Marriage over don't know where to start

kizzykizzywizzy

She just keeps crying that she can't go to sleep & she's scared of the dark - she probably wants to get in with me yet again, but I don't really want her in here every night, because she doesn't sleep & I don't get any time away from her at all then.
What I was going to say about the first text was that he did ask how we ALL were, which made me feel quite happy.
He hasn't done anything yet about looking for a room, or changing his payroll into his new bank account - which he only opened because I told him he had to. He hasn't sorted solicitors or anything, now this could be because he's lazy:p but might be he's hoping he doesn't have to.

kizzykizzywizzy

SFH hope all goes well for your DS tomorrow

littleangels3

hope it goes well at solicitors 2mora big hugs xxxx

worried_user

My son started crying and saying he was scared of the dark when my husband left so I got him some of those glow in the dark stickers and let him help me put them on his ceiling. He is fine now and excited to see them at bed time. Dont know how old your DD is but just an idea.

greeniegirl

HI Kizzy
sorry to hear you'd such a rough day..
know tis easy say but you'll have to get your sleep, don't let the children come in if you can.
i know you are apart but your OH is sharingthe parenting too. he's telling you to tell him if you want anything picked up. If I were you I'd let him come over and do some of the childminding etc - does he live far away? wouldn't that be a chance to get some valuable time on your own to recharge the batteries.
proper order he asked how you were - so he should. However realise tis easy for him, you're doing the hard work. Don't think too nicely of him! hope you sleep well

kizzykizzywizzy

I think the dark thing is an excuse as she likes to get in with me!
Husband about 20-30 mins walk away, I've got the car.
He's really good with looking after them when he's here & now he's back to normal self after I found out about everything, he was very snappy with them before - unlike him, but I expect it was because he was carrying such a lot of guilt.
Going to bed now
night folks

scottishfreebiehunter

Hi guys


Called the so called father of my ds and he is on way here to take him to school,in one breathe he said he did not turn phone off and in second he said was p e e d off,oh dear what he does not want to take the rough with the smooth with his son what a cheek.
Well I will get my ds to school and hopefully he manages through the day and then will tear my oh to bits,as he will not just be there for the good times with our son.

justme123_3

Good Morning sfh hope all goes well today with ds and his new school
Jo x

gerturdeanna

Oh good, I'm glad you managed to get hold of him SFH!!

kizzykizzywizzy

Hi sfh glad he's coming to take DS to school.
Can you 2 not call a truce, for your son's sake ( you don't have to mention it will be nicer for you too )
I'm handling things so much better, now we are not arguing.
Only trouble is, now we are just like normal, I keep getting my hopes up that we will be ok.
Dreading the Solicitors, missing my husband & tired from having such a bad day with the children, all of this has really affected them, even though you try not to it does.