Trying For a Baby II

Catw0man

scottishchick27 wrote: »

I got a text from my mate yesterday to say that her DD (6 months old) has a tumour. She's being scanned and tested this week and they will find out by the end of the week if it's cancerous. I can't imagine what she is going through but fingers crossed it'll be good news.

Scottishchick, I really feel for your friend, last year two weeks before my wedding we found out my 10 year old niece had a massive tumour in her abdomen, fortunately it was benign but she had to have it removed a week after the wedding we went through hell, I'm thinking of you and your friend.

maybebaby80

Hi all

I have been following this thread for a while and have read most of it! The advice on her has been fantastic.

I wonder if anyone can offer me some advice?

I came off the mini pill on 1st Feb and then immediately had a period. I then waited 48 days for my next period to begin.

I had a normal period and counted the first day of my period as CD1. Around CD13 and CD14 I had pains in my sides, like period pains but did not really register any major difference in CM. I know I did not imagine these pains and was pretty sure that I had ovulated.

I am now on CD32 and have no sign of AF yet??? I know I am probably panicking but I am so worried years of pill and mini pill have ruined things and I will never have normal cycles again! I have done an ebay test and it was negative.

I keep telling myself I obviously just have a long cycle but I am sure it wasn't like this before I went on the pill!

Any advice to put my mind at rest.

Thanks and sorry for the rambling. Good luck with trying all, I hope we all get what we want. x

kmckee999

CatwOman my heart goes out to u lovey, im so sorry u have been thru the mill and i would feel the same im sure that 6 weeks is a long time..
so although a D&C is no doubt not pleasant at all at least after u can take ur time to recover and hopefully move on, i will be thinkin of u on thurs, big hugs :grouphug:

welcome maybebaby80, i can sympathise with u totally on this one, but be reassured that im sure everythin is fine
i came off my pill in oct after 15 years and have since only had 3 AF, some cycle bein 60 + days, which can be very frustrating:(
i had bloods done last week which all came back ok as i was told i may not even bein OV until they regulate, but it showed i had OV last cycle but as to when is anyones guess, try n relax and things will regulate within 6 months, iv had lots of stress with parents leaving each other and i work shifts which doesnt help so hopefully within a few months ul be all ok. just have fun BD..

sticky baby dust to all BD this cycle x

cedrickerry

Been a little distracted lately as DH has had 4 days of 40th Birthday celebrations!

CatwOman - sorry to hear your news, hang on in there

for me just got a high on CBFM, earlier than last few months so thrown out DH planning and he's got another dose of man flu. Hoping (for a change) that I get a few highs before my peak, so I can get him warmed up :rolleyes:

Then it's time for the wait ..... Living life in two week blocks is so tiring!

elastigirl

(((((((catw0man)))))) That's all i can say really. Take care. Will be thinking of you.

Leopardlady

Oh Catowoman i am so sorry, 6 wks is a very long time, so i think a d&c may help alot. I was told they can make you feel great (my mother has had 6!!!). I am here if you need to pm me, i know it can be a rough time, look after yourself and your OH and don't worry about anyone else.

Last night i got quite upset as OH failed in his efforts, he sooo stressed again (not bding this time?) so i turned over and went to sleep, but slept really badly, as did OH. Anyway about 3am i felt a sharp, short stabbing pain in my left hand side, about where i would expect my ovarie to be?? Could this be ovulation? I have never felt anything like that before. FF told me that i was due to ovulate yesterday and EWCM has been around for a day or so. Anyway i now really want OH to come home and enjoy bding with me. I am a slight emotional wreck today as i really want the bfp this month as i think it is one way i have got over the mc. The doc kep saying at least you know you can do it! So that hasn't helped.

Anyway i am sorry for the long post, just really want to sit here and cry, but i know that is silly. The last bfp came after only bding 3 days before oving, so we have done 2 days before this time and will hopefully get today as well, so fingers and toes crossed.

Very sticky baby dust to all, glad you have arranged something with OH Madmac, enjoy

MadMac_2

Big hug Catw0man, not much more I can say but will be thinking of you x Hope you get on OK and will be ready to try again soon :grouphug:

Scottishchick - fingers crossed that it isn't as bad as we always fear x

Leopardlady - don't men drive you mad? Big hug to you and let it out if you want to, we all have days like that. Yup, I suspect you felt the egg being released so if you do get him to co-operate, lie on that side afterwards!!! You never know, worth a try and I'll be doing exactly that in about 13 days time

Maybebaby, welcome! I can't advise on that score - I came off the pill many years ago and don't remember how long my cycles were, but it did eventually settle on a 27/28 day cycle routine. I'm sure you'll be SS with the rest of us though, as it only takes one BD at the perfect time x

Good luck to all - as I already knew, AF arrived this morning so on CD1 again...

Leopardlady

Madmac I am sorry to hear about AF, but at least this month sounds a little more exciting and with a secret rendez vous, you never know!

skintchick

Aww Leopardlady (((hugs)))

Don;t forget that mc is very hard on our partners too and maybe your OH is struggling with his emotions over all this?

Hope you sort it out tonight. :A

lambanana

maybebaby80 wrote: »

Hi all

I have been following this thread for a while and have read most of it! The advice on her has been fantastic.

I wonder if anyone can offer me some advice?

I came off the mini pill on 1st Feb and then immediately had a period. I then waited 48 days for my next period to begin.

I had a normal period and counted the first day of my period as CD1. Around CD13 and CD14 I had pains in my sides, like period pains but did not really register any major difference in CM. I know I did not imagine these pains and was pretty sure that I had ovulated.

I am now on CD32 and have no sign of AF yet??? I know I am probably panicking but I am so worried years of pill and mini pill have ruined things and I will never have normal cycles again! I have done an ebay test and it was negative.

I keep telling myself I obviously just have a long cycle but I am sure it wasn't like this before I went on the pill!

Any advice to put my mind at rest.

Thanks and sorry for the rambling. Good luck with trying all, I hope we all get what we want. x

My AF has just about regulated now but it took just over 12 months of being off the pill to do so which included some cycles over 100 days! I'm now at around a 35 day cycle. I can't remember what they were before BCP but I'm thinking around 30-35 days then as well probably. It can take ages, apparently agnus castus can help if you want to try a herbal remedy?


Well I tested for ovulation today but it was negative which stumped me, I was hopeful as I'd had EWCM and my cervix is high and quite soft. I didn't even have a second line though so felt very disappointed. We'll just keep BDing as much as possible though and hopefully it will work and we'll get a BFP soon.