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  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    Red I am so sorry that you are going through this as the moment :grouphug:

    I do have to say though that you have been making alot of allowances for him and you do need to be put first sometimes xxxxxxx
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Thanks guys, BB he had been out but he didn't seem too drunk. I just don't know what to think, he's always unpredictable but he seemed so sure last night that he wanted to finish it. Nothing much I can do for today except think...
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    hugs hon. on msn and mobile if you want to talk. lots of love. xxx
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
    :heart2:impossible is nothing.:heart2:
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    My heart goes out to you Red, it really does xxxx these things are so painful but I am sure you will work out what is right for you.

    You come across as a very genuine and caring person, you are clever and pretty and deserve a man who will be there for you always, not just when it suits him.
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Thank you xx You are all so lovely, you're going to make me cry again and I've just put my make up on so trying not to do that... Had arranged to go round to friend's this afternoon so off to eat chocolate and probably drink wine and go to work tomorrow with a hangover... catch you all soon x
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    OK, I have tried lemsip and ibuprofen cocktail and I am now heading towards the drinks cabinet for the ingredients for a hot toddie and have realised that I have no idea what is in one:confused:
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • LouiseJ wrote: »
    My heart goes out to you Red, it really does xxxx these things are so painful but I am sure you will work out what is right for you.

    You come across as a very genuine and caring person, you are clever and pretty and deserve a man who will be there for you always, not just when it suits him.

    What she said (I can't say it any better)


    On a side note - I like Buttercup syrup...it probably doesn't do anything extra to any of the other brands, but is tastes so damn good.
    :p I'm the only gay in this forum :p
    *Everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads*
  • I am bitterly cold, even with the heating on. I have a concrete floor and am on a sloping site so have a huge area under my house full of nothing and the cold air just seems to be coming through the floor today.

    Hot Toddy can be lots of things Lou - tea with honey, lemon and brandy? JD, honey and lemon?
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    I have JD and lemon, just need to ask OH to pop to the shop for some honey and I will be cured:j .....................sort of:rolleyes:

    I havent had flu like this in a long time:(

    I can hardly type I am so weak.....................and a total drama queen:o
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • LouiseJ wrote: »
    and a total drama queen:o

    Gosh, i hate drama queens :p :rolleyes:
    :p I'm the only gay in this forum :p
    *Everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads*
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