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Weekly Flylady Thread 3rd November 2008

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  • hollyh wrote: »
    Is it me am i being unreasonable?

    Why would you even think you were being unreasonable asking for help when you are ill?
    Apologies to Tom, but it's no wonder men get a bad press on this thread.
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    He says he's ill too which he is but it's ok for me to do it all.

    He keeps saying he can't do it all and now he's cancelling xmas as it's too much trouble:confused: .

    I wasn't asking for him to do it all just to help so i don't have to do it all:mad: :mad: .
  • vivw_2
    vivw_2 Posts: 2,230 Forumite
    Hi everyone. Have just skim read the posts and it seems as there are quite a few who are out of sorts at the moment. In some way, I'm afraid it made me feel better as I'm sat here at my laptop, almost falling asleep and yet I know I have a yr 11 class to teach soon followed by a revision session ready for Monday's exam. Just wish I could wake up!!!!
    We don't need to do it perfectly - good enough is exactly that GOOD ENOUGH.


  • embb
    embb Posts: 3,118 Forumite
    Awwww Michelle no words of wisdom but just wanted to send you a hug, ((((((((((Michelle)))))))))

    Holly no you are not being unreasonable, not at all! - men :rolleyes: I did laugh though when I read he punched the hot dog rolls - sorry :o

    I've shuffled round the living room with a bin bag and flung/tidied all the crap that was lying everywhere - then watched over proceedings whilst teenie hoovered the floor - it was awful :eek: so the living room's looking a little better...needs a clean and the floor mopping but that wont be today. Haven't ventured upstairs yet....
  • kassey
    kassey Posts: 1,523 Forumite
    The plumber is back to finish of a few bits , he is fitting a new door on the bathroom he fitted last week , I have just gone to the kitchen and the dinning room kitchen and bathroom is covered in a blanket of sawdust , He saw the look of horror on my face and said he would hoover when he has finished. We shall see.
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,498 Forumite
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    ((((hugs)))) Michelle and Holly
    you're both having it rough and no Holly you're not being unreasonable...

    I have been playing with my pegs too Tag!

    off for a late lunch - been finishing dining room...
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • I'm back!

    Hope everyone is well and wercome newbies/returners. Since I've got back I've done laundry and errands. My aims for the rest of the day are to do more laundry and errands, spend time with my friend and tidy up
  • TAG
    TAG Posts: 2,823 Forumite
    Getting there very slowly......................

    Tuesday Twinkles - kitchen and dining room

    Level Two
    wash windows
    deweb these rooms

    Level three

    Clean out your grottiest cupboard!! It doedn't need to be like that
    Empty and clean out your bins!

    Wiggly Wednesday - bathroom, study and loo-bi-doos
    Level One
    Clear floors of gibble and guff
    Empty the bins

    Level Two

    Clean the windows and tiles
    Clean the baths, bogs and basins

    Level Three

    delete 10 dead links from your favourites and 35 old useless emails!
    Vacuum/mop floors in these rooms
    Polish taps and mirrors

    Extras
    1. Dispose of all the empties
    2. Clean the limescale off the shower head
    3. defrag the computer
    4. Wipe all the grotty places.. the keyboard/phone/mouse etc..
    Thursday Throw!- Master Bedroom & Landing
    Level 1
    Check fire alarms are working
    Remove and wash bed linen and duvet covers.

    Level 2

    Dust surfaces & make sure no cobwebs..
    Vacuum & turn mattress before replacing with fresh linen..
    Air the duvet

    Level 3

    Vacuum floors in bedroom and on landing
    Sort through a cupboard and fling everything that is dead
    Clear a hotspot.. or spend 15 minutes clearing one.

    Extra tasks list, as usual choose one or more
    1. 31 fling boogie time, go on grab a bag and clear that clutter
    2. Clean all paintwork on the landing
    3. Clean windows in these rooms
    Friday Flyday- those frightening kids rooms and spare rooms
    Level One
    Clear away anything that isn't in it's place, clothes, toys, books etc

    Level Two

    Vacuum the floor
    Dusting.. all those shelves and flat fluffy surfaces!! Don’t forget the light shade and curtain pole!!!
    Strip beds, turn and vacuum mattresses!! and replace with fresh linen .. check if duvets need freshening up too!! Wash the curtains!

    Level Three

    Clean 2 windows
    Sort through a cupboard/chest of drawers and get the clothes out which are no longer wearable, too small or out of season!
    Wipe any sticky marks off walls and doors

    Extra Task List
    1. Find 5 things to ebay/freecycle
    2. Wipe the radiators, skirtings and window & door frames!
    3. HHI
    My normal dailies -
    Tidy bedrooms & make beds.
    Tidy & S&S bathroom.
    Wash bathroom floor.
    Hoover bedrooms/landing & bathroom.
    Keep ironing together (x15)
    Sort clean washing & put clothes away.
  • kassey
    kassey Posts: 1,523 Forumite
    I have placed henry hoover in the dining room , And he has been switched on , Not by me.I will have a careful inspection later.
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
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    Valli wrote: »
    My single pleasures...
    • If I want to leave the house in a mess I can.
    • When I change the bed I get in to clean sheets because no one has beaten me to it. (because for ages I NEVER did get the benefit! It seemed he was either at work or in bed - and it wasn't a strenuous job...)
    • My house my rules.
    • If I want to go out with friends (day or night) I can.
    • If I want to send text messages/e mails unhindered I can.
    • I can talk to anyone without coming under suspicion.
    • If I want to skip a meal I can.
    • I don't have to wash up, clean windows, wash clothes because someone wants/needs these things doing.
    • I am far less stressed.
    • I have the support of friends and family and flyladies when I want.
    • If I want to stay at work to get something finished I can.
    • I choose what I feel like cooking.
    • I don't have to buy christmas presents and birthday presents for people I don't love (or like even).
    • I can do some DIY jobs myself...properly.
    • I can choose decorations/furniture and when to decorate.
    I am sure there are more...

    Thanks for that you have made me feel so lucky cause I can do all of those and have my hubbie - that is not meant to sound smug at all, it has just made me realise he's a good egg (even if he does spend too much time on his pc)
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
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