Black Dog of Depression - can we help each other?

sandy71

I'm actually scared to post honestley now. ive had to much to drink and it dont mix well with my meds. hubby no help and have noone to talk to.

crazy_girl

sorry i missed you sandy, im a bit worried too, perhaps we could have a list of no-go topics?

Rachel021967

Thanks Lame Wolf.
Sandy sorry you're having a hard time. You can always pm us and I'm sure there are others that would rather you pm them than struggle along alone.

crazy_girl

ys definately pm me if you want x

LameWolf

Sandy, I know how you feel.

Was lying in bed last night worrying; wish I'd never even started this thread now. I meant well, and just wanted to be helpful, but if it means people are going to be left high and dry, then maybe I should've kept my nose out of things.

*sigh* one of these days I'll learn to keep my big mouth shut and mind my own business.:(

Careful_with_that_Axe

No, No, No, lw! Please don't feel like that and certainly not to the extent that it disturbs your sleep.
This thread has helped a lot of people, me included. That's the important thing; what has been done. Don't stress yourself about what may or may not happen in the future please lovey.

sandy71

LW please don't be sorry, I'm sorry I made you feel like that. This thread has been a godsend to me, I don't think I would still have been here if it wasn't for you and others here.
I have realised I get more depressed before a seizure which I had last night and drinking too much doesn't help.
CG and rachel thanks to you as well.

I have been thinking about starting my own black dog forum (If I am allowed to say that:rolleyes:) so we can say what we want.

LameWolf

Sandy, sweetie, you didn't make me feel like that, you just gave voice to how I was already feeling, nothing more than that. Please don't worry.

I just get the feeling that every time I try to do something, doesn't matter what, it all goes pear-shaped, and I end up unwittingly causing more harm than good.

Seriously feel I should just crawl back into my kennel and stay there.

Careful_with_that_Axe

Right, added to Flylady list today is boarding up lw's kennel so she can only retreat when allowed.
I can't tell you how much I would miss you if you did that. Am sending happy vibes and 'ugs your way.
If you hadn't started the thread, there would have been a lot of lost and unhappy people who didn't have the resource to call on. It's a fine and dandy good thing you have done. Now go clean your bathroom *g*

LameWolf

*sniffle sniffle, blows nose* I did the bathroom yesterday, cos I got in a muddle with the tasks list. (See, I can't even do Flylady without getting in a tangle). So it's the [STRIKE]junk[/STRIKE]spare room for me today.
Gotta keep busy today, if just to prevent me using up all our clean hankies.