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edited 30 November -1 at 12:00AM in Disability Money Matters
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    Glad to hear the Harvest Festival went well, Tatty.

    MRI's are scary at times! Especially when they need to you remain so still and its almost impossible laying there in so much pain without wanting to move!!!

    Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you for your results on the 4th also - you will have to let us all know how you get on.
    :DPle'ma an bysva?:D
  • tattytatty Forumite
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    Hi thanks for your reply i must have cried for an hour before going and i had a 6pm appointment so my husband could take me after work so i worried all day it was really scary and the pain in my back awful but the thought of pressing the panic button and having to do it all over again was the only thing that got me through it i think .I will let you know how i get on with my results take care x
  • nearlyrichnearlyrich Forumite
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    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Hung up my suit! Mortgage-free Glee!
    I have FMS too was diagnosed in 2005 after a bad patch where I had flu like symptoms then pains everywhere for weeks. I still work but like another poster I work mainly from home so I can manage my work around the bad days.

    I know I am lucky to be as well as I am most of the time, the insomnia is probably the worst bit for me.
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  • me too, i have fibro and im just returning to work.... how many people here have had a complex diagnossis??..... i was diagnosed at 18 with m.e.
    then at 29 m.s. was suspected.... then they said it was some neurological disorder... now they say its fibro myalgia.... im 37 lol
    perculiar or what? im returning for just 5 hours a week, i hope to gradually be able to take on more but also care for both my autistic sons.
    1. i'm bi polar.:rotfl:2. carer for two autistic sons.:A 3. have a wonderful but challenging teenage daughter.:mad: 4. have a husband that is insatiable. :eek: 5. trying to do an open degree.
  • beekabeeka Forumite
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    poohbear59 wrote: »
    beeka I gained two stones in weight after starting on the Amitriptyline, but the worst one was the Zispin my GP put me on thinking it was 'all in my head' and I was just depressed. It almost guarantees weight gain. It also made me turn into a monster, even to the point of trying to kill myself. I don't know if anyone else has found that some drugs do exactly the opposite to what they are designed to do when you take them.

    I gained two stone on the zispin too so I had 4 stone to lose after being a person who didn't ever put on an ounce and ate like a horse.

    Wow... just shows how much a gp can harm you by not taking you seriously. :eek:
    Thanks for sharing, it's been something that has really bugged me for a while, partly because I was anorexic for about 20 years and only really 'recovered' from that about 5 years ago, so I'm sure you can imagine that this leap in weight was a bit tough for me to deal with. :rolleyes: Anyway, I'm kind of ok with it for the moment, although it is difficult sometimes as the swelling in my tummy is disproportionate to my overall body measurements, but I am hoping that maybe coming off the meds gradually will help a bit as well as trying to eat more of the healthier stuff! ;)
    (oops sorry bit of a hijack!) :o
    Get busy living, or get busy dying.

    - Andy Dufresne, The Shawshank Redemption
  • nearlyrichnearlyrich Forumite
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    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Hung up my suit! Mortgage-free Glee!
    I was given Amytriptelyne (sp) but I felt like I wasn't me, can't explain it just felt so weird so I went back to the doctor and told him I wasn't taking any more. I can't shift a couple of stones however hard I try so I put it down to my dodgy metabolism and stopped worrying about it.
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  • raehraeh Forumite
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    I have lurked on mse for years reading but had to sign up today just to post in this thread. Yorkiepud you said everything i feel :) its amazing how many people feel just the way i feel. I keep correcting my typing like someone else said as i miss out letters but sometimes i just 'lose' what i was typing and have to stop and think... the fibrofog as i have just read about, im like that in conversations sometimes i just lose what i was saying and im sure people think im drunk lol. My memory is absolutely awful, i just cant remember the word for things.
    I was diagnosed about 9 years ago after years of pain that was always explained as 'some sort of arthritis' until i got a new gp who took one look and gave me a leaflet to read which was like reading about myself! I have the raynauds too and quite severe IBS but im also going to ask about a thyroid test after reading about other people as thats something that has never been checked and maybe that may have something to do with my terrible exhaustion every day.
    I agree with the person who spoke about other people attitudes, im not old.. i dont 'look ill' so noone sees the pain do they? I get tired of the people that smirk when i say i CANT do something, they just dont understand its impossible for me. My husband and kids have adapted to the fact that i just cant join in doing some things but theres lots we still can do together. My arms are the worst for me and im very clumsy holding things and sometimes things just fall from my hands [im well known for being accident prone at work lol]
    I have tried amytriptylene and it cured the pain fine but i walked around in a daze constantly and i felt that i wasnt quite there? The gabapentin did the same, i was dizzy and couldnt drive or work as i wasnt focussed enough so for me i just take lots of paracetamol and pace myself taking rest when its needed and not doing things i know will hurt me. This doesnt work for anyone but it has given me a life back. I now work again after a few years off, just mornings as a teaching assistant but that gives me the afternoon to recover before my own kids are back from school. I only manage that due to now having the motability car as before i wouldnt have managed the getting to work and back, Im not able to claim any care component of the DLA so i would be interested in how people claim that but im greatful of the mobility part.
    Sorry for such a long first post but it has been theraputic lol to say all this.
    2009-£7500 2010 £10800 2011 £2000

