Where's NeverDepairGirl?

PasturesNew

setmefree2 wrote: »

How did posters find out that !!!!!!? worked for ...

I didn't know that, until you pointed it out.

Mind you, I don't take notes, so I won't remember it later.

Dithering_Dad

bubblesmoney wrote: »

i was wodering the same as well. would it be worthwhile for this forums owners to look into criminal elements on this website using the websites resources (ie PM etc) to threaten other users especially the ones who help out on the website. it happened to genarali and now NDG, wonder how many others who suffered in silence.

Before we go running away with this, do we actually have proof that someone has threatened NDG. I have read a number of posts where people keep asking for the culprit to be 'named and shamed' but no one seems to have any idea who did it. Is this not the usual case on this baord where someone states something (perhaps in jest) and it gets repeated so many times that it becomes factual. Like 70% average house prices drops, etc.

Do we have actual evidence that NDG's absence is due to abuse, or is it simply that she has decided that MSE is a little too addictive and that she is having a break to spend more time doing her job or being with hubby and kids? (or any of the hundred other reasons why someone leaves MSE).

bubblesmoney

PasturesNew wrote: »

If a stalker reads my posts they will have ascertained: I don't work, I've got no income to speak of, no friends and no social life. I must be the size of a large planet as I never seem to get off the sofa, nor stop eating wine gums and my home made bread.

So, on their Top 10 lists, I wouldn't even get a look in.

when they know u have a 160k (OR MORE) kitty in your bank account from your house sale that might attract the wrong kind of person.:p

Lotus-eater

Posters do come and go from forums you know.... it might be nothing more than she's bored and want a rest from all the ranting that goes on here. I know I do sometimes.

If she has been threatened as has been reported, then she's not here for a very good reason so stop worrying about it. She's not daft and will take whatever steps are necessary to sort it out.

I have to add that I though she gave too much info out as well, I almost pm'd her to advise to take down the photo of the house she posted. Maybe I should have done.

Lotus-eater

PasturesNew wrote: »

If a stalker reads my posts they will have ascertained: I don't work, I've got no income to speak of, no friends and no social life. I must be the size of a large planet as I never seem to get off the sofa, nor stop eating wine gums and my home made bread.

So, on their Top 10 lists, I wouldn't even get a look in.

You've got a friend in me baby

Come off it, half the population of MSE likes you (and the other half don't even know you exist), but I can never get an idea of what you look like in my head. For the rest of the posters I have this image in my mind, but with you its very misty.

chucky

Dithering_Dad wrote: »

Before we go running away with this, do we actually have proof that someone has threatened NDG. I have read a number of posts where people keep asking for the culprit to be 'named and shamed' but no one seems to have any idea who did it. Is this not the usual case on this baord where someone states something (perhaps in jest) and it gets repeated so many times that it becomes factual. Like 70% average house prices drops, etc.

Do we have actual evidence that NDG's absence is due to abuse, or is it simply that she has decided that MSE is a little too addictive and that she is having a break to spend more time doing her job or being with hubby and kids? (or any of the hundred other reasons why someone leaves MSE).

no... just that she said that it had happened... and she started a thread on it...

Dithering_Dad

chucky wrote: »

no... just that she said that it had happened... and she started a thread on it...

Ah right. I suppose the thread was deleted by the mods?

Did anyone read it and remember who the culprit was?

StevieJ

chucky wrote: »

no... just that she said that it had happened... and she started a thread on it...

That was a while ago.

Pobby

As I have said before, I and others received highly abusive PMs a while back. By their tone and the fact they were in a very bold red font I can only assume that it was from a poster who almost daily changed his handle. When I refer to handle I mean his user name not the one on his brolly.

oldMcDonald

Dithering_Dad wrote: »

I think people can still put information on here about themselves and yet still retain their anonymity. A lot of people know that I have a disabled daughter, that I gave up working in a job where I was home every night for a series of contracts where I was away all week, overseas and in London in order that my wife could give up her job and look after our little one. People know I have an interest in pensions and how much I have in my pension pot, that I have an interest in investing and what I have invested in, they know that I used to get lonely being away from my family all the time and so I filled all my evenings with the gym, kickboxing and socialising, people know that I have paid down my mortgage by £45k and that I am now in a position to give up contracting and get a local job again (which I have just done). They know all these things, yet they do not know where I live (apart from close to Manchester, which covers a wide area), they have no idea what my parent's house looks like, they have no idea what colour I am, they have no idea what I or my children look like they have no idea what religion my family belong to. They don't know these things because, for one thing, we're on a financial website there is no reason for them to know these things and for another, 'they' are a mixture of weirdos & decent people and it only takes one of the weirdo's to turn your life upside down.

I know your first name

(well, I know what you told me it was!:p)