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  • pinkbubblegum
    pinkbubblegum Posts: 296 Forumite
    10past6 wrote: »
    I'm in need of many things :o:D I'm not sure where money fits in tho :rotfl:
    Love, hope, happiness?
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    pinkbubblegum wrote: »
    Love, hope, happiness?

    I have all those, sometimes tho, one just can't put a finger on it :confused:
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

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  • pinkbubblegum
    pinkbubblegum Posts: 296 Forumite
    10past6 wrote: »
    I have all those, sometimes tho, one just can't put a finger on it :confused:
    lucky sod...
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    pinkbubblegum wrote: »
    lucky sod...
    Those 3 subjects you mention are out there, just a question of finding them ;)
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

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  • pinkbubblegum
    pinkbubblegum Posts: 296 Forumite
    my lack of hope has stopped me even belivein the other 2 are out there
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    pinkbubblegum wrote: »
    my lack of hope has stopped me even belivein the other 2 are out there
    PGB, it's not a lack of hope that you have difficulty with, it's a lack of confidence with believing in yourself.

    I've experienced psychological issues for well over 30 years, in an attempt to "Cure" myself, I challenged myself to do things regardless of what it was, be it not going out, not eating, not mixing, I viewed those issues as challenges, I told myself, I'm in charge of the issues rather than the issues being in charge of me.

    No matter what obstacles you face, that’s all they are, obstacles, noting is stopping you from overcoming them, except you ;)
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

    All information given by myself is offered informally and without prejudice - if in doubt seek help from a qualified and insured professional
  • pinkbubblegum
    pinkbubblegum Posts: 296 Forumite
    a scary thought, but your right... im in charge
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    pinkbubblegum wrote: »
    your right... im in charge
    It takes time to program your brain from it being “in a routine”

    It’s won’t happen overnight, in a week, in a month, it takes a long time, but you have the capability to do it.

    Instead of making today your “Stop smoking day” why not make it your new out look on life, in that, you are now in control, when you’re feeling down, allow the depression to have it’s time, but then put it to bed, and remind yourself when the depression reappears, you are in control as to how long it lingers around you.

    Not sure if that makes sense, probably didn’t come out the way I wanted it to.

    May I ask, what age group you're in?
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

    All information given by myself is offered informally and without prejudice - if in doubt seek help from a qualified and insured professional
  • pinkbubblegum
    pinkbubblegum Posts: 296 Forumite
    im 19 :)

    And yes, makes sense... not sure i like the fact it'll take ages
  • 10past6
    10past6 Posts: 4,962 Forumite
    pinkbubblegum wrote: »
    not sure i like the fact it'll take ages
    It'll take as long as you allow it ;)

    Do you have a true family member, friend, work colleague you can confide / trust in.
    Click here for Martins (MSE) advice on who to contact with Debt Issues - YOU HAVE NO REASON TO USE A FEE PAYING DEBT MANAGEMENT COMPANY- THEY CANNOT DO ANYMORE FOR YOU THAN THOSE LISTED IN MY LINK ABOVE.

    All information given by myself is offered informally and without prejudice - if in doubt seek help from a qualified and insured professional
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