    Thank you to everyone who posts comps xxx
  • Can't believe I have found this thread!!! Also sat with tears. I too have FMS. I also have arthritis, hypermobility syndrome, Raynaud's, slipped disc, cervical spondylosis, costochondritis - well it just goes on. Everytime I injure myself it takes forever. The medication I have tried is endless. I work full time in the NHS. I was actually signed on the sick for 3 weeks by the physio dept and came back to work without my line manager and her manager making any reasonable adjustments! No-one listens. I am still waiting for the back care team to come out and assess me - but in the past they haven't listened!! My workload has doubled and I have just been told last week that I will have a further increase and the solution - overtime!!!!!!

    My husband is great but everyday is a complete struggle. I don't sleep well but every day I wake up just hoping that 'today will be the day I don't feel exhausted and in so much pain'. It is the constant nagging pain day in, day out. Most of my colleagues don't believe me - some do and they are brilliant.

    The one thing I do regret is that we got ourselves into a financial 'mess' and I now need to work.

    I have tried everything under the sun - a small dose of Amitryptyline does work to a certain extent apart from the fact that I feel as if I have a hangover. When my rib pain starts it feels like a broken rib(which I have done several times) and if I get to see the wrong GP he then thinks it's a clot and sends me off to the hospital!!!!! I take painkillers every single day - all day - first thing on a morning!!! (almost like having a cigarette I would imagine).

    I keep having bloods taken and my thyroid reading is at the lowest end of the normal range. However there are some GP's that believe if that's the case you should be started on treatment but apparently the path labs won't check any further if the original test is within the normal range. They also check me regularly for lupus and rheumatoid arthritis but so far the readings keep going up/or down but still within the normal ranges!!!!

    Just so pleased I found this thread. One thing I did come across is an American Fibro site and they suggested asking friends/family members to place clothes pegs on their fingers - that is the pain we feel all the time!!!! They actually produced a small badge in the shape of a clothes peg.

    Just thanks everyone and here's to us!!!!:grouphug:
  • :hello: Hello all.
    I don't have Fibro (well, that's been diagnosed anyway!), but have Lupus, MCTD, Lupus and T-Cell Lymphoma.
    I understand the suffering you all have as my pain seems very similar to Fibro.
    Can I be an honorary member of the group please? :D
    just read about the weight gain with Amytriptiline - great news on top of my Steroid induced hunger! Have just started taking Amy for muscle spasms and headaches (not yer run of the mills - really crippling).
    also have a stock of Tramadol, Co-Codamol, Co-Dydromol, diclofenac and Paracetamol. the only thing I found really effective was Co-Praximol and they took the damn thing off the market! :rolleyes:
    I was convinced the "mind fog" was just me, so am slightly comforted by the fact that it isn't iykwim.
    I must go, I have lives to ruin and hearts to break :D
    My attitude depends on my Latitude 49° 55' 0" N 6° 19' 60 W
  • another fibro, diagnosed about 7 years. Its nice to find a board where everyone is just matter of fact about it...i've found numerous forums where people seem to be almost competing about who has the highest amount of pain. Its insane. It takes too much energy just to actually write something that makes some kind of sense in any post!

    Been stuck in a flare up now for over 2 years, with periods where it gets worse, and then occasionaly better but it seems a long long time since i working and at uni. 24 yrs old and a cup of tea without arm spasms makes for a wonderful saturday nowadays!

    I'm kind of lucky in a way because i gradually got worse and worse whilst i was working (i was a bar manager) so pretty much everyone i know saw a gradual decline so i dont get so many of the 'skiver' comments that i know some others do. It also means that they all look after me when i do manage to get out for a few hours. Having people argue over who's going to give up their chair for you is actually quite nice!

    I'm also lucky cos my boss at the pub is happy to let me come back and do a single 2 hour shift in 4 weeks whenever i feel upto without getting frustated at the lack of progress.

    With regards to medication have tried everything they could throw at me, and have finally found something that at least maintains the pain at a manageable level- Robaxin!

    I'm along way from pain free, but at least i have a rough idea of how many i need to be able to cope with the pain each day, and being a muscle relaxant, it does help to control the muscle spasms which used to be the worst part for me.

    Have written far too much there, so sorry. Hope everyone is having a not-too painful day.

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