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hellooooo. Just catching up. umm...can understand why you feel awkward re the unreasonable behaviour but being honest he has been very unreasonable, verging on cruel, at times. If he is going to live with his mum for very little or no rent I dont understand why you are takeing on teh work loan as well as your own debt? are you planning to sell the house or stay there? re the kids I would think long and hard about the time he has them while he is drinking as much as he is. I have no doubt at all that the three of you will be happier all round when you are a safe, secure unit but know its hard for you as so much planning etc and its exhausting. Hope the bh has been peaceful for you...hugs for you...you know where I am if you need a chat...Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.0
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Just checking in to say hi, Sea, hope you're okay, and the weather hasn't got the kids rocketing around the house with unspent energy....2023: the year I get to buy a car0
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Just popping by to see if you are ok?0
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hurroooo...how you doing?Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.0
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Please post Sea to let us know you are ok xx0
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Everything ok sea?Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
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hi all
I am fine - sorry- only got back yesterday - will update things a little later when the kids aren't tearing each other apart!!
Sea xxxCCCS DMP:Feb 07
Total:£37,016.47 now £0 DEBT FREE FEB 14
2022 Decluttering Campaign 49/10110 -
Glad everything's OK. Off for a few days, but will be thinking of you.A budget is like a speed sign - a LIMIT not a TARGET!!
CHALLENGES
2025 Declutter:
1 CONTAINER (box/bag/folder etc) per day; 50/365
1 FROG (minimum) per week; 6/52
WEIGHT I'll start with 25 lbs (though I need to lose more!) and see how it goes...🤔 0/25
2025 NSDs: 15 per MONTH - FEB 4/15; JAN 21/15
2025 Fashion on the Ration: (carried over from 2024) 10+66 = 76
2025 Make Do, Mend & Minimise No target, just remember to report!
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Well, back to school tomorrow and back in normal routine, which I think will be good - not been having such a great time as just feel a little down.
We've reached some new arrangements - 50/50 down the line, so need to visit solicitor to see what will happen about house etc. I can probably afford to keep the houe on, but want a clean financial break from him.
The children are happier now things are civil in the house, which is nice and they too will benefit from teh routine of going back to school and childminder.
Hope all are well and happy
Sea xxxxxxCCCS DMP:Feb 07
Total:£37,016.47 now £0 DEBT FREE FEB 14
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Good to hear from you Sea. You had us all worried.
Take care.
Vanda0
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