The Thrifty Gifty Girls 2009 (Organised & Money Neutral for All Occasions) #3

JordanShannon

Hiya everyone:hello:

Sorry i have been AWOL for a while and haven't been chatting. Whilst i have been away quite a bit has happened, explaination to follow:

aurora_14 wrote: »

Good evening to everyone.
I am not sure where to start. I had a major breakdown and now I am starting fresh again. I was really naughty at my lowest point (deleting everything, shredding pictures, ripping clothes, having a bonfire - the lot) and now I am a bit sorry for that.

OMG aurora do we live them same lives?!?!?
I wasn't feeling very well on friday, but i wanted to get on with it, on saturday i got to work and was sick everywhere so i got sent home and i slept for most of the day. I was meant to be going to my friends birthday dinner but i was so ill that i stayed at home in my pjs and duvet. Anyway OH was texting me through the dinner and said 'Don't worry you wouldn't have liked it anyway its really posh' (I was a bit insulted by this) and went to bed. And got up sunday was feeling better except had back ache, extreme 'period' type pains and burning sensations.
I deemed myself well enough to stay with my OH, so i went over whilst he was at work and was all okay, noticed he left his phone so i looked on it (I know i'm extremely paranoid but he has history and my dad really isn't helping atm) and found out he had been texting this girl. I felt completely shattered so i stomped upstairs with three large bottles of alcohol to help numb the physical pain and the emotional pain. I ended up ripping up everything i had made for him, everything i had brought him etc. He got home and as soon as he came in and shut the door i thumped him one and was shouting and crying at him. He lied to me about what happened so i ran off (to a nearby park) i sat there for hours howling (it was about 8.30 ish) he text me so i threw my phone, i broke that clean in two(it was a flip one so it was pretty easy to break). When i had calmed down i went back to his to try and sort it out. After a lot of crying he told me the truth i ran this girl to confirm that it was 'innocent' and she agreed. He really opened up to me and was howling about his past and that, and we fell asleep at 3.30 (after a very long heart to heart)
Woke up at 8 to ring the docs as needed an urgent appointment, pain wasn't shifting with pain killers. So went off to docs at 10.30 whilst OH went into town. Had a ''charming'' doctor (she was so rude like she was expecting me to give myself a diagnosis)Had to give a urine sample, was told there was a lot of blood and protein in it (like i should have some how knew why there was a lot in there!!) so had to go to the lab for tests. She really upset me so as well as being in pain i was extremely miserable as she made it sound as if it was my own fault, that i brought it on myself). OH and his mum came and picked me back up he had brought me a new phone(still using my old sim) and a large boquet of flowers as a cheering up and a i'm very sorry present. Went to pick up my antibiotics which so far has knocked me sideways.

Wow i wrote a lot. :rotfl: Anyway have to ring up on friday for my results, but have been off work as i can't bend/sit down/stand up for too long as i'm in a lot of pain and pain killers aren't touching it. So my only real option is laying down. So i have been monging on the sofa, getting up to relieve pain then laying back down. So i really don't know what to do with myself.

Have decided on mother's day present...i'm going to cook my mom a light dinner with the mousse and pay for her to see Marley and Me :A (Hopefully the antibiotics will have worked by then so i will get to see it too )
Hope everyone is okay??
Love and hugs to everyone that needs them and i will give you all luck seeing as it is St Paddy's Day

..xx

paddingtondoo

You really need to blog bunbun and so does furry :rotfl:

Just in case anyone's forgotten its scrapbook apprentice voting again - plm's in the lead at the mo

bunbun2

jordan sorry to hear you have not been well. hope you get it sorted soon and they give you antibiotics to clear it up. glad you have sorted things out with your OH - that's all you needed when you were in such pain - men eh! take care and look after yourself - hugs

paddingtondoo - I am not sure that I ready for blogging yet! I would prob not update it for weeks! I will just follow for now!

JordanShannon

Thank you bunbun, i know he's so insensitive sometimes but he was crying more than me lol :rotfl:
..xx

rainmac

Jordan - blimey missus, you've been through the mill and back again haven't you? Thinking of you and hope you get ok news back from the docs.

Shelley - thinking of you too x

Bunbun - go on, if I can blog so can you, easy honestly!

Rusty - I'm so wanting to know what you do with your goosebumps dies, I'm so nosy...

