MSE Pregnancy Club III

feelinggood_2

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Yep no visitors for me! (I don't count my mum, dad or sister as a visitor they have their own key ) but mother - in law, aunties, cousins etc are banned they can see bubba when I'm ready not when they want to

I'm having no visitors in hospital, at all. The only visitors at home will be my Parents. Everyone else will be visited by me, when I want to see them.

Sami_Bee

Charlie looks like a red head in the pic and I'm glad he's not one of Chris's friends he looks so small next to the other kids already, I just hope he gets to be big when he's grown up coz me n hubby were both lil titch's when young but I stayed a titch and hubby is now 6"4' with big shoulders. You'd never guess now but hubby had beautiful pure blond hair when he was little and now its dark brown but his little bro's hair has stayed very blond,
here's a pic of my family as it is until bump arrives http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=1053533&l=a8298&id=541141775

Sami_Bee

feelinggood wrote: »

I'm having no visitors in hospital, at all. The only visitors at home will be my Parents. Everyone else will be visited by me, when I want to see them.

Good for you feelie I felt like I didn't get a minute when I first had chris it really affected me and our bonding, thats why I'm doing it like this.

Ps. If she can work it right my sis will be at the birth and my mum n dad will be looking after Chris so I couldn't really avoid them even if I wanted too
I'm hoping I'll feel ok to go round to the in-laws quite soon anyway although I don't mind them popping in to hosp but I doubt I'll be in long enough this time round, I just want Chris to meet bubs at hosp so he knows what I'll be bringing home instead of just turning up with an invader :cool:

astonsmummy

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Charlie looks like a red head in the pic and I'm glad he's not one of Chris's friends he looks so small next to the other kids already, I just hope he gets to be big when he's grown up coz me n hubby were both lil titch's when young but I stayed a titch and hubby is now 6"4' with big shoulders. You'd never guess now but hubby had beautiful pure blond hair when he was little and now its dark brown but his little bro's hair has stayed very blond,
here's a pic of my family as it is until bump arrives http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=1053533&l=a8298&id=541141775

Awwww bless!
I hope you dont mind, I added you as a friend.
I bet you would never guess I had a bright ginger 'fro when I was a baby! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

feelinggood_2

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Good for you feelie I felt like I didn't get a minute when I first had chris it really affected me and our bonding, thats why I'm doing it like this.

Ps. If she can work it right my sis will be at the birth and my mum n dad will be looking after Chris so I couldn't really avoid them even if I wanted too
I'm hoping I'll feel ok to go round to the in-laws quite soon anyway although I don't mind them popping in to hosp but I doubt I'll be in long enough this time round, I just want Chris to meet bubs at hosp so he knows what I'll be bringing home instead of just turning up with an invader :cool:

Luckily I'm far enough away that most people won't bother me! I'm about 250 miles away from family. Mum seemed to suggest that she'll be down here when I give birth, don't know how she is going to manage that. I just don't want anyone to see me in hospital with greasy hair, half naked and covered in blood. Mother and Father in law insisted on seeing Sister-in-law in that state!

astonsmummy

feelinggood wrote: »

Luckily I'm far enough away that most people won't bother me! I'm about 250 miles away from family. Mum seemed to suggest that she'll be down here when I give birth, don't know how she is going to manage that. I just don't want anyone to see me in hospital with greasy hair, half naked and covered in blood. Mother and Father in law insisted on seeing Sister-in-law in that state!

Slight over exaggeration! :rotfl:
Ok so you will look dog rough but you wont be half naked or covered in blood


Hopefully I wont be in very long so it will only be me and OH at the hospital, our one likes to kick you out almost as soon as the babys head has popped out, I dont mind people coming to visit me as long as they bring either pressies or food :rotfl: :rotfl:

feelinggood_2

astonsmummy wrote: »

Slight over exaggeration! :rotfl:
Ok so you will look dog rough but you wont be half naked or covered in blood


Hopefully I wont be in very long so it will only be me and OH at the hospital, our one likes to kick you out almost as soon as the babys head has popped out, I dont mind people coming to visit me as long as they bring either pressies or food :rotfl: :rotfl:

Visiting hours here are only 3pm till 5pm and 7pm till 8pm. Only 3 hours when visitors are allowed! And no children, other than the womans own children.

Alright, slight exaggeration maybe. Although there was a lot of blood! I was there when she had the second, and there was a lot of blood and nakedness then too.

I don't want anyone to see me in such an undignified way!

cazscoob

sami thats a lovely photo!!! lewis is tiny framed too compared to the other 3!

astonsmummy

feelinggood wrote: »

Visiting hours here are only 3pm till 5pm and 7pm till 8pm. Only 3 hours when visitors are allowed! And no children, other than the womans own children.

Alright, slight exaggeration maybe. Although there was a lot of blood! I was there when she had the second, and there was a lot of blood and nakedness then too.

I don't want anyone to see me in such an undignified way!

I was transfered to the ward when I had DS so was all cleaned up before anyone visited, didnt have any visitors on the labour ward, just had my mum and psyco dad who were already there.

cazscoob

at my hosp you arent allowed viditors on the labour ward only birthing partner and OH, you get a shower etc before going on the ward and then visitors are limited to 2 per bed and the visiting hours are short.

i was home after a few hours with Charlie and im not kidding we hadnt even got in the door and people were trying to visit. this time am gonna tell them they can only visit if they fancy clearing up after a HB think it may put them off:D