MSE Pregnancy Club VI

MrsTinks

cazscoob wrote: »

3onitsway only way for me to get organised in the morning is have everyone know what they are doing and try to be organised the night before. i also make sure everyone is dressed before going downstairs? dont ask me how that works but it does lol! baby feeding great and i have worked out that if i can get her to take both sides around 11ish she will sleep til 4am! feed and go back to sleep until 8, its been making such a difference and i feel alive when i get up lol. on the down side she will only sleep beside me if put in cot or moses basket she screams:(

MFD am having the !!!!ist time ever with OH at the mo, am ready to ask him to leave. i am getting no help or support from him in the slightest he thinks im super woman and can do it all myself. am coping with kids but house is terrible and he moaned yest as there was no food in and left me to go to morrisons come home make tea, tidy up, get kids sorted for bed. i have hardly spoken to him in days and feel misrable, not that he has taken the slightest bit of notice. i have been to bed and fell asleep everynight myself and cant even remember the last time he even gave me a cuddle. i keep wondering if its just me and hormones over reacting but i know its not.
sorry for the misrable post first thing just dont really have anyone else to moan to!

Oh caz that's awful! Poor you! I think I have missed some earlier posts about it so am jumping in the middle here but you'd have thought that he might have a bit more sympathy for you being as you have just given birth to his child!!!! How can he expect you to be cleaning and cooking as well as looking after a new baby and kids etc! AND go out to do the shopping! :eek:

You come and moan there as much as you like! *now where is that dodgey hug emoticon* :grouphug: ah there it is! Have a dodgey hug!

cazscoob

dont think u have missed anything mrs t lol!

i just dont know what to do? everything was fine and now it justseems to be going downhill? i ask him to do something and end up doing it myself his dad or friends ask him and hes off like a shot?

thats another reason baby doesnt have a name cause he wont talk to me about it? i really just give up?

My_Fathers_Daughter

Good luck Luc - we will be thinking of you.

Caz - we are here to be moaned at, you go for it love Sounds like he is being a proper pig....I wonder how many hubby's will be getting the 'you will help out when the baby comes' talk today now!!


So here I am, on maternity leave, and the first thing I think of when I wake up is 'what do I need to do today?' - do you think men ever have these thoughts??!!

My_Fathers_Daughter

cazscoob wrote: »

dont think u have missed anything mrs t lol!

i just dont know what to do? everything was fine and now it justseems to be going downhill? i ask him to do something and end up doing it myself his dad or friends ask him and hes off like a shot?

thats another reason baby doesnt have a name cause he wont talk to me about it? i really just give up?

Can men get post natal depression?

Sami_Bee

MFD - Just the person I popped in to see!
Inspiration for you http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090128110044AAmn894


Some woman has said one of the names she likes is "Rex [middle name Oedipus]"
hmm she want's to name her son after a guy how was in love with his mother *nice*

Off to catch up I think Caz is having a bad time? Hugs to ya honey xxx

My_Fathers_Daughter

Sami_Bee wrote: »

MFD - Just the person I popped in to see!
Inspiration for you http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090128110044AAmn894


Some woman has said one of the names she likes is "Rex [middle name Oedipus]"
hmm she want's to name her son after a guy how was in love with his mother *nice*

Off to catch up I think Caz is having a bad time? Hugs to ya honey xxx

LOL Sami - all the names on our list are bog standard, ordinary names, other than Spike! That's why we can't get our heads around liking it so much - it is so against all the Oliver / Matthew type names that we like!

I once had a German penfriend called Fartih Arslan - I never could make him understand why it was so funny in English!!

Right - off to wash down the last wall in the nursery and have me a bath I think.

cazscoob

any1 want a 13 month old???he has found out how to switch tv on and off, sky box and hoover. hes driving me mad today???

MFD i dont know whats going on am gonna ask him to go stay with his mum and dad for a few days, not like it will make any difference to me right now as hes not doing anything. gonna see if my dad will come up after work and move this washing machine for me too?

MrsTinks

cazscoob wrote: »

dont think u have missed anything mrs t lol!

i just dont know what to do? everything was fine and now it justseems to be going downhill? i ask him to do something and end up doing it myself his dad or friends ask him and hes off like a shot?

thats another reason baby doesnt have a name cause he wont talk to me about it? i really just give up?

Uhmmm.... you don't suppose he's got PND? Odd as it sounds men can get it too...

MrsTinks

Ah I see MFD beat me to it
I would also speak to your health person thingy (technical name eludes me right now grrrr) who comes out to check on you and ask their advice and say you think he might have PND... Or you could even call the docs?

Sami_Bee

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

LOL Sami - all the names on our list are bog standard, ordinary names, other than Spike! That's why we can't get our heads around liking it so much - it is so against all the Oliver / Matthew type names that we like!

I once had a German penfriend called Fartih Arslan - I never could make him understand why it was so funny in English!!

Right - off to wash down the last wall in the nursery and have me a bath I think.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
I've just scared Chris half to death that made me laugh very loudly!! good job I swalloed my tea before I read it!!