Daily Chat 06/01/09 - I Will Win Today!

sammy115

Actually my worst fear was DS coming home and telling me he had got some girl pregnant......he is like a baby himself...he can only just look after himself..

immoral_angeluk

Kids will always lie to their parents. If you tell them to do something, they won't do it. If you tell them no to do something, they'll do it. All you can do is tell them your concerns and educate them to the consequences and how to avoid them.
Simple as.

LouiseJ

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Lou-
Give him a big pack of condoms and tell him to USE them.

(voice of experience)

Bunny his is only 13:o

jinky67

Please can someone explain to me why i feel compelled to act like a fanny and upset myself and others?

Can someone please slap some sense into me?:o

Remember what i said on the phone Lou????? ha ha ha ha ha didnt last long did it?

Sitting here feeling sorry for myself again:cool:

Maybe i need to do more housework

(Land_of)_Maz

a really difficult one....

definitely do not tell him about the phone.... a no brainer...

keep it light, non accusational, and let him know you're there if needed for anything....

LouiseJ

Right, I am not going to tell him I looked at his phone, whats that saying

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer:cool:

I will have a talk with him when he comes home, he knows that I can cope with anything but lies and they know that they can get away with murder with me anyway (bark is much worse than bite).

I will ask Carl to keep an eye on the situation as school too, he does like to spout off though cant say he will be very diplomatic about the situation:rolleyes:

I will just have to trust him I guess......................but its her that I am bloody worried about:mad:

LouiseJ

jinky67 wrote: »

Please can someone explain to me why i feel compelled to act like a fanny and upset myself and others?

Can someone please slap some sense into me?:o

Remember what i said on the phone Lou????? ha ha ha ha ha didnt last long did it?

Sitting here feeling sorry for myself again:cool:

Maybe i need to do more housework

Housework is a last resort:eek:

(Land_of)_Maz

jinky67 wrote: »

Please can someone explain to me why i feel compelled to act like a fanny and upset myself and others?

cause you is in love....?

sammy115

LouiseJ wrote: »

Right, I am not going to tell him I looked at his phone, whats that saying

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer:cool:

I will have a talk with him when he comes home, he knows that I can cope with anything but lies and they know that they can get away with murder with me anyway (bark is much worse than bite).

I will ask Carl to keep an eye on the situation as school too, he does like to spout off though cant say he will be very diplomatic about the situation:rolleyes:

I will just have to trust him I guess......................but its her that I am bloody worried about:mad:

Why don't you try another tack Lou, invite her round......like you said keep your friends close and your enemies closer......

DD1 had a girl who bullied her...I invited the bully round. Both were mortified but ended up best friends...i got to quite like her in the end...we all laugh about it now....(although I was terrified at the time cos she was quite a big built girl)...

sammy115

jinky67 wrote: »

Please can someone explain to me why i feel compelled to act like a fanny and upset myself and others?

Can someone please slap some sense into me?:o

Remember what i said on the phone Lou????? ha ha ha ha ha didnt last long did it?

Sitting here feeling sorry for myself again:cool:

Maybe i need to do more housework

Jinky.....:grouphug: surely there is none left to do......RIGHT CONSIDER YOURSELF SLAPPED.......