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  • Ember- I couldn't take it from you I will go to the chemist and buy one it's really so sweet of you thanks you are the best quit buddy I could of asked for - I am okish now gonna have my lunch in a mo - might walk to the shops and treat myself - that'll cheer me up I think - cheers hun you are a star :-)
  • Ember999
    Ember999 Posts: 1,022 Forumite
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    Ember- I couldn't take it from you I will go to the chemist and buy one it's really so sweet of you thanks you are the best quit buddy I could of asked for - I am okish now gonna have my lunch in a mo - might walk to the shops and treat myself - that'll cheer me up I think - cheers hun you are a star :-)

    Good Idea, treat yourself to a little 'something' will also let you see how much extra cash you can now spend on yourself now you DON'T SMOKE. I am saving the money I used to spend in the back pocket of my filofax and it is now bulging. I am going to the Gretna Outlet Village next weekend and I am gonna spend! spend! spend! new clothes, new gadgets, who know's what I will buy, but it's nice knowing that I will see something for the money I USED TO WASTE on cigarettes. My average smoking bill was between £50 - £70 a week :eek: Ridiculous and such a waste. Well no more! I am in this for the long haul and choose how bad I feel I will not smoke again. Neither will you. I have had some really bad days when I have been so depressed with it I wanted to go to sleep till it was all over with. Of course, you can't do that. But days are passing and my mind and body are getting used to it. You will get there. Buy yourself a pressie and keep smiling! You are doing what thousands of people fail to do every year. You will be a success and don't you think that will feel good at the end of the day?

    You can tell by my posts today that I am feeling good :j I sure hope I feel so positive tomorrow LOL :A
    ~What you send out comes back to thee thricefold!~
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  • sezdav
    sezdav Posts: 125 Forumite
    LOVINGITIFITSABARGAIN- keep going sweety. Try and stay possitive and you deffinatly can do it. We are all in this together. Having you and EMBER doing this with me has been a great help. Im so glad we are all here to help eachother and just to know that im not the only one feeling this helps. And you dont appear to have been negative so dont worry about that. If you read back over the old posts we have all had a few days of huge struggle. Am here for you sweety. Keep that (Fag Free) chin up!!

    Definatly buy a fake cigarette!

    Thinking of you honey, sez x
  • sezdav
    sezdav Posts: 125 Forumite
    In true money saving style could you not ask around your friends, buy or download a version of the hypnotherapy instead of paying someone? Ive heard that people can charge a huge amount of money for this session. Just thought it may be better to "DIY" as it were. Perhaps this may be better as you would have something to play again if you struggled.

    Dont know, just a thought? Let us know how you get on, and good luck

    Sez x ;-)
  • barbara22
    barbara22 Posts: 117 Forumite
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    Well Sez, re hypnotherapy, this is a good suggestion, but one I've explored before - I have never been able to find a suitable tape (have bought 2 or 3 of them in the past), as most of them are American based, and use a transparently unconvincing formula which wouldn't persuade anyone to quit anything! Probably because they're paranoid about some nutter suing them because 'the tape drove them mad/had to be hospitalised' etc, I'm sure you get the drift of this. And anyway, as far as I'm concerned (and no offence meant to US citizens) us and America really are 'two countries divided by one language'!

    Seriously though, thanks for an excellent suggestion, very welcome and I will have another look at the products on offer for this purpose.
  • Hi Guys - Hope you are all coping and I haven't depressed any of you with my miserable attitude this morning - I am passed it now - been out at lunch time - never saw anything I fancied - walked passed a doorway with 4 smokers huddled together puffing away and never affected me at all - just thought glad I don't have to do that anymore - yep I actually was glad - ha ha ha - Postive afternoon ahead for me (fingers crossed) got a large bunch of grapes to keep me going aswell - Keep smiling guys and thanks for your support this morning
  • sezdav
    sezdav Posts: 125 Forumite
    Hi Guys - Hope you are all coping and I haven't depressed any of you with my miserable attitude this morning - I am passed it now - been out at lunch time - never saw anything I fancied - walked passed a doorway with 4 smokers huddled together puffing away and never affected me at all - just thought glad I don't have to do that anymore - yep I actually was glad - ha ha ha - Postive afternoon ahead for me (fingers crossed) got a large bunch of grapes to keep me going aswell - Keep smiling guys and thanks for your support this morning

    YAY! Very glad youre feeling better sweety. Its too cold to stand outside smoking anyway! You havent depressed us, so dont worry!

    Is it just me that keeps having little arguements with myself every hour or so... go on nip outside for a quick one, noone will no, just one wont hurt................AAAAAAARRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH

    Might very well be going insane me thinks!!

    x
  • Don't U dare Sez - You will know if you have had one and you are the most important person in this so don't give in you will feel awful and you would of let yourself down - think of all the days you have got through you will be chucking all that away for one ciggy - nah girlie you don't want to start from scratch again do you and hey what about me and Ember you wont be on here talking and helping us if you start again - come on Sez big breath in - out in - out :-)
  • sezdav
    sezdav Posts: 125 Forumite
    no i wont dont worry. But its crazy some of the things that ive been thinking, all be it breifly to enable me to have one! Luckily i do seem to have my will power stongly in place this time! I wont give in.....

    I do keep reminding myself that just one wont be just one. As someone else onthis thread said, i know that one will be to many and that 100 wont be enough.

    Sez x
  • Fellow Non-smokers I have just travelled home on the train and for the 40 minute journey listened to a woman in her 60's coughing her lungs up yep gasping for breath - what does she do as she gets off - yep lights a fag - maybe it helps her breath abit better - I dunno - do I wanna be like her in 20 years when I'm her age - nah I don't think so infact I know so - when I fancy a ciggy I'm gonna think of that woman honestly she was going green and purple gasping for breath - right must get on with the Tea - have a great evening everyone -x- we are fabulous all of us another day nearly over (ark at me - I was the one that was soooo depressed and miserable this morning - but thanks to my non smoking buds I got through it thank you thank you thank you ) cya Loz -x-x-x-
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