Depression Support Thread

Miroslav

:wave:

Cat is doing well and has responded well to treatment.

Met a strange lady, she made me nervous. She took me in and gave me breakfast.

Well, all true apart from the taking me in and giving me breakfast.......oh and maybe the strange bit - so the above isn't actually true, I just thought it would be witty....erm, maybe, if anyone has any idea what i'm going on about :rolleyes:

Maybe she is strange - well she acts strange...

To cut a long story short......met a young lady, was really nice and we both acted nervously, then the 4th/5th time, she totally ignored me and spoke about something to do with me that I have a vested interest in, to someone else whilst I was standing there. Didn't even acknowledge me the whole time I was in the same room :rolleyes:

Same old, same old. I'm just glad I didn't get in deep this time. I'd stopped thinking about the possibility of a 'relationship' at any stage in the future, then someone comes along that takes your breath away, only to realise I was stupid to think someone who comes across as kind, caring, intelligent and cute would have any interest in the likes of me :rolleyes:

Just another woman who has wasted my time. I must have 'Sucker' tattooed on my forehead.

I've been told people ignore people for reasons other than not liking them, but I don't have time for being messed about :rolleyes: Their is no way this seemingly well educated and brought up young lady would stoop to my level.

Oh well, back to the gobsh-ites and opinionated chavs Well, maybe not.

shazrobo

hi miro, good news re the cat, am pleased he/she has responded well to treatment
sorry the lady has treated you unkindly, i don't have a reason why someone would act that way, i too think she is strange for acting that way.
you are a very caring and genuine young man, and thats what most ladies including myself would prefer to be with.
hugs
shaz xxx

shazrobo

morning all, hope everyone is well this morning, think i might be coming down with a cold, have woken with a sore throat, and a headache.
had another fab night out yesterday, went to pizza hut first then went to the cinema, and watched a very funny film called "zack and miri, make a !!!!!! movie"
have busy day again today, going to look at a car this morn before seeing mental health nurse for a review, craft group after lunch, then meeting my support worker in town for a coffee and a chat
hugs all
shaz xxx

absolutebounder

Miroslav wrote: »

:wave:

Cat is doing well and has responded well to treatment.

Met a strange lady, she made me nervous. She took me in and gave me breakfast.

Well, all true apart from the taking me in and giving me breakfast.......oh and maybe the strange bit - so the above isn't actually true, I just thought it would be witty....erm, maybe, if anyone has any idea what i'm going on about :rolleyes:

Maybe she is strange - well she acts strange...

To cut a long story short......met a young lady, was really nice and we both acted nervously, then the 4th/5th time, she totally ignored me and spoke about something to do with me that I have a vested interest in, to someone else whilst I was standing there. Didn't even acknowledge me the whole time I was in the same room :rolleyes:

Same old, same old. I'm just glad I didn't get in deep this time. I'd stopped thinking about the possibility of a 'relationship' at any stage in the future, then someone comes along that takes your breath away, only to realise I was stupid to think someone who comes across as kind, caring, intelligent and cute would have any interest in the likes of me :rolleyes:

Just another woman who has wasted my time. I must have 'Sucker' tattooed on my forehead.

I've been told people ignore people for reasons other than not liking them, but I don't have time for being messed about :rolleyes: Their is no way this seemingly well educated and brought up young lady would stoop to my level.

Oh well, back to the gobsh-ites and opinionated chavs Well, maybe not.

Glad the old moggy is getting better.
Men women dogs and cats are all very logical in their actions its just that as a rule women and cats use a rather devious skewed logic whereas men and dogs is much simpler.:D
You being a cat lover should have a better understanding of the female than many of us. When the woman ignored you did you talk to her or just ignore her too? as shaz says women like caring gentlemen but they also like men to be men, not in a violent way but men are supposed to have balls however you are only allowed to show them at the right times.
A good book to read is Men are from mars and women are from venus

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Hope all is well,I am fine today,seeing my Community nurse around 4pm today for a nice chat.I am not doing much today besides cleaning my flat and seeing my parents

Have a lovely day!


love and light,

Katie xxx

gillette147

Hello folks,

It's been a while. There came a time when I needed to get out into the real world more and MSE is far too addictive. This was always the greatest part of MSE and I was sorry to leave it.

I have just popped in to give you all a hug and let you know that I am doing great. I have lost nearly 3 stone in weight. I have been going out with gorgeous Sazbo for 3 months now. Each day with her is wonderful and my life has changed (FOR THE BETTER) forever.

I never thought I would find happiness but I was always open to it. This is the key. Stay ready for it. MSE will save us all. I always believed it and maybe it has in my case.

Take care of yourselves and remember that the critical voice in your head cannot be heard by anyone else. Ignore it and it doesn't exist.
xxxxxxxxx

Tulip

Hi Gillette,

glad you are happy and well done on losing your weight,thats great I am glad things are going well with you and Sazbo

*hugs* back


love and light,

Katie xxx

Miroslav

shazrobo wrote: »

hi miro, good news re the cat, am pleased he/she has responded well to treatment
sorry the lady has treated you unkindly, i don't have a reason why someone would act that way, i too think she is strange for acting that way.
you are a very caring and genuine young man, and thats what most ladies including myself would prefer to be with.
hugs
shaz xxx

Yeah, she's done really well. Anyone had done the things to me that the vet/we have had to do to the cat, and i'd have slapped a few people about, but she's just taken it in her stride

I don't really know the woman. I think she has been trying to work me out and she's worked out i'm too ugly/poor/below her to care.

It was nice to dream for a short while though, even if i've come out of it a little sad and with losing the little hope I had.

It's funny (well, it's not) - everyone says they want a kind, caring bloke, but my experience is the opposite.

Miroslav

shazrobo wrote: »

morning all, hope everyone is well this morning, think i might be coming down with a cold, have woken with a sore throat, and a headache.
had another fab night out yesterday, went to pizza hut first then went to the cinema, and watched a very funny film called "zack and miri, make a !!!!!! movie"
have busy day again today, going to look at a car this morn before seeing mental health nurse for a review, craft group after lunch, then meeting my support worker in town for a coffee and a chat
hugs all
shaz xxx

:eek: Thought that said Miro :rotfl:I didn't feel a thing

Miroslav

absolutebounder wrote: »

Glad the old moggy is getting better.
Men women dogs and cats are all very logical in their actions its just that as a rule women and cats use a rather devious skewed logic whereas men and dogs is much simpler.:D
You being a cat lover should have a better understanding of the female than many of us. When the woman ignored you did you talk to her or just ignore her too? as shaz says women like caring gentlemen but they also like men to be men, not in a violent way but men are supposed to have balls however you are only allowed to show them at the right times.
A good book to read is Men are from mars and women are from venus

Old is the correct word Runs around like a kitten though

I've lived with women most of my life. All different and all say one thing and do another :eek:

I just ignored the woman and turned away and started talking to someone else. If she was going to ignore me, I couldn't ignore her as she wasn't attempting to talk to me.

I've no trouble being a man. I've been told many times, I'm a man, sometimes too abrupt, but in the main caring. Apparently I look like someone not to mess with which can frighten people off. I just have no time to be messed around by anyone and if it's her game, then she's lost the game. I'm very straightforward and like others to be too, especially in a relationship sense.

I've been told she probably likes me but feels awkward and ignoring someone isn't always a rejection, but also fear and shyness etc etc.

Sadly, she just left me feeling ignored and believing she felt she was too good for me.

On a positive note - her loss more than mine. I feel I have a lot to give, as long as it's not financially, which sadly rules alot of things out.

Nice women - where are you???????????