Marriage over don't know where to start

gerturdeanna

Solicitor said that if he doesn't pay then we can take it further and the judge will order him to pay - don't know if that is entirly true - just hope it doesn't get that far!!

justme123_3

Hi All I have spent the last 4 hours reading this thread and just have to say what a strong loving bunch you all are hope you all get what you want (nay deserve) and its great to see the support you have given each other ,My husband left me about 2 months ago for a younger woman we have been married for 25 years I had no idea he was carrying on thought we were happy the afternoon before he left we were trying to decide where to go on holiday ,what an idiot I am anyway he has gone now and I am trying to rebuild my life we have 2 children son has left home and a daughter at uni so I am a free woman and determined to make the most of it he is now saddled with the local bike and her young kids lol and is the laughing stock of the town (im lovin it)at first was devastated as I really thought we would grow old together ,but now I realise Im better off on my own BTW he cheated on me when the children were young 12 and 6 and I took him back for the sake of the kids wish I hadnt coz then I was so much younger like you kizzy and sfh and gert and would have probably met someone else to share my life with so what Im trying to say is (im carp at posting) get on with your lives and enjoy the time with your kids dont sit waiting for him as he will probably do it again not trying to be negative just honest
Jox

bank_of_slate

Excellent post justme!
You are an inspiration!
Stick around as I'm sure having gone through this yourself you can really empathise with the others on this thread who are still feeling very 'raw'
...Linda xx

Rikki

bank_of_slate wrote: »

Excellent post justme!
You are an inspiration!
Stick around as I'm sure having gone through this yourself you can really empathise with the others on this thread who are still feeling very 'raw'
...Linda xx

I'm twelve years down the line but some of the points you lot have raised remind me of what I went through and how far I've come.

justme123_3

thanks linda and rikki I will stick around and hope I can help a little
Jo x

gerturdeanna

Please do Justme - its nice to hear of people going through the same and having come out the other end just fine. Been through his wallet tonight and I'm pretty sure he's had a tattoo done!! !!!!!!!! Why?? If its anything to do with her, I'll cut it off and effing throw it in her face!!!

Having a bad time now if you hadn't guessed!! Was speaking to the sil on facebook before and shes as bemused as me but I defo sure she's been told a different story!!

scottishfreebiehunter

Having bad time tonight also he has turned off his mobile again:rolleyes:and ds trying to get in touch with him

justme123_3

how do I become a member of the husbands are rubbish club would love to add to my sig so someone give me a number
Jox

kizzykizzywizzy

I think you'd be no 3 justme
I on the other hand am the only member of the save my marriage club

No one else seems to want to join for some reason:rotfl:

bank_of_slate

gerturdeanna wrote: »

Please do Justme - its nice to hear of people going through the same and having come out the other end just fine. Been through his wallet tonight and I'm pretty sure he's had a tattoo done!! !!!!!!!! Why?? If its anything to do with her, I'll cut it off and effing throw it in her face!!!

Having a bad time now if you hadn't guessed!! Was speaking to the sil on facebook before and shes as bemused as me but I defo sure she's been told a different story!!

He's having a mid life crisis!
for sure.

Is it this one?

...Linda xx

P.S How ya doin Kizz?