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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    edited 8 April 2009 at 9:46PM
    Dearest Fedup, well done on sticking to the squash :T I have refrained from saying this but have you ever thought of changing your username?

    I don't mean that in a light hearted way, but it just seems that you are having so much bad luck at the moment. I am thinking of along the lines of removing negativity and putting in positivity?

    I had a fad once where I was into feng shui. I went around cleansing energy and removing negativity. I also made poor Mr BB remove NEW mirror wardrobe doors as they were a definite no no in feng shui. I had put them in to make the room look bigger but a few weeks later they were out and gone. Good job he loves me and is used to my sometimes trying ways?

    I just hope that things do improve for you though as it is about time you had some good luck and a change for the better.

    So take care Sweetheart and I hope that you are feeling brighter soon?

    Lots love and hugs
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Ps I have just noticed in your earlier post that you said: You just want to cry. I am sorry that you are feeling so down. It is miserable when everything seems to be going wrong and nothing good seems to be happening. Just hang in there and things will improve for you. We are all here for you and WE ALL HOPE that life gets brighter for you soon Angel. Lots of love and extra ((())) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • eselt
    eselt Posts: 604 Forumite
    Well done fed up- when I was feeling low I always used to grab a drink to try and blot it out- didn't help at all of course, so why did it take me 20 yrs to figure that out?!

    Welcome back old friends- BHB, Shoppy and YM- anyone else lurking, let us know you are alive and well.

    Budgie- your posts are so thoughtful and you try and give everyone a lift- thank you so much.

    Right, back to the apprentice- who does everyone really love/hate this year?
  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    OK ........ Now I'm scared ....:eek::eek:

    "his hair was..perfect"

    was on radio today - I howled along! (erm, as you do)
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    Hello all :wave:

    Budgie - don't panic! I'm bimbling around, just had a lot on recently :)

    Sad to miss Jo's birthday and Molly's anniversary.......

    Happy belated birthday, hun :kiss:

    Well done MP, you're inspirational!!!

    3 for me so far this month, scorer ;) - not great, but there's a long way to go :o

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Good morning all!

    Budgie - thanks for the concern. I'm heartily fed up of bugs...not just me though, my Mum and Dad and Piglet seem to be catching everything going too. Tried Echinacea but seems to make no difference. Might try aromatherapy like you suggested. I've used it for Hayfever in the past and its worked. Oh, and Piglet hugs work a treat! OH never seems to catch any of these bugs (touch wood!!). Swear he's not human!!!

    Fedup - hope you are feeling brighter today. I know how it feels and you have my sympathys. Well done on resisting the wine though!

    Shoppy - hello!!! Good to see you visiting. Bet you are excited about your little boy!!

    BHB and YM - Good to see you back too!

    Happy Shopper 8 for me please!!

    Busy day for me today, but will keep telling myself its just today and then I've got four days off!

    Looking forward to the long Easter weekend. Normally I would already be planning a lot of drinking ( a box of wine would, no doubt, have found its way into the shopping!). But this time I'm busy planning other stuff! I've got loads of little eggs and we are going to do an Easter Egg hunt for Piglet. Got to charge up the camcorder as well to capture it all! Also going to blitz the house, cleaning carpets etc.

    Well, everyone have a good day. ((hugs)) to anyone feeling poorly or down.

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    Lurkio wrote: »
    Hello all :wave:

    Budgie - don't panic! I'm bimbling around, just had a lot on recently :)

    Sad to miss Jo's birthday and Molly's anniversary.......

    Happy belated birthday, hun :kiss:

    Well done MP, you're inspirational!!!

    3 for me so far this month, scorer ;) - not great, but there's a long way to go :o

    This sums it up really. Waves to all. Social evening last night I gave it a miss and went to bed early.
    Another afd here not sure how many so far will add it up think it's 4 or 5 but not sure.
    Go see oh tonight then plan my trip home.

    Belated birthday hugs to jo x x x

    Waves to rest of you x
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • 40somethingmum
    40somethingmum Posts: 2,513 Forumite
    Put me down for another day .(6 in total)

    In a rush speak to you all later

    40sm
  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    edited 9 April 2009 at 8:26AM
    another af night so 4 now dh bought a bottle of rose home but i was still feeling yuck so i decilined and had a large lemonade and lime with loads of ice (wonders why it tastes better in a large cocktail glass?)
    feeling much better today after a full nights sleep and no puke/poop virus

    i wish you all a good day and hope at least one nice thing happens to you all today to brighten your day xx

    edit..well i just one 75p on online free scratch cards its almost allways 20p..does that count ..can i buy a snickers bar now pleeeeeeessssseeee??? psml
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
  • miamoo
    miamoo Posts: 1,694 Forumite
    I have had a shaky start, was AF tuesday, drank wednesday and AF again last night, so Im back on track.

    Fedup I agree about the user name, its kind of like a self fullfilling prophecy. I hope things look up for you soon, you deserve some happiness x also well done for not drinking the wine, that was exactly what I did wednesday, except I drank it:o
    £100 - £10,000
  • Wanna_Bee_Free
    Wanna_Bee_Free Posts: 2,324 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Well I'm feeling a lot better this morning, without a hangover, although I did succumb to a glass or two of wine last night so still on 1 day so far in April.

    Have a lovely long weekend everyone.
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