Need someone to talk to.....

penguin83

Emily hunny - I'm here for a while if you need to talk - so sorry x x

Buffythedebtslayer

am just off to bed but couldn't read and run, I think one of the worst bits in this kind of situation is that you know really whether its true or not. I remember distinctly the moment I found out my BF was cheating on me, I just knew. he could have lied his way out of it, but there was no point. I KNEW.

Its essentially horrible Emily, it really is. And I am sorry, cos like other people have mentioned you post lots of good stuff here. nice people like you don't deserve !!!!bags as boyfriends. its the universe's way of saying move on he is not good enough.

I am just going to ramble meaninglessly now if I carry on typing, make a cup of tea have a good sob and fall asleep.

please don't feel alone, you did the right thing getting rid of him its hard but you are ok, honestly you are.

BIG HUGS

buffyxxxx

ehallett

Thanks everyone for your kind messages and PMs.

I will try to get some sleep now as have to be up early in the morning and know that I will have to pop in and see my mum before work thanks to the frantic answerphone message I left!!

Thanks again.

Emily x

mbaz

Hi Emily sorry to hear about your news. Really feel for you. did you manage to getgold of anyone this morning? I dont suppose you slept very well last night. (((hugs))) xxx

immoral_angeluk

Oh hunny I'm so sorry. It definately sounds like you're better off out of it though. Sending you massive hugs... :grouphug:

Shineyhappy

Poor you!

I don't know whether you are correct and neither do you by the sounds of it and I think that can be the worst thing as that is where the doubt creeps in.

Maybe you should talk to him again, hopefully he will have had time to realise that he doesnt want to loose you and will be more honest and open.

I hope you managed to get some sleep last night and are feeling a little stronger this morning.

Big hugs
x

Piquant_2

Oh Emily, how horrible for you, I wish I could make it all better for you.

You have done so much to help so many people on this board, you don't deserve this. If you want to chat at any time please contact me. I will be here for you.

xx

trancebabe

Emily - I'm so sorry hun and as much as I'd want to believe his 'obsessed work colleague' story, he's showing some classic behaviour patterns there of someone who is seeing someone else (and what a fool leaving a card on the side - unless he actually wanted you to find out ?!)

I hope you're ok... make sure you decide when he can come over and collect his things... take control early on!
xx

Ossireo

(((((((Big Hugs)))))))

I hope you managed to get in touch with your mum or someone close last night/today. I would be inclined to agree that it all sounds a bit fishy and the uncertainty would haunt the most laid back of people.

Be strong and everyone here is ready to support you 110%

xx

Lula-Hula

Hi Em,

sorry to hear the grim news, I agree with others that it doesnt sound good, however I would like to point out that men are easily flattered & it is kinda flattering to have someone so deperately wanting to be with you, so he may be innocent & just not know how to have told you about the bunny boiler...

I used to hate my xbf reading me texts & emails & opening my mail, not because I had anything to hide, just because we were'nt married or living together & it was a privacy issue. He was always suspicious though.

On the other hand, only you know if you believe him or not & like you say once the trust is gone...it's very hard to recover.

Either way, you're a fab person & deserve much better treatment & if you decide to end it for good with him then please come & join the single & really cack at dieting thread,

take care & lots of hugs hon,

lula xx