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  • Bless you all :A Rog, ahh yep but the best bit is technically it con only get better ;) We can hope right :confused:

    In other news I am trying to find a place that will take volunteers. Something conected with older people. So far unsucessful but I am still trying...

    Edit ~ I love our new home. Maybe just maybe I will stay logged on more than 5min and help some of the newbies/questions on the main board :)
  • beanielou
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    Age concern?
    local day centre?
    it can indeed only get better~sending positive vibes your way hun.
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  • Hi PAP, I have been dipping in and out of your diary, you are so motivated you should be proud of yourself:T

    I think we maybe suffer from the same 'demon problem', i'm not sure if youv'e ever said more than that, but if you ever need an ear to bend pm me.

    I'm lucky in that my hubby is very supportive and himself has a well paid job (always useful!) but I have just given up one day week from work in the hope some extra me time and less stress will make me feel a bit better.

    I also have my mum who is poorly and this can be very stressful too.

    How old are you PAP? I'm 36 years old, I get the feeling your much younger.

    Hang on in there girly, you can do it xxxx

    TPAx
    MFW - We've only gone and blooming done it!
    May 2013:j
  • Beanie, thanks I never thought of age concern. I have emailed them and fingers crossed I may be able to work serving tea/coffee. Fingers crossed :D

    TPA, Bless you :A Thanks I will remember you if I need to share. Everyone on here is so good though, you are all amazing. How kind is your oh, maybe the time off will help a lot, I hope it does. Its helped me loads so far. Also I used to see work as my life however now I know once I walk out of there I dont worry untill next time I am in. Only taken me 3 years to get to that conclusion thoough :rotfl: I am 23 however I have always been told I have an old head on my shoulders. I have never socialised with anyone my age and prefer 'older' people to be around. Also I am very set in my ways and have very out date opinions, but hey thats me :rotfl: Thanks, I will the demons steal some days but the days I do have are 110% better and I enjoy them so much. I will beat this and I will be sucessfull :T Thanks for your encouragement :A

    Ok so since my last update not much has gone on really. Money has gone not too well, what with mothers day and then I had to send somthing to america :rolleyes: Anyways bills as always are covered and I have a few pounds left in my purse. I am back to walking to work and back again now to save bus money. I am actually enjoying being out in the fresh air.

    So this coming month, I am having to borrow a few pounds off Mum, I know its bad but at least it this way around ;) The reason for this is we are due to go on holiday on the 17th. This is all payed and I have savings for this. However, due to my food binge etc etc I am now a tad to big for my trousers :o Of course wearing the same trousers each day and washing each night you dont notice this so I discovered this on friday. I know that you can get cheap trousers in tesco and asda so I will need to buy some of those and then pay Mum back as I get payed on the 15th. I have budgeted for that in next months soa. I have also put things on ebay which may help a little.

    Oh I have also found my WLR site online for free, so you guessed back on the wagon. But with the extra excercise and no money for junk I think I can get this done now. I have stopped taking my purse to work which has helped too.

    Anyways enough ramballings :rotfl: Take care :j
  • beanielou
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    Meant to say there is also the WRVS.
    The walking will be sooo good for you hun~go you!!
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    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • rog2
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    I know that you can get cheap trousers in tesco and asda so I will need to buy some of those and then pay Mum back as I get payed on the 15th.

    I had to get a shirt, for an interview, as I have lost three stone and all of my shirts were like tents. :rolleyes: I went to Tesco and they had a twinpack of shirts reduced from £12 (already good value for shirts) to £4.00. When I took it to the checkout, they charged me £3.92 - apparently this was the additional VAT reduction. Shirts were pretty good quality and, most importantly, fitted. :T :T

    Take care PaP - I hope to be able to post some good news, on the job front, tomorrow or Tuesday, but I won't say anything yet as it's not officially confirmed.

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
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    Ohhh Rog, was going to ask but dident want to.
    Fingers crossed xxx
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    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • TPA, Bless you :A :rotfl: Thanks, I will the demons steal some days but the days I do have are 110% better and I enjoy them so much. I will beat this and I will be sucessfull :T Thanks for your encouragement :A

    :j

    Aw good your back, I thought I had frightened you off!! I like what you said about the demons stealing days but the others being 110% better, I know exactly what you mean, lets concentrate on the good and ignore the bad!

    TPAx
    MFW - We've only gone and blooming done it!
    May 2013:j
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
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    Just to add the WRVS are activly looking for volunteers to work with the elderly at the mo.
    Will try to find the website for you.
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
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    www.wrvsvolunteersarepriceless.org.uk
    email [EMAIL="volunteer@wrvs.org.uk"]volunteer@wrvs.org.uk[/EMAIL]
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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