Trying For a Baby II

MadMac_2

Smartie, don't worry! It will probably take a few months for your cycles to settle but you can still OV and get a BFP in any month after coming off the pill, so just go with the flow and see what happens hun, x

kindofagilr

Yeah I echo what Madmac says Smartie you just never know you might get a BFP

I am on CD14

And I am sooooooo tired lol, BDing is really tiring lol, I dont think I am going to be awake enough to BD tomorrow when it is OV date, I might just have to chance it and BD again on fri and sat (CD16 + CD17)

How is everyone this morning?

B2B-2008

Morning Girls,

CD28 and I did the test last night, naughty I know. It was negative as I thought. So this morning I have had a hayfever tablet as I'm really bad today. Now I just have to wait for my AF to show. I'm just praying that my cycle is somewhere near normal this month. When she does show I'm going to order the OV tests ready for next month.

x

bitzer_maloney

Morning girls!

CD13 for me today. Monitor still says high, though it has 2 lines on it (I know you can't use them as ov tests like that but hey, can't blame a girl for obsessing!) so I'm sticking a couple of ov tests in my bag (and some pilfered tubes from work to pee in) and I'll check later this afternoon to see if its missed my surge. Though my cervix is still not high, so maybe I should trust the machine..but I don't. I think its a great guideline but as it uses fmu it can miss the start of the surge, and thats what ebay cheapies are for!

Have a good day all

Leopardlady

Good morning ladies, haven't posted for a couple of days, but have been reading. I am really hoping to see a few bfps on here soon!
Well OH and I are relaxing a lot more this month so the month off is def helping. Finally a very successful bding last night, having had a lot of fun but not finishing for the past few times. I am on CD17, quite easy to remember as CD1 was 1st of the month! Bet that doesn't happen all the time

So meant to OV any time around now, today is the most likely, so you never now our more relaxed approach may work, but i really shouldn't be thinking like that.

On the slimming pills issue I would research them all very carefully as i don't think they are very good for people ttc, so please take care on that. I also second the docs to see why you can't lose weight, but i do think trying to walk for 20 mins a day to begin with and then build up would be a great help, do you have stairs at home you can walk up and down 10 times today and build up to 30 times a day? It may sound weird, but it is what i do when i can't do any other kind of exercise. Hope it helps a little, don't give up, we are all here for you.

Well I really do hope that there is lots of very sticky baby dust out there for everyone

lambanana

I did a test this morning on CD35 (of 35/36 day cycle) but got BFN. I expected to really but still feel a bit upset about it. I had some pinkish CM yesterday and a couple of tiny spots of blood but nothing today and no great sign of AF. Am having plenty of signs that she's on her way though, swollen boobs, cramps and awful backache. Just a waiting game until she rears her ugly head and we start cycle 5.

Leopardlady

Oh well Lambanana, i know it sucks, but don't get down until AF arrives, you never know, lots of tests only show positives after AF is due.
But cycle 5 may seem like a long time waiting but try and relax, we are on TTC cycle 15 and not going to panic yet. I hope you have a nice surprise

Sarah_Joanne

Hi everyone,

I'm feeling a bit down today. As the usual 2 week wait isn't bad enough for all you regular girlies I'm currently on CD81 waiting rather impatiently for AF to show up so I can have a blood test on CD28!!

I'm getting really bored of waiting now, and to make it worse even when it arrives I've still got 4 weeks to wait until the test, then however long after that to get the results. Then if that doesn't show ovulation I will have to wait until at least CD28 in the next cycle to have the test again before anything else can be done for me!

I hate all this waiting and feeling like I'm going nowhere! It's worse becasue after BDing at the weekend I had spotting for 2 days but nothing proper if you see what I mean. I got excited as last time my cycle was this long I had spotting for a couple of days then AF came with full force, but not this time

Does anyone else have / had the same problem?

Good luck to everyone else though.:T I hope you're all doing and feeling a bit better thanme right now.

MadMac_2

Hi all, nothing to report here - hope to read about a BFP or few soon!

Lambanana and Sarah Joanne, we know only too well how hard and upsetting the waiting and negative results can be, just try to be positive that next cycle will be the BFP you hope for and we'll support each other through the depressing times as well as the good ones!

Hope you're enjoying the break still Leopardlady?

Will be trying hard myself in a few days time, x

smartie12

Waiting for anything is bad enough:rolleyes:

I hope you long cycle girls get AF soon

I'm still having pains but not as bad. I'm in the mood for housework (:eek::rotfl:)but had to pop on here first!