely irrelevant as even if it's only 3p then that's 3p spent when I could just eat less & move more for absolutely free :rolleyes:

I have a tradition that I release my summer clothes from the confines of the trunk on May1st :eek::eek::eek: I dont wanna

It is officially summer as from midnight so I dont need to eat anything other than lean meat, fruit & salad for the next 6 months, right

Think I need to get to bed to save my energy

by the way sarah, if you're lurking sweetie then a big :grouphug: for you if life is being carpy to you too.

night night all & thanks for the cheering up, you're all F fabulous :A

lula
xx

PinkTwirl

Hi All,

So !!!!ed off today. Saw the guy I've had a huge crush on for the past two months with his obvious girlfriend. Of course she is blonde aren't they 99% of the time? Just went into the showers and cried.

I'm going to be single forever. I must be so unattractive.

Plus a girl at work had a go at me today. I was furious.

Now I've got a thumping sore head.

gwen80

Hello!

I know I don't know you Pink, but I'm sorry about the guy. I had a mahoosive crush on a guy at work for well over a year and its only now I've realised what a l0ser he is (and when I say l0ser, I really mean another word beginning with t and and more s's). He seemed absolutely perfect and I really thought something was meant to be, but its only now that I can see past the crush and see that I'm so glad nothing did happen cos it turns out he has serious trouble keeping it in his trousers (a f*nnyrat as my friend described it!). So maybe it wasn't meant to be, maybe you've had a lucky escape and even if that's not the case, there are other nice guys out there. All that glitters isn't necessarily gold.

I'm sure you're not unattractive and you're not going to be single forever. You need to have confidence in yourself. I think its true what they say, men do find it more attractive - you just need to know it. You're all F Fabulous!

I had my second date today with erm, I'll call him Gavin. He seems really nice, we get on well, we seem to have stuff to talk about and it's quite easy. I'm not sure where its going to go, but it's fun and I got a snog. Hallelujah! Its been way too long. Twas really nice, snogging for quite a while (in a pub car park of all places - eek!). Hopefully will see him again.

Otherwise I'm feeling v.fat and skint. Not sure how I'm going to sort out the finances, but I need to get more money coming in. I need to get clicking and matched betting!

Gwenx

PinkTwirl

The thing is, I do have confidence in myself, but it never seems to get my anywhere. I'm so fed up having to worry about having confidence in myself. I just want to be and for it to be enough. I'm fed up worrying about what men want. I'm fed up feeling I must be deficient in something becasuse I don't have one. I've been told there's nothing wrong with my confidence level, but it still seems to make f all difference.

In fact, the only thing that is damaging my confidence over it all is how NOT interested the ones I like are.

Paulgonnabedebtfree

PinkTwirl wrote: »

Hi All,

So !!!!ed off today. Saw the guy I've had a huge crush on for the past two months with his obvious girlfriend. Of course she is blonde aren't they 99% of the time? Just went into the showers and cried.

I'm going to be single forever. I must be so unattractive.

Plus a girl at work had a go at me today. I was furious.

Now I've got a thumping sore head.

Good god. You didn't head butt her did you?

Paulgonnabedebtfree

PinkTwirl wrote: »

The thing is, I do have confidence in myself, but it never seems to get my anywhere. I'm so fed up having to worry about having confidence in myself. I just want to be and for it to be enough. I'm fed up worrying about what men want. I'm fed up feeling I must be deficient in something becasuse I don't have one. I've been told there's nothing wrong with my confidence level, but it still seems to make f all difference.

Obviously I don't know you but I don't think you have a problem. It's clear that you aren't prepared to be with any guy and there's a lot to be said for that. What it means is that when you do get started in a relationship, it's more likely to be a good one.