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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • Bismarck
    Bismarck Posts: 2,598 Forumite
    well, I won't use the a-word again!

    don't anyone leave on my account....
    For what I've done...I start again...And whatever pain may come ...Today this ends... I'm forgiving what I've done -AF since June 2007
  • I certainly won't Bismarck! I think its great that we can all have different views and discuss them, and think everyone's point of view is valid.
    X
    Drinks to remember I, Me and Myself
    And winds up the clock
    And knocks dust of the shelf
    Home is a love that I miss very much
    So the past has been bottled, and labelled with love.
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Bismarck wrote: »
    well, I won't use the a-word again!

    don't anyone leave on my account....

    Hear Hear..Totally agree.This thread was fun...with a bit of sobriety:rolleyes: thrown in now and again.Lets get back to it quick.
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Patchoulli wrote: »
    Hi all!

    Hope you're all doing ok.

    I am on day 8 now, and really feel that I have more energy which is amazing because my sleep is completely shot! I am having the most vivid and awful nightmares - does anybody relate to this? Could it be withdrawal do you think?

    Anyway, Becks alcohol free lager is on a good offer at Tesco this week, and if you stick it in the freezer for an hour its not too bad, you can almost kid yourself that its the real deal! We usually have a takeaway on a Friday, so I've got a couple of Becks chilling right now, because the thought of a curry and cup of tea or a bottle of coke just doesn't cut it for me.

    As for the word "alcoholic" in my mind, it is just that - a word, a jumble of letters. And labels are for jars in my mind! All I know, is that deep inside, I didn't feel good physically when I was drinking too much - that little inner voice kept niggling away - and I knew it was too much - for me. My "too much" may be fine for some one else - my "just right" may be way too much for someone else. What I'm trying to say is I think we all "know" when we, personally are overdoing it - and its personal to us, and our makeup and mentality, and no one needs to put us into a little box to tell us whether we need a label or not, because inwardly - that little voice tells us all we need to know.

    Have a great Friday evening,

    and thanks for being here.

    X

    Couldnt agree more and I spent the whole of the summer drinking Alcohol free becks...its lovely...think I will send DH out for some now.
    See you later...off for a bath.

    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    oi oi oi NTC & fedup - pls don't go! NTC in partic so many of your posts have completely mirrored my feelings I would really miss you (tho it would save having to keep on saying "I know JUST what you mean!") (fedup, no offence, NTC's been on here a while longer, is all, your posts also meaningful).

    Biscotte, you used that phrase again - "I was in denial." as in well known African riv.....OK!!!! it's the only joke I know!!!!!!!!!!

    Erm, not sure what to say next, am happy to not use the a-word ever again, as long as nobody thinks I'm going for a swim in a well known African ri......

    Lurky where's your "calm down dear"...

    I have relied on this thread so much & I know I'm not the only one; don't let it fall apart over a few not-so-well-chosen words....

    Edit: Hi MP you posted while I was writing, hope you enjoyed your bath!! x
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    OK.

    Everybody stay where you are and nobody move. Keep away from the windows and doors and remain calm. Help will be along shortly :D

    ym
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Dont worry Winebox...Im sure Lurkys doing what he does best:D :D

    And all us fun people will still continue to have fun regardless.
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    OK Everybody stay where you are and nobody move. Keep away from the windows and doors and remain calm. Help will be along shortly :D

    ym

    See...I knew it :D
    ETA definitely going for bath now.
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • yellowmonkey
    yellowmonkey Posts: 7,052 Forumite
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    Enjoy your bath Molly.

    Scared to post Smilies now :o:D Thanks for that though JD

    ym
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    OK.

    Everybody stay where you are and nobody move. Keep away from the windows and doors and remain calm. Help will be along shortly :D

    ym

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
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