The Thrifty Gifty Girls 2009 (Organised & Money Neutral for All Occasions) #3

sylphraven

Happy Birthday Mum2One
((((Jammy, Jordan, Rusty & anyone else who needs one))))

Did you try the new pretzel place when you were in Telford Mum2one? Mmmmm, nom nom, love them fresh with a bita butter on.

Glad your back Choccy as well as you other awol-ers, nice to see a chatty crowd again!

I am worn out! LO's b'day yesterday was rather mad & rather busy with family dropping round all day as well as fnger painting & baking lil cakes. Today has been almost as busy with shopping, & diy. I shall start on the £75 challenge tomorrow, promise

bunbun2

happy birthday mum2one. hope you have had a good day!

jamtart sorry to hear about your grandad. it must be a hard decision to make

JS sorry to hear you are still feeling unwell. hopefully the antibiotics will work soon. sorry too that you are having a tough time at home.

aurora I managed to get the bald head! in case anyone is wondering my ds wants to go as Harry Hill for the non uniform day tomorrow. the other ds wants to go in his pyjamas (possibly with a bald head too!)

rusty you know where I am...

pinkladymel

HAPPY BIRTHDAY mum2one

_party_:bdaycake: _party_

Wishing you a rested day filled with happiness and a little bit of smugness at the fact you kicked the dentists backside. Go lady!!

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

pinkladymel

I just wanted to say a huge sorry for everyone and the way they are feeling right now. I am being completely anti social and rubbish so I am not in the mood for a twenty name post but I feel so angered by all of your stories.

What is going on in the world today where you can't take care of the old (even when you're paid for it) where you can send begging people away in pain and just forget about them.

What kind of a world is it when people would give anything to have their loved ones in good health and with them whilst others are just throwing their families away without a second thought.

What kind of a society is it when people are suffering and we leave them lying awake at night because they have no idea what will happen to them in the morning, if they will have a roof over their heads or a job to go to.

I'm starting to feel so sick of the world and a large majority of the people in it. Whenever I feel like this, I come back here and I realise there is some good in the world, there is some good right here in every single one of us.

I know I cannot hug you or make your problems disappear but I wanted you to know that there are good people out there and it's worth fighting for to find them, just like mum2one did with the dentist.

United we stand xx

mhagster

oh don't be sad PLM you are in the lead.......that is something to be happy about.
We are going to be cyber aunties to the budgie babies. Their granny can knit them little baby budgie bags in budgie colours!

do keep smiling!
mx

JordanShannon

Ladies i need your honest opinion.......
Do you think i am over-reacting with my dad?
Thanks
..xx

Shelley3774

I tried posting this afternoon but unfortunately it was having none of it and my posts kept disappearing!!!!!

Rusty - I really feel for you and the stress you must all be under must be terrible. I hope you manage to find the strength to get through all this I just cannot imagine it - it must be awful

Sorry i haven't got time now to post to everyone but I know there are so many people on here needing (((((hugs))))) at the moment x

hayley11

Shevs wrote: »

Haley :eek: Arrrggghhh no not Man sh***y sorry I ment city:eek: dont waist your money on that and pop down to the United megastore and whilst your there you could buy him a ticket to our museum where he can see all our ovely trophy's:p ha ha ha only messing hun;) . I actually think thats a really good idea for a birthday girft might do something like for bf's birthday in a few months but with United stuff. Thanks for the idea chick x x x

Oh I hate buying all this stuff! I am a Red through and through My boyfriend is a Liverpool fan though :eek: We bicker about football loads :rotfl: When i'm in a mood, he calls me a die hard liverpool fan and it makes me laugh because I am so NOT any kind of liverpool fan :rotfl: Good idea about putting him some tickets for the Man U museum, that'd be funny! :rotfl:

pinkladymel

JS, I think that your dad is always going to keep tugging on your heart strings no matter how hard you try to pull away. There will always be someone like this in your life, someone who doesn't deserve your love but you cannot help but care for them. When you are angry you are strong, when the anger fades you are weak and confused. He can't help the fact that he fell in love with someone else, but he can help treating you like a play thing. I would do anything for my children and protect them with my own life, I couldn't imagine ever letting them down or lying to them for my own gain. He sounds like he doesn't deserve your time or your love but I have only heard your side of the story and I don't know what your relationship is like with him. You know in your own heart what you want to do. Life is short and you never know when it will be taken away from you, live each day for you and try not to think about the bigger picture. If you don't want to talk to him right now, good for you.

Your life, your decisions.. and you need to remind yourself you are a good person and any decision you make would be out of the goodness of your heart and therefore not wrong. Have faith in yourself x

jamtart6

Hayley - Your boyfriend has exceptional taste in football teams particularly as they will be premier and champions league winners this year

paddington - thanks for the post we have looked after him and cooked for him and taken him every where (every holiday too) for almost 16 years (since he has been on his own...his health was perfect until 5 years ago) so there is a huge element of guilt and not being able to give him his last wish after giving him every thing else. The hosp basically said nursing home or you take him home.

JordanShannon - You sound more than reasonable withyour dad, sorry he is upsetting you so much Hope you are just fine with all your tests.

Hope I didn't depress anyone with my post, its just good to get it out sometimes