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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • biscotte
    biscotte Posts: 246 Forumite
    Good morning - back from our weekend way and caught up with all the goings-on of the weekend.

    I just want to say to everyone that it's important to remember that written words (as opposed chatting to someone) are open to all sorts of interpretations, some correct, some not so correct. We can't modulate what we write with tone of voice/body language (well smilies but they are limited) so it behoves us all to be extra touchy-feely if writing something that could be contentious to avoid upsetting people. And remember even if you think someone needs a kick up the backside it doesn't mean they'll agree with you and thank you for it!

    I did drink over the weekend, A glass of wine one night and a gin and tonic and couple of wines the next. What surprised me was that I felt very rough on Sunday morning, way out of proportion to the amount I drank - mustbe used to having an AF body.
    So Lurky, please could you put me down for 8, thanks.
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Moves up on the bench to make room for Jo on the wagon :D

    Me thinking we need to upgrade the seat belts on this ere wagon, maybe to those things they put on roller coasters??!
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • yellowmonkey
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    jo1972 wrote: »
    Me thinking we need to upgrade the seat belts on this ere wagon, maybe to those things they put on roller coasters??!

    Got superglue in my pocket :D

    ym
  • bellrooster
    bellrooster Posts: 1,030 Forumite
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    hi all

    can I join you on the wagon?

    I'm currently tucked up in bed with awful sickness, think i drank far too much yesterday and i'm totally fed up.

    oh and mum have noticed that i am drinking too much, but no one knows how much the thought that i want to stop and don't seem to be able to is totally consuming me. I feel so unhappy/guilty.
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
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    I poured away the rest of the vinegar, oops sorry I mean wine, in my fridge this morning, it must have been off by now. It was about half a bottle as well so I must have drunk less than I thought I did the other day.

    Today will be 8 out of 12 for me Lurkio please.

    I am finding the support on here very helpful actually. I always thought that I wouldn't like going to any group support meetings like AA or Weightwatchers or Slimming World but I can see why people do it now. This forum is like a anonymous support group and it fits around your schedule so I think it is amazing anyway.:A

    Don't worry about the blips people, I think you are all doing great.:A

    Hi Bellrooster.:hello:
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  • yellowmonkey
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    01welcome7jb.gif bellrooster.

    ym
  • GreyPilgrim
    GreyPilgrim Posts: 1,636 Forumite
    Can't help it. I feel like a complete loser to be honest. I really thought my mind was flipping out last month with the panic attack and deep down I knew it was beer. So what did I do? got drunk. Felt twice as bad yesterday (and still feel nervy today)

    I know this will pass. I'll feel fine tomorrow (hopefully), but I can't believe I let myself and everyone down. wah. :mad:

    I even went and had a sausage and egg mcmuffin the next morning, so my veggie challenge is up the spout too.

    :(
  • bellrooster
    bellrooster Posts: 1,030 Forumite
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    thanks - and hello x
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Welcome Bellrooster.

    Greypilgrim....Remember.....one sausage doesn't make a pig:D :p :rolleyes: ;)
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
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    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Hiya bellrooster, good luck in your mission, hope you do better than I have!
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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