I can't believe it, DS2 perked up when his dad got home so OH said "what did you say was wrong with him..." :mad: It didn't last though and he soon crashed back down with a bump. Just hope the GP can give him something to help his cough as I'm at a loss and can't keep going without sleep... One woman in Sainsbury's asked me if he had whooping cough.

pinkladymel

Rainmac Never give any cough mixture for coughs. Coughing is the bodies way of expelling any virus and mucus and when you take cough mixture it stops you getting better. Coughing is caused by mucus in the throat from the nose. Prop the head of the bed up with books, Put some Nytol on his pillow and Vicks vapour rub on his back and keep him well dosed with sudafed or calpol to help sleepiness so that he doesn't irk himself into a coughing habit at night. Make sure he never has socks on in bed as this will cause night terrors when he has a temperature. If you knew any of this already, then don't think i'm being patronising. Just before christmas my two had a bad cough and were barking like seals all night. I didn't know anything but I swotted up and just wanted to pass the information on. I did to someone here a few weeks ago.. maybe Scattymam and she said it helped. Hope you get some sleep soon you poor thing xx

JS Oh my goodness what is going on!! I am so sorry you have been under the weather but I hope things start to get better now for you. Every now and then you need a big argument with your partner just to make your relationship the best it can be. I know it hurt but we all get complacent and do stupid things some times and this has just kicked his !!! into realising how much he loves you and to not keep letting life pass you.. I bet it kicked your !!! a bit too and your relationship is much better now. Just them results to get now and you're all finished with and looking forward to a nice sunday with your mum

Thanks for your endless support Paddy, I appreciate it more then I can tell you. It is wonderful to have friends that are still not finished with me xx

hayley11

JS - So sorry to hear you've had a rough time. I can totally relate to what you said. I used to have serious trust issues with my OH and he used to do a lot of stuff to make me feel worse and always wondered why I went off on one when I caught him out! He never cheated on me, i'm pretty sure of that but I still wonder if he was getting a bit too friendly with a girl he used to work with and that's why he never let me meet her or touch his phone. But we're past that now, I trust him completely. It doesn't help that I get very depressed very quickly. It comes over me like a tidal wave and nothing anybody says or does can snap me out of it. Just have to wait for it to wear off on it's own.

Really hope the pain goes away, sounds awful. Again, I know how horrible it is living with constant pain. Hope the doctor is able to give you some answers on Friday and I hope you don't have to see that horrible doctor again.

Shelley - ever so sorry about your dog. The waiting must be horrible. ((((big hugs))))

I'm not so bad with clothes, I tend to have a clear out 2/3 times a year, I give most of it to my sister. I don't have anything that is more than a couple of years old, I get bored of clothes or they lose their shape/colour so I get rid of them. Actually I have got this one t-shirt that I got when I was about 18, it's white with a pattern on and for some reason it has never gone grey in the wash or gone a funny shape or anything.

6 of my things on ebay have bids on them now :j I haven't got round to listing anything else yet, i'm so lazy! I just can't be bothered! :rotfl: I really wish they did a pill for motivation, I sooooo need it sometimes!!

OH is off tomorrow, so happy! It's not been a good week so far so least I don't have to spend the whole week by myself. I really do wish I had some kind of life that didn't revolve around my OH. I love him to bits and would rather spend time with him than anybody else but I just wish I had a social life or a job or something so that i'm not always sat around waiting for him to come home or ring me.

I was going to try and make my OH a card today, a lovely dovey one but then my new external hard drive came so i've been transferring all my many files on to that. I'm going to copy all my DVD's and CD's on to my hard drive and then sell them all Is that illegal? Not selling them, but you know copying them? Ooopsie if it is, still doing it though :rotfl:

scattymam1

yes it was me - it was at night that the whooping sound came - so I stopped giving her the cough medicine, we switched off the heating in her room and left a gap in the windows so the room was very cool. I tried the books under her mattress as well and it worked...plm should be a nurse...no never mind that she should be a gp. Thanks mel. x

rainmac

Thanks for the advice doctor PLM, very gratefully recieved x I remember reading what you wrote before so have had his bed propped up and using vapour rub every night. I reckon he might have some sort of infection cos he's just getting worse as time goes on - is sleeping like a babe now though - think he more passed out ocs he couldn't keep awake any longer. He's not really eating either which is so not like him - not even nice things like sweets and ice lollies!

Aurora - is your blog available to see or is it for your eyes only? I'd love the addy if I can have it ;-)

Hayley - You do have a social life, you have us! How about looking into making some crafty bits to sell? Would keep you busy and you'd be in contact with new people? Just an idea. You could set up a blog, join facebook, friends reunited... Look for a local book club to join - maybe your local library would have details?

bunbun2

aurora_14 wrote: »

Hi girls,

just a quickie, I am not in the mood tonight for much of talking but do keep posting please. :-)

JS - I am giving you one huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge cyber hug. I am very happy that you are back, i was quietly wondering if you were alright as your posts were nowhere to be found recently. Take good care of yourself, don't worry too much about stuff - after all, it's only stuff. What matters is you, how you are, how you feel and everyone here is I am sure thinking of you. I hope your tests will be all ok and you yourself will feel on top of the world very soon. Lots of love and plenty more of cyber hugs.

Bunbun - :A
How is that blog coming? :-) I am blogging, too (again!!!) and trying not to notice the delete button on the keyboard. :-)

Take good care everyone. Lots of love. xxx
K

aurora please give me the address for your blog so I can follow yours too! I will never get any housework done now I have so many blogs to follow!! I will think about doing one myself!