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Emily, I love reading your posts, you have had such a hard time these past couple of years but yet you remained determined and positive, all I can say is keep these up! You will get through this and come out the other side an even better person than you are now. XWhat goes around - comes around
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Hope you are feeling better this morning. You need to sit down with him and be as calm as you can, just ask him to be totally honest with you. That is the least you deserve. And trust your instincts about whether he's lying or not, we women always know the truth, in our hearts. These things are horrible to go through, but they make us so much stronger xxxxxxDFW Nerd 1050 (09/08 overdraft £1200)
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Hi,
Fairly new on the boards but just wanted to say that I know how you're feeling, it's a nasty thing to happen.
I guess what you do will ultimately depend on whether you want to continue with your BF or not...you may not be ready to make that decision yet so take your time. If it were me & i wanted to carry on, I would ask to meet this person or at least know some more about her & how this 'thing' started.
Put yourself in his position - if you had an admirer of this sort, would you have told him about it?
However (& this is my own personal view) it sounds like the trust has gone from the relationship so it will be hard to recover that ground.
sending you a big hug.SOA = Statement of Affairs (to find a SOA Calculator, google 'make sense of cards' & click on calculators tab > Statement of Affairs)0 -
Emily
So sorry to hear this hun
Think your suspicions may well be correct
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Take care hun
Huggles
Lou xxxI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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Hiya, just wanted to say that if you need to chat then pm me, hope your suspicions are nt correct.. but ive been there before and it does sound slightly suspect... thinking of you. xDEBT FREE - MARCH 2012 - NOW JUST THE MORTGAGE!
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Hi,
sounds like the guy is a complete !!!!!! and does not deserve you!
...Linda xxIt's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.0 -
Oh Emily, I know exactly what you're feeling right now and I wouldn't wish it on anyone at all
Trust your instincts, whatever he tells you and whatever you want to believe, your instincts will generally guide you as to what to believe 
PMme any time you like hun, I've been through it and its horrible, truly awful, but once you get to the other side (and it takes ages :rolleyes: ), you'll feel so superior to him 
Big hugs hun x Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
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Oh Emily i am so sorry to hear this. Big hugs to you, i wouldnt wish that upon anyway but you will come out the other side! Take care of yourself, and as someone else said make sure you take control of the situation!Biggest Loser Weight Loss: 13 / 20 lb0
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Emily~Hope you are ok hun.
Asw benbenandme says follow your instincts.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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Emily
Hope your doing ok today
You need to do whats best for you.
Im with everyone else when they say go with your instincts..... I've been there and went back and it just wasn't the same.
Am thinking of you
Buddiebabe xDEBT OUTSTANDING 23.04.17 £16802.970
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