Depression Support Thread

Horasio

goodlife wrote: »

Hello everyone

Sorry i've not been around for a few days. Not even been much lurking to be done!

Hubby is still away. Think he is regretting his actions now. Seems to want to worm his way back. Sent me a text (one of several) saying that we could sit down rationally and sort everything out and work out a plan to move forward. Said it was up to me which I think is ridiculuous as it was him who left me. Don't know what to do. Obviously I miss him, but actually have been having a nice week despite being lonely. Have slept better than I have in months and the house has never been so clean and tidy lol. Best thing though - no shirts to iron!

Love to all
xxx

Does he keep doing the same thing and not really changing? There is no use in him coming back if he goes back to being a twonk again and you having to go thro this again.

Yes don't they mess the place up?

Not feeling good tonight about the opposite sex myself.:mad:

maytaurus

liz_fogg

hi,,can anyone HELP i have been going through the menopause for 9 years was put on hrt 4 years into it until about 4 months ago when i came off hrt.i have not been able 2 sleep at nite 4 about 9 months [HAVE ALSO HAD stress and anxiety 4 many years ] the sweats r that bad u would think i was just out the bath about 30 times both day and nite i am agitated,,moody,,very weepy i could go on and on ,THE moods r that bad i have been argueing constantly with my husband, thrown my daughter and son out the house last friday and will not let them bac in ..i have been 2 the doc,s but he is never any help ,,i have only got my oldest daughter left she seems 2 understand,,does anyone no any good HERBAL treatment 4 the flushes ,moods ,,B4 i have no 1 left ,I ..TOTALLY EXHAUSTED ,,THANKS LIZ XX

Tiff_2

Hi guys!
I hope everyone is as well as they can be and a sincere Tiffy to tattoo bum(tb) and liz fogg(liz). Well done on making your first posts guys - I know the guardian angels here will support you as best as they can.:T

Well peeps, I pray that you're all fully rested because come about 4pm, the anklebiters will be out in their hordes to snaffle your smarties and you're not going to get any peace tonight!

Does anyone know of anything that will ward off the wee ones?
Not that I'm a fraidy cat or nuffink - - I just want to be prepared for all eventualities, that's all!;)
+ + + + + + 777

I hope everyone has a safe and enjoyable time and just before I go, a very little joke...

What's creamy and chocolatey and can read the future?

An Eclair-Voyant!

Safe journeys guys.

Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Tiff_2

Hi may!
How are you hunnie?
Ahem - I was a little shocked when I saw you post a piccie of a w-a-g-g-y t-h-i-n-g, angel...

may wrote:

Stay behind and see me after class please!

Aah, never mind hun - I see that you have already seen the error of your ways may, ...

may wrote:

You may have 4 of sazzy's smarties as a reward, hunnie!

Thank you for your lovely jokes and pics angel - take care of yourself.
Much Love,

Tiff xxx

absolutebounder

Elmostreet wrote: »

HELLO everyone.

I have one question for you all-
how do you keep meaning in your everyday life?
I mean what can help bob you up when u are down?:A
Katix

Hi Kati
To stay good there are 3 things rather like 3 sides of a triangle which all affect each other.
The first is to know yourself. If I asked !who are you" I would probably get back about 3 or 4 things eg I am xyz a mother of two with a part time job working as a abc. Is that all you are? NO but after a few more trys I would still have a very limited picture of who you are and this is because some people lose touch with themselves. this means if you just focus on one or two things like a partner or your job and that goes. what are you left with? All your value has gone and so you see yourself without value. Values are the second part of the triangle. What are your true values? I asked some one here (cant remember who and it wasnt answered anyway) Do you value happiness? Many people will say they do but actually do very little themselves to achieve it. This is because they would trather sacrifice their values for the short term approval of others so that the face they have made up for the rest of the world can be maintained. These people are often seen through and see others as making judgements about them which because they have sacrificed their true values makes them see themselves as valueless.
The third side is what you expect from others. I got in to trouble here for saying like attracts like so I will use someone elses explanation and just say Pygmalion effect. ie if you expect others to treat you badly they probably will.
Get these three sides of the triangle right and you will never be depressed but you can start with any side and it will act on the other two.

brenda_p_a

Tiff wrote: »

Hi guys!

I hope everyone is as well as they can be and a sincere Tiffy to tattoo bum(tb) and liz fogg(liz). Well done on making your first posts guys - I know the guardian angels here will support you as best as they can.:T

Well peeps, I pray that you're all fully rested because come about 4pm, the anklebiters will be out in their hordes to snaffle your smarties and you're not going to get any peace tonight!

Does anyone know of anything that will ward off the wee ones?
Not that I'm a fraidy cat or nuffink - - I just want to be prepared for all eventualities, that's all!;)
+ + + + + + 777

I hope everyone has a safe and enjoyable time and just before I go, a very little joke...

What's creamy and chocolatey and can read the future?

An Eclair-Voyant!

Safe journeys guys.

Much Love,

Tiff xxx

http://www.warwickshire.police.uk/crimeprevention/PDFs/Halloweenposter.pdf/Halloweenposter.pdf

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Morning! hope all is well,thanks CCStar for thinking of me re my friend.I am out to a pub today for lunch and then going to do a food shop as usual,must remember to take my shopping bags :rotfl:

Have a lovely day everyone


love and light,

Katie xxx

ilovegreatdanes

HELLO EVERYONE........
i havent been on the site for yonks but have thought of you lot loads.
hope you are all doing as good as you can and your glasses are at least half full:)
maximum spaniel is 6 months on 2nd nov and is sending me even madder than i was before.i am gettin lots of exercise now so theres an upside to everything....
am seein a counseller on 10th and am in 2 minds about it, pardon the punt!!!
be glad wen tonites over as i always end up wishing we had a revolving door installed, and really wanting some of those big electric iron gates at the end of a mile long drive way.....and a spaniel that resembled a giant rottweiler to scare away the hordes.
another thing that we have to thank the americans for....
....see i havent changed abit ,have i???
i will try to keep in touch and wish you all the best.
loads of love.ilgd xxxx

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

I am fine today,had a nice lunch at the pub,it was tasty,got a bat biscuit at a bakery and ate that to celebrate Halloween in my own way.

I then got my food shop done and then came home I got a mars bar and a can of orangeade to have later whilst watching Monster House which I got on dvd a week or 2 ago.

Have a nice evening!


*hugs* to those that need one


love and light,

Katie xxx