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I've left... still absolutely stunned tho! I was so pleased and excited over having a job, getting back on track and now this....Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250 -
savingholmes wrote: »I think someone just didn't like me but really hard to dust myself off from! I'm sat here going to myself "I am not a failure, not a failure, not a failure" and "It's not my fault, not my fault, not my fault"..... It's not helping but then I was told on an nlp course once that your brain doesn't recognise the word not... which is why they tell you to set positive goals rather than negative ones ie "I will get that job" rather than "I won't fail the interview"
Still sat here crying though
ok how about i am a hard worker ...i am a strong person ...i will get through this ...i am worth more ...this is just a test i will pass ...
you are a good person you will get by and you are worth so much more this is just a blip0 -
Thanks I needed that...ok how about i am a hard worker ...i am a strong person ...i will get through this ...i am worth more ...this is just a test i will pass ...
you are a good person you will get by and you are worth so much more this is just a blipAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250 -
It just sounds so ridiculous to me. I don't know how they could say that to a person. Did any of your colleagues say anything?Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
DFD:Nov 22/June 22
Mortgage: €199,712
MFD: March 2042/July 20340 -
They'd all left just before the call!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250 -
SH, so sorry to hear what happened. Too task focused? Surely that's a good thing isn't it?0
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You would think so wouldn't youAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250 -
Well I think it is very sneaky. Surely they could have had a meeting with you and discussed this.
You are an intelligent woman, I'm sure you could have adapted your style to suit what they want. How are you meant to read minds when they don't tell you.
A**holes :mad:Total (Aug 19):€58,567 Now:€26,947
DFD:Nov 22/June 22
Mortgage: €199,712
MFD: March 2042/July 20340 -
personally i think that is the biggest crock of brown ever!!!
Too direct and task focussed?! Basically you dont suffer fools gladly and are more competent than the rest of them, and it would eventually show them all up!!!
Elantan posted exactly what I was going to put
I am strong willed and principled, and I am destined for greater things....Wealth is not measured by currency0 -
Thanks guys - I knew I could rely on you guys! I am glad I have this forumAchieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.1/£127.5K target 24.4% 15/8/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250
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