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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2

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  • noynoy
    noynoy Posts: 380 Forumite
    im on the naughty step didnt do af last night again so still on 11/31 ...must not drink! happy birthday budgie and fedup..good luck for tonight hope it goes to plan,,happy crunchie day everyone x
    total debt 4711.00 at lbm (4217.31) dfd aug 2012 :eek: overdraft 800 (400.00) kill overdraft first, loan 1500.00 ,creditcard 2411.00
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thanks for the good AF wishes sent over for tonight - don't know if I am going now as no-one told me what time it starts and where. Am quite happy if I don't go in some ways.

    Also I have a weeks holiday booked for April and will have to think hard about my target for next month :confused:


    Happy Birthday Budgie! :bdaycake:

    Have a good Friday everyone!
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • The Mad as March Hares AFM Challenge





    Day 27 in the AFM House and the house is celebrating their favourite housemates birthday:bdaycake:

    Who succeeds? We decide:D


    115k 15/31 10/31
    ad1jnl 25/31 18/31
    betty_blue 15/31 5/31
    bismarck 31/31 26/31
    boysma 25/31 8/31
    budget babe 31/31 26/31
    eselt 31/31 26/31
    esther mcvittie18/31 11/31
    fayjmck 26/31 19/31
    fedupandskint24/31 20/31
    fluffybishop 8/31 15/31 Target exceeded :j
    glasgowgirl 19/31 9/31
    happyshopper20/31 17/31
    jo1972 31/31 19/31
    lurkio18/31 15/31
    maman 12/31 12/31 Target achieved :j
    miss piggy31/31 25/31
    mollypolly 31/31 26/31
    ms_london 31/31 11/31
    needstochange 16/31 14/31
    nessa 56 15/31 1/31
    noy noy 26/31 11/31
    ophelia_10 24/31 12/31
    Sea78 20/31 19/31
    stroppy 10/31 5/31
    the rugby coach no target set 8/31
    **upsydaisy** 13/31 7/31
    wannabefree 16/31 4/31
    winebox 16/31 4/31

    No of days pledged = 558
    Actual = 403
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Maman - plenty of space on the naughty bench, but think we are still doing brilliantly :T :j I will not drink next Monday, but I too have stuff going on on Tuesday so reckon that will be it

    Maman and FUAS - Kind of glad I am not the only one with holiday in April :confused: IYSWIM :rolleyes: We are going to Edinburgh and will be away 6 nights.
    The first night on 5th April I have splashed out as it is hubbys birthday and we are spending 1 night in The Witchery by The Castle :eek: :D :j I am so excited I can't breathe :rotfl: :rotfl: We are eating in their restaurant that night and apparently their wine 'list' is like a Bible :eek: so will def be drinking then.
    Then we are using our air miles [very MSE :D ] for the next 4 nights accommodation [another reason we are treating ourselves on the first night] but eating out = drinking wine for me but I will try hard not to drink every night :confused:
    On the way back down south [we're driving] we are stopping half way in a lovely old inn with an award winning restaurant - so I will def be sampling their wine then too :o

    I think for cutting downers we are allowed to fall off the wagon on special occasions and holidays if we want to but it does mean I won't do so many AFD in April :confused:

    Have a good day all xx
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    Happy Birthday to our Sparkliest Star
    Budget Babe
    Enjoy your day hun you deserve a lovely one
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi NTC - I'm upto 20/24 from yesterday

    Thanks Big Sista!
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • We are going to Edinburgh and will be away 6 nights.
    The first night on 5th April I have splashed out as it is hubbys birthday and we are spending 1 night in The Witchery by The Castle :eek: :D :j I am so excited I can't breathe :rotfl: :rotfl: We are eating in their restaurant that night and apparently their wine 'list' is like a Bible :eek: so will def be drinking then.

    Aww fluffy you will love it its so amazing!! I went with a customer once so all the pretty sparkly romanic lights were a bit wasted on me but that wine list is something to behold. The cellar is supposed to be spectacular. Bet you play the see who can find the most expensive wine game. I am also in Edinburgh in April so if you see a slighly odd looking yellow star dancing down princess street then give us a wave:rotfl:
    29th Feb Quit Day :j
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Good sunny morning everyone,

    Lots of peeps off on their holidays in April.Me too.We have lots of celebrations next week and are going to Anglesey in a cottage with log fire etc for some...peace and quiet;)
    DH birthday April 1st, wedding anniversary on the 2nd and my birthday on 3rd......but I wont be drinking, because next week is a more important anniversary....ONE AF YEAR.
    I really cant believe I have nearly done it...it has gone so quickly, but I know I couldnt have done it without the support of everyone on here..you are all wonderful.Before April 7th I am going to go all the way back to the old thread to have a read of my journey.See how I was feeling last year.I do know the last hangover I had was on my birthday as I drank too much on our 25th wedding anniversary and very nearly ruined all the celebrations.I promised myself that I would never feel like that again.....and I havn't.....and I wont.

    Have a lovely day.
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    fayjmck wrote: »
    I won a bottle of wine at a raffle last week - someone dropped it off at work today - we were at a nature talk of all things (yeah alcohol gets there too) - I first thought - OH GREAT - then I handed to a chap in the office that had helped me out last week - saying 'I am not drinking at the moment - why don't you have this?'

    Well done Fay.:T

    Happy Birthday Budgie.

    :bdaycake:

    I was really craving a drink yesterday evening so I went out for a brisk walk and I didn't take my purse so I couldn't buy anything from the offie. I am finding this online support very helpful and I woke up feeling bright and bushy tailed this morning.

    Day 11 AF for me today NTC.

    Thanks everyone.:A
    HOUSE MOVE FUND £16,000/ £19,000
    DECLUTTERING 2015 439 ITEMS
    “Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”
  • fluffyb
    fluffyb Posts: 1,025 Forumite
    Mollypolly - you have done so so well. Well done :T :T
    The cottage sounds fantastic - just the sort of thing I would love too.It is my hubbys birthday on the 1st April too :eek: :D There's a coincidence!! He has a business meeting that night though, so we will probably share a bottle of wine on the Tuesday instead. Have a great holiday :D

    NTC - :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: If I see a yellow star in Edinburgh I will say hello :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: As for The Witchery restaurant, we will be the ones pretending we know what we are looking for on the wine list :rotfl: :rolleyes: Hubby will take ages pondering and looking knowledgeable then probably ask for a bottle of their house white :eek: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rolleyes:
    Fine by me, but if I am staying in The Witchery I am doing it in style so will have to kick him in the shins :rotfl: :rotfl:
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