Diary of a Poor Person aged 46 1/2

kissjenn

No scented rubbers for him then :rotfl:

mrscmr

no scented anything for him

kissjenn

Un-scented rubber truncheon time.

He may come round a bit over the weekend.

Flat viewing in 5 mins...s'pose I'd better move.

SkintGypsy

Hi Mrs. Probably not gonna be on this weekend, but just wanted to check in and see how you getting on. After Monday hopefully things will be more settled, either way. Not knowing is probably worse than anything at this stage. Hang in there chick. Come Monday you can at least start making a plan. xx

billybobberyl

hi mrs, i have followed you from the ebay challenge and i wanted to identify myself, not a lurker just took me 4 evenings to read all your diary. I am very sorry to hear all the stress you are under and i am too dumb to have any advice but i can offer hugs and someone else to listen to you if that is any consolation. x

mrscmr

thanks billybob!

savingholmes

I would go to court Monday - I wouldn't be able to bear not knowing what was going on and wouldn't trust them not to stitch you up...

Really good news re the mortgage holiday... will he even qualify for job seekers allowance and any help with the mortgage?

mrscmr

OH has registered for jsa online today! he was horrified that he was doing it.

we are now spending the rest of this evening rowing with each other as we sooo fed up. not good not good not good. im like a prickly porcipine at mo and v cross inside

easy

Oh dear mrcmr, I'm afraid in your position I would be VERY angry with your OH indeed.

In situations like this, every member of the business has to look out for himself, and watch his own back. Your OH doesn't seem capable of doing so right now.

Is there anything you can do to get him fighting out there in the business, rather than fighting with you?

There is a limit to what you can find out about the business, unless you are a member (do you hold any shares in it by any chance? That would give you a little power).

What you really need is for your OH to talk to the lawyer on Monday a.m., before court, to find out just what the situation is.

And he REALLY needs to go to the court. Whatever the proceedings are, all directors should be there whatever.

You don't want the others to do something like suggest your OH had offered personal guarantees for debts or whatever, and him not there to deny it.

mrscmr

v good points, easy. well said.

im struggling to be honest with him at mo.