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Trying For a Baby II

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  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    OH doesnt want to do the SMEP, he says its to predicatble and wants BD to be spontanious.

    lol x
  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    LOL does he realise you are probs tracking your ov etc and pouncing on him at the right times lol
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  • lambanana
    lambanana Posts: 685 Forumite
    Evansangel wrote: »
    OH doesnt want to do the SMEP, he says its to predicatble and wants BD to be spontanious.

    lol x

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  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    LOL does he realise you are probs tracking your ov etc and pouncing on him at the right times lol

    He knows when i OV and he thinks i "use" him foe s3x at the right times lol. He says i dont actually want him i want a baby lol.
    When i was pregnant before he said it was good s3x casue i already had a baby so i must of wanted him lol!!! :rotfl:
    lambanana wrote: »
    Men! :rotfl:Mine complaints about pressure to perform all the time...don't they know what they're there for when TTC :rotfl:

    I know! If we didn't need men, the world wouldn't have them. Men are there for reproducing :D Oh and waiting on us when we're poorly, and funding our shopping habits :D lol x
  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    Anyway, just wanted to say. Im having a really bad day now :(

    This morning was fantastic with the sun etc.

    But i found out my sister had 2 partys when looking after my house when i was on holiday, cue community warden and POLICE complaints to me and my uncle (landlord).

    And my friend sarah who is also TTC went to the docs as her foof hurt during BD'ing and he said its because her insides are 'frozen' and her OH cant fit inside of her. So until its all sorted she wont be able to have kids :(

    (sorry if that sounds weird i didn't know how to put it lol)

    Any jokes to cheer me up? :D x
  • Leopardlady
    Leopardlady Posts: 1,264 Forumite
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    Oh EA i am sorry your day has gone down hill, i don't have any jokes for you sorry. I am struggling today, but we are having a bbq for some of ohs work mates so i have to go and make some food.

    Have a great weekend everyone, i am going to try and not cry all weekend, but that is all i want to do!

    Baby dust to all :)
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  • nichart20
    nichart20 Posts: 957 Forumite
    Hi EA, is there something they can do for your freind? im guessing your sister is in the bad books then!!!

    Well I am on CD15 I was expecting to ovulate day 14 but on my monitor showed no egg sign did the test this morning still no egg sign :mad: I will be gutted if I dont ovulate this month my cycles are 28 days, I have BD every day this week.
    Does anyone else have 28 days cycles and ovulate later than 14 days feeling a little down now I have only 3 more months of clomid :mad:
  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    Haha yes my sister is in the bad books lol.

    And yeah for my friend they have to give her some special tabs to take to soften the lining, and if that doesnt work she has to have a special dilating kit and insert it in to stretch it :(

    You may of OV'd earlier, possibly. Or it could be a little bit later, but my cycles are a bit weird atm so i cant help on the 28 day front.

    (((hugs))) to leopardlady, i sometimes wish to cry for ages. Have a nice BBQ.

    Trying to get OH to make his sister let us babysit her baby 2mrw so i can take her to the beach :D lol xxx
  • B2B-2008
    B2B-2008 Posts: 178 Forumite
    I sent the link for SMEP to my DH. I have told him if nothing happens for us this month we are trying that next month.

    Annie let us know if it works.
  • ~annie~_2
    ~annie~_2 Posts: 108 Forumite
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    nichart.. not to be nosy but do you monitor your CM (cervical mucous sp?) this is a good indicator of ovulation.. you want the EWCM (egg white cervical mucous) as this is best for swimming. If you don't know much about it I highly recommend reading up about it, its really helpful to use both the OPK/clear blue AND your bodies natural signs.

    I have a 28-32 cycle depending, usually its around 30 and I usually OV at around CD18.. so if you are 28, and you don't OV til cd 16 thats perfectly normal! Are you temping? temping can tell you for sure if and (with some degree of accuracy) when?

    take care and babydust to all :)
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