MSE Parent Club - Part 2

cazscoob

wow weezle 50p!!! i really need to cut my bills down but my lot eat like theres no tom i just cant understand how they are so skinny???

Erins sleeping routine has worked now for 3 nights and luckily wasnt a one off:D she also seems much happier

am looking for advice on a sad 3 year old, Abi has been at the school nursery since last summer at first she loved it but recently she hasnt wanted to go. the nursery have phoned me a number of times to go and pick her up as she was so upset. she can be fine one second and the next she says she has tears coming and bursts into tears, nothing sets it off it just happens. when we ask her why she cant answer us. i have kept her off nursery this week as she doesnt want to go and she seems a lot happier at home. Any ideas on what the next steps should be? i dont want to send her back for her to be misrable, howver she does have a good friend in her class who she misses.(there are 10/11 in the nursery class)

Curious_George_2

SeptemberBaby wrote: »

I did try and read everything CG! Honestly I did! . Maybe its because Mr Tennant doesn't float my boat :eek: **dives for cover** :rotfl:.

ETA: and whats this about poor Spud?! Have I totally missed a page?! :eek:

ETA2: you're my favourite as its due to your mantra that I do my clenches every single day!

xx

I dont mind if you dont like DT, just means theres more of the skinny little blighter for me!

there was a brief discussion about wether bob and wendy were at it, or had even had a fumble at the christmas party ... i said they wouldnt of been able to get in the copier room anyway cos of spud, most likely full of sambuca and lowering his danglies onto the tray

IM THE FAVOURITE! IM THE FAVOURITE! i need a badge with that on....or some kind of sash... wait here, ill go get the ribbon and the felt tips
*skips off*

Millie's_Mum

Caz, theres got to be something behind why she's crying, I had trouble with millie at nursery at one point, it turned out to be one of the kids who was a bit too in your face and was scaring millie (they are absolute best friends now) but millie didn't know how to explain what was wrong.

I didn't even know there was a problem at all and it took ages to get it out of her, can you just talk with her and see what comes out just when she's talking? I find that if anythings happened to upset mil she doesn't tell you immediately it just comes out when shes talking about other stuff.

Sami_Bee

Weezl - I'll quote ur welsh thingy on the preg thread as we've got a few as Pamelarrr would say "leek munching sheep wotsits" :shocked: (sorry if non of u are Gavin n Stacy fans you'll prob just think I'm being rather racist there )
also Weezl - are you proud of me? - I've got washable pads too I'm sure I'll never be able to live of 50p tho!! I bow down to your greatness there!

Caz - is there a different nursery she can go to? There 'must' be a reason for her getting so upset. My terribly negative mind is racing :undecided
Have you explained that your not upset or angry with her just worried because you want her to be happy IYSWIM Just in case she thinks she'll get herself or someone else in trobble if she tells you what it is

Just too add
:j Chris slept for a slightly disturbed 13hrs last night!! :j

Sami_Bee

Curious_George wrote: »

...
IM THE FAVOURITE! IM THE FAVOURITE! i need a badge with that on....or some kind of sash... wait here, ill go get the ribbon and the felt tips
*skips off*

I want a picture when ur done!:D

cazscoob

thanks millie and sami, we have tried talking to her but then she just says that she misses me? she used to stay at OH mums no prob but now she just wont stay with anyone? it is worrying us and at first we thought it was a phase that she would just get over but she is still just as bad?

I dont know if i should take her back to nursery or keep her here until she asks to go back? also the friends she plays with are all due to go to school after the summer so she wont have any of them?

cazscoob

wow sami 13 hours i thought i was doing well with erins 10pm-6am then 6.30-9!!

Millie's_Mum

Caz has it started since you had Erin?

Sami_Bee

cazscoob wrote: »

wow sami 13 hours i thought i was doing well with erins 10pm-6am then 6.30-9!!

Well he is 2yrs older

I'm thinking same as M'sM, did it start when Erin arrived?

cazscoob

it started around 4 weeks ago rin is 10 weeks but she isnt phased at all by her? sometimes you think she was the mum:D