hanging my head in shame

moneymabel

Yeah we won't mention singles :-/

smile, bum, tits, record collection?! Interesting criteria for potential girlfriends-what if they have no tits but great taste in music? Does the order get changed then ?!

worried_jim

moneymabel wrote: »

Yeah we won't mention singles :-/

smile, bum, tits, record collection?! Interesting criteria for potential girlfriends-what if they have no tits but great taste in music? Does the order get changed then ?!

Great record collection gives me a starting point, we can listen to them, play them, see them live, talk about them (yes I am still talking about the record collection). With the, ahem, knockers, I soon run out of ideas, yes I am like a kid at Christmas but come boxing day I need a little more. So great record collection wins every time, unless her name is Pamela cos then it's best of both worlds - best rack in the world and ex husband has the best record collection cos he's on most of them. Girls Girls Girls etc....

moneymabel

Ever regret asking a question....? Lmao

this thread has gone waaay off topic and I take responsibility for that- sorry!!

worried_jim

The topic is fine. This has now become my therapy, I can throw around my random thoughts and at some point in the future I will go back to page one and have a read, obviously I know that there is a roller-coaster of emotion and humour and the great thing is that there are many random contributions along the way. Posters seem to come along for a page or two and then disappear, I know that this is a real bad description but this is a bit like sitting on the bench waiting for the bus in Forest Gump, yes yes stop laughing at the back I am very much aware thank you very much. My post's are like a box of chocolates, you just don't know what you are going to get. If you think that I sit here and think "I know, I'll write about how desperate I am for a bit of hows your father I'll pretend to like Simply Red". It really is just random rubbish that flows like the sewage drain on a stormy day. Although I do have some future idea's, for instance coming soon I am going to start my confessional, this has been inspired by the alcoholics anonymous 12 step programme where alcoholics are encouraged to call people that they have wronged and apologise. Now I am not going to do this (my guilt runs to deep!) but I am going to post my apologies and ask for your forgiveness for the wrongs that I have done, I must warn you that it will probably be pretty funny for those with a strong constitution ! Haven't quite thought how I am going to do it yet and where to start (I have a lot to apologise for ) but hopefully it will purge my soul and if anyone else wants to say sorry for something that they have done and are unable to do it in person then come and join in. Hopefully your mistakes will make me appear saintly !

lurchio80

Jim you are an absolute inspiration when i started reading this thread I was almost suicidal, with debt problems, but after this you have given me a much needed boost that I can get back in control of my life.

Whenever I start feeling low I will jus read this thread it will guarantee me a smile.

moneymabel

So Jim-is your first one going to be the Simply Red incident girl?!!? I haven't got any confessionals as I'm perfect in every way (and a compulsive liar :-)

worried_jim

lurchio80 wrote: »

Jim you are an absolute inspiration when i started reading this thread I was almost suicidal, with debt problems, but after this you have given me a much needed boost that I can get back in control of my life.

Whenever I start feeling low I will jus read this thread it will guarantee me a smile.

Wow. I don't know what to say except I am really glad you are here today. I sometimes have "dark" thoughts too and I counter them with thinking of the best day I have ever had and transporting myself there, I'll share it with you.
A few years ago I was with a very good friend (my only friend really) and we had spent the day drinking in the Sun and she had decided she was going to give up work and take off around the world for a year. One hour later I was in Travel agents buying a ticket to New Delhi as I was going to tag along for the first month before returning to work.
India was an eye opener in ways I cant explain, but if anyone has ever been there you will know exactly what I mean.
One morning we out and about at 6am to go and see something very special. We were one of the first to arrive that morning as I turned a corner through an archway this is what I saw.-



well I froze in my tracks and fell in love with what I was seeing (this p1sses all over the pyramids). Built as a symbol of love for a dead wife, I was speechless. I had my mp3 player with me and I stuck it on random play and whilst watching the sun rise I listened to Pavarotti singing Nessun Dorma with a tear in my eye. This was my best day ever, perfect in every way and when ever the day is a bit rubbish this is the image and memory which always helps me get thru it.

moneymabel

That is a stunning photo Jim-nothing else to add really just been staring at it for 5 minutes without noticing the time!

lurchio80

Thank Jim tell me more about Payplan, I am thinkin about a DMP with them as soon as I get my start date at Sunderland Job centre. I lost my job 2 months back you see, and have been extremely low since.

chinawhite_2

Oh, how beautiful !! and what a lovely memory to have.

I have another question if thats okay, had a look at the payplan website from your link (thank you) but I dont know where to start really. Its a bit complicated as the debts I have are joint with my Ex. We have a joint loan and joint credit cards which we have both been paying but I am not going to be able to afford my bit because of other stuff he's stopping paying me and I know hes going to struggle to pay his bit aswell.

Do i ask him to do a separate DMP or do we go in as joint debtors and do one together ?? or do I just half everything ? Sorry , a bit rambly but am very confused :rolleyes: