Debts in the City. A Modern Girls Guide to Life in 2009. My story.

laura2481

blondiedebtfree wrote: »

Ohh the Sparky update...he kept texting me saying 'babes i love you' and i wouldnt reply. GO ME. Then he came in at 10pm and sat down and told me sternly 'OK NO MORE OF THIS ENDING OUR RELATIONSHIP. ITS NOT HAPPENING. I LOVE YOU AND THATS THAT.'
At this point i was agog (if thats a word??) and said 'well, mate, you have no choice as you are acting like an ars@hole'
So then he promised to change his phone number (well that proved my point didnt it??) and to be nicer.
So i told him id think about it. I told him to change and THEN id see IF i wanted to be with him.

Has he ever actually admitted to cheating (or possibly just thinking about cheating?) If he swears he has not, then why does he need to change his number? As Rosered says; What does that solve? I think you are doing the right thing by saying he needs to show you he's changed. After all, trust has got to be earnt back, and I'm guessing that finding that text seriously dented your trust, whether it was innocent or not.

I had the worst nightmare last night! I dreamt that i found a receipt hidden in our bedroom for a spa day that had been booked for around christmas time- so I was asking OH who he had bought it for because I hadn't been given any spa day's as gifts. And he was saying he had got it for me then cancelled it because it was too expensive and we were trying to save money. So i was saying 'but it's me trying to pay of my debts, not you'. So i didn't believe him and thought he had bought it for another girl!

So, obviously I'm nuts! Also not sure why my subconcious chose a spa day as the thing to find out about- maybe I'm quite fancying a trip to a spa!

Hope your interview is going ok

laura2481

ps Agog is a real word but apparently (according to dictionary.com) it means:
–adjective 1. highly excited by eagerness, curiosity, anticipation, etc.
–adverb 2. in a state of eager desire; excitedly.

Perhaps you were more flabbergasted (overcome with astonishment; astounded. See Synonyms at surprise.) than agog?!

So that is the educational post of the day!

tomorrow- latin verbs!Not really.

rosered1963

Swinstie73 wrote: »

Rosered, you do a lot of edits - any clue as to why my Thanks button disappeared and is replaced with Edit/Delete? Have checked all other posts and they are all the same, have even emailed the forum website but no luck!

Hi swinstie.
I do a lot of edits because two fingers on my right hand are injured and my typing is dire! Your "thanks" button should show up on everyone else's posts but yours, and the "edit" one should only show up on your own posts - is this not happening with yours?

[Deleted User]

Hello all

Havent managed to catch up with the thread as I have been very busy...... Daisy arrived on Sunday 15th at 10 past midnight. 8 1b 13oz, bigger than expected!! :j

Was in labour for about 20 hours in total, in the end had lovely water birth, but I wont bore you all with all the gory details. She is so lovely! Came home Tuesday night but things have been very hectic!!

Will catch up soon xx

catherine_h_2

Thats brilliant news, Congratulations Looplou
I love Daisy for a girl, such a beautiful name

tilly2484

rosered1963 wrote: »

Hi Blondie!




OOOH postman has arrived with my new underwear! I bought some from Ebay. I know its not very moneysaving, but good underwear makes me feel so much better!

Hope it's not second hand pants!! :rotfl:

laura2481

Deleted_User wrote: »

Hello all

Havent managed to catch up with the thread as I have been very busy...... Daisy arrived on Sunday 15th at 10 past midnight. 8 1b 13oz, bigger than expected!! :j

Was in labour for about 20 hours in total, in the end had lovely water birth, but I wont bore you all with all the gory details. She is so lovely! Came home Tuesday night but things have been very hectic!!

Will catch up soon xx

Congratulations loopyloo!

laura2481

tilly2484 wrote: »

Hope it's not second hand pants!! :rotfl:

Second hand pants! :eek:

rupe34

laura2481 wrote: »

Hmm, got a thing for fatherly-looking-but-tough CAB advisers Rupe? :rotfl:

Only teasing

Laura - my crushes are many and varied!!!

blondiedebtfree

CONGRATS LOOPYLOU!!!!!!! We need to see a piccie!:j :j

Hiya ladies!!

Rosered i would never tell you to p!ss off!!! Your my mentor. xxxx

He knew i had a bugbear about the phone, so not sure why he said about the phone number, to please me or because of affair????!!!
Hmmnnnnnn Trust me hes on a short and very fine string right now. Even if he does change i dont know if i can forgive him. :mad:

Anyhoo before i depress you all!

Been swotting for job interview tomorrow. I cant wait to type on here that i have a job! OMG will need to ask at interview if i am allowed to go on MSE site as otherwise cannot take job offer.

How is everyone tonite?? Im making tacos for tea!! Yum-my!

On the subject of new pants,i so need some! Love LaSenza as well! The offers re really good! You can get 2 bras for £15!!! I also like M&S underwear, very very nice. I used to work there years ago and got lots on the staff shop for 50p!! I had some many pants i used old ones as dusters!!