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Abuse or Not?

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  • russboy wrote: »
    Please no reference to dirty old man jokes.....I do not find this funny only very upsetting....infact this forum is getting as upsetting as my situation...It just goes to show how many people out there don't really give a hoot about you when you are down.......Many thanks to all the genuine replies, they have been very helpful and I would like to hear from anyone who has found themselves in a similar situation as mine.

    oh thats an easy question to answer then, yes I used the pillow and claimed the insurance, next question ;)
  • gordikin
    gordikin Posts: 4,422 Forumite
    russboy wrote: »
    ....I would like to hear from anyone who has found themselves in a similar situation as mine.

    Happens all the time, all that is perfectly normal...surprised you felt the need to ask to be honest.
  • Geenie
    Geenie Posts: 1,213 Forumite
    russboy wrote: »
    Please no reference to dirty old man jokes.....I do not find this funny only very upsetting....infact this forum is getting as upsetting as my situation...It just goes to show how many people out there don't really give a hoot about you when you are down.......Many thanks to all the genuine replies, they have been very helpful and I would like to hear from anyone who has found themselves in a similar situation as mine.

    What answers are you looking for on a forum that you don't already know yourself?!!

    Her behaviour disturbs you, so get out if you think it is unreasonable, and are clear about what you saw and felt.

    After 13 months into a relationship you gave her a possible entitlement to half of your house.......that is something you need to discuss with a solicitor not look for answers on here.


    "Life is difficult. Life is a series of problems. What makes life difficult is that the process of confronting and solving problems is a painful one." M Scott Peck. The Road Less Travelled.
  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    And in the bath with the Yorkie?! Gross![/quote]

    Yes, I prefer a mars bar.

    I posted this before somewhere, but a friend of mine from school had big boobs. He cat used to sit on the side of the bath and stare at her boobs.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
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    Where's your missus tonight, russboy?
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • whitewing wrote: »
    Where's your missus tonight, russboy?
    probably bathing in Branston Pickle with the dog :rotfl:
  • Penny35_2
    Penny35_2 Posts: 455 Forumite
    Hi Russboy

    Was just thinking, maybe the branston pickle is a craving are you sure she is not pregnant...when people are pregnant they have cravings for strange things.

    Just a thought.

    Best Wishes
  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    next time she gets the pillow out.....lie very still and hold your breath.....wait a few minutes,then shout BOO very loudly,then get the pickle jar out. It will either be a match made in heaven, or she will run for the hills....either way your problem is solved.
  • swtchick87
    swtchick87 Posts: 231 Forumite
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    Hi all.

    iv read russboy's thread carefully and i really cant identify if hes telling the truth or not. I hope he not just making this all up, as abuse is a very serious topic. i shud know.

    Anyway advice to russboy, get out of this relationship asap, as this womans behaviour is more than worrying its getting beyond that now, dont you think? Your safety and you dog's is at risk. Think about this, yes her name is on the morgage but isnt you wellbeing worth more than that? Makesure you keep a log of all the dangerous things shes been doing as this will help when you decide to leave her and take things further.(by that i mean, off your morgage etc)

    Everyone replying to your thread here, thinking your a fake, have a right to think that as there are sickos and weirdo's out there who have nothing better to do than waste our time and their own by making stories up.

    Anyway, im a newbie, but iv been a "lurker" since mid 2008. :rolleyes:
    Serial lurker..
  • bestpud
    bestpud Posts: 11,048 Forumite
    Ok, do you reckon Russboy is nursing a hangover this morning?

    Or...?
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