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First one to clear 15k gets a paper hat

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  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    it could also be that they have someone lined up for the job? i do know however i have what is known as an attitude problem ...i am a bit direct and dont suffer fools either so do tend to rub people up the wrong way ...my advice honey dont change theyre arnt enough people like you in this world and we need all the wonderful people like you we can get .... the right job is there it is ...it's just hiding right now ...
  • ShelleyC_2
    ShelleyC_2 Posts: 1,500 Forumite
    I just went onto the flylady.net website to try and motivate myself to make a start on my hideously dirty flat, I clicked on 'babysteps' and the first thing that came up was 'shine your sink'

    My initial thought was 'that would be nice, but then I will have to clear the clean washing up off the drainer to do that properly and I can't put it away until I have tidied my cupboards as they are so messy' swiflty followed by 'I don't think I can face it'

    I am not sure I am cut out for the whole clean house thing :rolleyes: I used to be good but somewhere I have become a slattern :D

    This made me laugh so much - I had to empty loads of crap out of sink this morning to rinse bowl and spoon to eat brekkie. I so need to get onboard with some kind of cleaning / hygeine mission :rotfl:

    Or we could start slatterns with stunning handbags club?!

    Doodles you can't tell me off cause you bought a house :p
    I had just had the day from hell..... Out of the blue I got rung up today and was finished up by my manager saying I didn't fit with their organisation as I am too direct and task focused

    1228_sad_person_crying.gifJust feel like they didn't give me a chance.... They are going to give me a month's money tho - so great amount of money for the time I've worked for them. Just need to find a way of keeping my pride and self esteem intact now. But feeling completely blue

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    I am absolutely and utterly stunned!

    OMG SH you poor darling - how can being direct and task focused be bad?? Those are wonderful positives in any job.

    I suspect someone just thought you were too good aka threatening and got scared you might outshine them whilst in a temporary role.

    Don't let them get you down you are brilliant :grouphug:
    Looking for the perfect home and saving to make becoming a MFW easier
    MFiT3 48103/50000 Saved So Far :j
  • starnac
    starnac Posts: 5,946 Forumite
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    SH - what rubbish. like everyone else has said those should be qualities they are looking for not complaining about. i know you feel down about it but you are obviously much too good for them and they felt threatened.

    remember everything happens for a reason. i know we can't always see the reason at the time but it is there.

    sending positive thoughts to all that have had a bad day.
    Goals for February
    Declutter 2/50
    Money Made £0/£200
    Overpayments £0/£200
  • starnac
    starnac Posts: 5,946 Forumite
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    just thought - i don't suppose it was a company we all know and could therefore boycott in protest?? ;):p
    Goals for February
    Declutter 2/50
    Money Made £0/£200
    Overpayments £0/£200
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    starnac wrote: »
    just thought - i don't suppose it was a company we all know and could therefore boycott in protest?? ;):p



    i'm liking it muchly
  • too_much_debt
    too_much_debt Posts: 3,218 Forumite
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    edited 19 August 2009 at 10:29PM
    For all you Ebayers, apparently from Saturday there are 10 free listing days (from 22nd until 31st). So if you have any stuff to get listed wait until those days as it is free for any starting price for Private Sellers (not Business or Power Sellers). Look at Ebay to see what is included and what is not.

    I have so much stuff here I'm going to try and see how much I can get onto Turbolister.
    Sealed Pot Challenge #016
  • tirlittan
    tirlittan Posts: 3,397 Forumite
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    Oh SH, I'm so sorry to hear that and echo everyone else's thoughts here.
    You were obviously too good for them and the right job is out there waiting for you! ((((hugs))))

    ONly 2/5 listings sold tonight. :( Was going to list some more, but will now wait till Sunday as just seen TMD's post. Thanks for that, have some that I'd like to start quite high, hopefully they're in right categories.

    Will put some more on works intranet tomorrow, though the peeps who actually putting them on are bit slow and it might take a week for them to show up online. Just wanted to bypass ebay fees and paypal on them, but not sure if anyones intereste in work (19000) ppl working for council though...NOt sure what to do now...
    DEBT FREE OCTOBER 2012!
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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,974 Forumite
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    Thanks again... just spent a few hours in my private pity party at a friend's house... They've said the same as you. One does a similar role to me and when I described some of what I'd said and done they agreed they would have done the same.....

    At least I am getting 4 week's money plus the week I have already worked. So that is heaps better than job seekers!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    Thanks again... just spent a few hours in my private pity party at a friend's house... They've said the same as you. One does a similar role to me and when I described some of what I'd said and done they agreed they would have done the same.....

    At least I am getting 4 week's money plus the week I have already worked. So that is heaps better than job seekers!

    As they say - every cloud has a silver lining. That is more money into your savings or off your debts, and it also bides you some time for when you are looking for another role
    Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
    DFD:Nov 22/June 22
    Mortgage: €199,712
    MFD: March 2042/July 2034
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,974 Forumite
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    thanks again everyone - just reread all your posts again... Unfortunately it is not a company you would know to boycott - like the idea though!

    Still in shock but think like starnac said somethings are meant to be - and we don't understand why at the time, but hopefully one day we will.

    When I took this job I thought gosh my holidays couldn't be at a worse time as I don't get paid when I don't work. Now this has happened, I am so grateful that I am off to Cornwall this weekend for the week! Best of all the holiday is free anyway due to MSE survey efforts last year... I won it...

    Need to try and just focus on the holiday for now and think about the rest of it when I get back. Not sure if we will have wifi access while away so if you don't hear from me from Saturday to Saturday don't be too worried...!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/25
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