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  • Troll reported. Folks - don't respond to him/her please - all his/her post will be removed by a mod shortly.
    :D Make a list of important things to do today. At the top, put 'eat chocolate'. Now, you'll get at least one thing done today. :D
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Are you ok Sea? xx
  • hope youre ok sea...missed the troll and hope you did too!!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • Sea78
    Sea78 Posts: 6,185 Forumite
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    Hey all

    I told him last night - so now he is also going for full custody and the house as sees my point about the kids being too young to move about like that.

    Had a corking day today - walked in on my head of dept and colleague in dept slagging me and my teaching off. They didn't see me and carried on for some time in the cupboard. Joy. So not only is home awful, work is too now. :(

    not much else to report, feeling down.

    Sea xx
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  • vandanfc
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    Oh Sea, sorry. Have a hug and keep your chin up.
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Sea78 wrote: »
    Hey all

    I told him last night - so now he is also going for full custody and the house as sees my point about the kids being too young to move about like that.

    Had a corking day today - walked in on my head of dept and colleague in dept slagging me and my teaching off. They didn't see me and carried on for some time in the cupboard. Joy. So not only is home awful, work is too now. :(

    not much else to report, feeling down.

    Sea xx
    No judge worth his salt would give custody to your OH so i wouldnt worry on that score:cool:
    And as for your colleagues:eek: :eek: :eek: :mad:
    I would be requesting a formal meeting with Head Of Dept and a union rep or a personnel member to complain about what you heard.
    That was just horrible hun (((((hugs)))
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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Sorry things are bad at the moment.
    Your OH has no chance of getting the kids or the house so you shouldn't worry about that.
    How awful of your colleagues to talk like that behind your back!!!..did they see you afterwards?
  • aww mate...re oh - are ou really surprised? From all youve said just prooves the point that he doesent care enough to put the children first. Sorry to hear that people have been nasty at work. Do you have anyone that you can talk to about it? Maybe ask the head of dept for a private chat and ask what it is he/she unhappy about so that you can respond and ask for training if necessary. Also say how hurt you were...Huge hugs for you...let me know if I can do owt to help...
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

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