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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • pariskate
    pariskate Posts: 300 Forumite
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    Afternoon all, lots if posting going on and everyone seems upbeat.

    Welcome back Mari, I too fell off the wagon but have only just climbed back on - don't be embarrassed, when we're perfect then you can feel bad but until then I think you're in fine, and empathetic, company.
    Welcome also Maz, I identify with a lot of what you're saying about binging.
    Nirelendguy, the few times I have gone a whole evening without booze in a party atmosphere I have had to be continuously vigilant, reminding myself of how drunkI would get and how bad i would fell the next morning and how cringe inducing my behaviour wold be - that really does stiffen your resolve. Also, I find it useful to look at myself as if I was an outside observer, saying things like 'look, there's Kate feeling a bit awkward because she hasn't got a drink, it's fine though because she doesn't have to be centre of attention tonight'. It sounds a bit 'touchy feeley American' but it works for me.
    If I'm still sober at the end of the night then the observation is 'Look there's Kate wondering what on earth she's still doing here when everyone else is plastered and being rather silly and boring'.
    Saving to pay the tax man
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    pariskate wrote: »
    Afternoon all, lots if posting going on and everyone seems upbeat.

    :DSomething to do with Sir Billy from Barshamhill being back:D
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    edited 15 April 2009 at 4:06PM
    mollypolly wrote: »
    pariskate wrote: »
    Afternoon all, lots if posting going on and everyone seems upbeat.

    :DSomething to do with Sir Billy from Barshamhill being back:D

    :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:


    I can't help jabbering on :D

    You wouldn't have it any other way ;)
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    mollypolly wrote: »

    :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:


    I can help jabbering on :D

    You wouldn't have it any other way ;)

    Certainly wouldn't.
    Its great to have you back.Your banter really brightens the place up.

    (oooops...... I didnt mean that everyone else is dull:rolleyes:)

    Have a good day all
    Love Mollypollyxxxx

    BB.Where are you.
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • mollypolly wrote: »
    Certainly wouldn't.
    Its great to have you back.Your banter really brightens the place up.


    :kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss:
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    mollypolly wrote: »
    (oooops...... I didnt mean that everyone else is dull:rolleyes:)

    :rolleyes: :p:p:D
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    :kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss::kiss:
    Thanks....and to you too Jo.

    Would love to stay and play but got to get ready for work now.
    Be good and I'll be back later
    Love Mollypollyxxxx

    PS. I'll be watching.;)
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    mollypolly wrote: »
    PS. I'll be watching.;)

    :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly wrote: »
    Would love to stay and play

    :eek: I am always totally serious ;)
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    :eek: I am always totally serious ;)

    :undecided
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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