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Daily Chat 06/01/09 - I Will Win Today!

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  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    LouiseJ wrote: »
    Right, I am not going to tell him I looked at his phone, whats that saying

    Keep your friends close and your enemies closer:cool:


    tell him to bring GF home for tea (sammy snap!!).... not admitting to knowing who GF but saying that he cannot very well deny having one, it's written all over his neck, lol....

    when he won't bring her, ask why, who she is and take it from there....

    She'll probably run a mile at the invite and the whole thing will end.......

    maybe she isn't as bad as you think, but showing off and is used to sexing it up on texts etc for 17yo, rather than sweet 13 yo.... once she realises his level she might tame it a bit.....


    alternatively can you encourage him to go for a nicer girl... anyone in his peer group?
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    cause you is in love....?
    so why am i doing it then?:cool:

    its like i have a self destruct button
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    jinky67 wrote: »
    so why am i doing it then?:cool:

    its like i have a self destruct button


    I'm worried about you hun, too many highs n lows in this love affair... it's difficult i know but you seem to be having a hard time......
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    I'm worried about you hun, too many highs n lows in this love affair... it's difficult i know but you seem to be having a hard time......
    i just hate the fact that we to be apart and we just niggle at each other....and i have been known to over-react.

    Me the one who claims she is unemotional.

    Who the fcuk am i kidding?
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    sammy115 wrote: »
    Why don't you try another tack Lou, invite her round......like you said keep your friends close and your enemies closer......

    DD1 had a girl who bullied her...I invited the bully round. Both were mortified but ended up best friends...i got to quite like her in the end...we all laugh about it now....(although I was terrified at the time cos she was quite a big built girl)...

    She had been here a couple of times with the rest of the group and she was really weird.
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    jinky67 wrote: »
    so why am i doing it then?:cool:

    its like i have a self destruct button

    I have one of them too:j :o
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    LouiseJ wrote: »
    She had been here a couple of times with the rest of the group and she was really weird.

    Take her out of the pack then.....
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    LouiseJ wrote: »
    I have one of them too:j :o
    yeah they are great aren't they?:rolleyes: :o :cool:
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    jinky67 wrote: »
    i just hate the fact that we to be apart and we just niggle at each other....and i have been known to over-react.

    Me the one who claims she is unemotional.

    Who the fcuk am i kidding?

    Or who just keeps her emotions under tight check.....

    If he is worth his salt jinky he will stand by you over the highs and lows....I had a self destruct button once but I pressed it so many times and OH stuck by me that I gave up in the end cos it had absolutely no effect....
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    Lou - I would also try a very casual 'why don't you invite xxx around for tea?' don't call her his GF (might make him embarrassed)......

    To give my 2 penneth of when I was that age, I never told my parents anything. I grew up with a very conservative 'you can't do that, what would the neighbours think' kind of Mum. At 13 I went out with a lad in my class and never told her, just said I was going round a friends house (we used to sit in a freezing cold train station station shelter snogging, it was a tiny concrete bus shelter at the station and there was never anyone else :o ) and then at 14, I went out with a 19 year old :eek: for 6 months (and no, I wasn't doing anything else other than kissing:rolleyes: !!) I don't remember ever telling my Mum and Dad about him either, I said I was at my best friends house, but they realised I was going out with someone but it was never discussed and it just fizzled out.

    If my Mum (in particular) had made any kind of 'I know you have a boyfriend, what are you up to' kind of noises, I would have clammed up even more and probably lied more than I did :o I was always very envious of my friend, who's Mum was cool about her having a BF, she was very relaxed about it all.

    My sex education consisted of my Mum saying one day: 'Do you know how a woman gets pregnant? The man puts his willy (her words not mine) in the man.' That was my lot!!!!!! (good job I had an inquisitive mind - Grimsby library was scoured for books to read :o :rotfl: )

    Anyway, that's just a ramble, but it might be how he is feeling - embarrassed about 'girls' etc.
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
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